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Archived questions from: 25 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I say? Now the way she talks, it's like she thinks we are together again, but I'm over her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid I am ashamed of myself. Last night, I ended up sleeping with my ex. She called me crying a lot as her brother was hit by a car in Australia. I helped her over the phone and she was crying so much that I went to her place. After she calmed down, she asked me if I ... (194 words)

My controlling bf keeps calling. I want to leave, but feel guilty. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Please advise. I'VE been in a relationship with a very controlling man for 3 years. I have distanced myself recently, as I keep getting hurt,and decided to stop taking his calls. I HAVEN'T seen him for around two weeks, bv this week, HE'S called me 9 times,an... (118 words)

He's going through a divorce. Am I just his little secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently become involved with someone who lives in my block of apartments. I've known him for 4 years but he was married. They separated 3 months ago and are going through a divorce. We have become very friendly, always texting, popping over to each others apartments etc. ... (163 words)

I'm afraid its going to come down to my g/f choosing either me or her mom. Do I walk away now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about seven months now. We have a very healthy and happy relationship. Recently, though, I've come across a bit of an internal dilemma. She has never been in a relationship with a woman before until me. I thought she would have had a harde... (317 words)

Is my boyfriend cheating or am I just being paranoid, please help my hearts breaking

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well this is abit mad but I need some advise, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now and I cant help it but I just keep thinking hes cheating on me since one day he was at work and called me and said he has to go back to work that night for a few hour... (369 words)

I don't want to lose my marriage over porn...but I cannot trust someone who will look me in the face and lie.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband knows how I feel about watching porn behind my back and lying about it. I don't like him watching it at all because I know that my body doesnt compare to those girls (after having his baby my stomach was severely covered in stretch marks). So I asked him just to be ... (159 words)

I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her or anything along those line... (438 words)

My Sister and my second cousin are in love. What can I do to prevent this going even further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I love and care about my little Sister a lot and I want to always support her decision's in life. So far online after researching this issue that I am about to discuss... I realized that they are a lot of cousins that have fallen in love with each other,got married a... (396 words)

Does he really like me? How come the gf is never mentioned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a physio since January, and I felt an instant attraction to him and I have been flirting with him since and he has been returning the flirting based on is body language. For example: - Asking frequently if I'm single - Changing treatment plans to keep ... (260 words)

Since this girl came into the picture its like I don't even exist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I've been debating whether or not I should ask for help on this problem because it's so long and confusing but I'm really confused and need help and need to get this all off my chest. I've always had a great relationship with my boyfriend and his friends, we have... (527 words)

The do's and don't of sex and pierced clit??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My new gf has a pierced clit. Any ideas on things to avoid and things to do with her intimacy wise? Thanks for any advice.... (25 words)

Why have I already resigned myself to the fact that I'll never find someone ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and pretty good looking, I get told quite often I could get most girls (by both guys and girls). To begin with it was a nice ego boost to think people believed that about me. But now it just depresses me as in actual fact I never done anything more than kiss one girl. ... (148 words)

Does my sons dad love our son or is he just hanging around for sex from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my ex almost four years ago. We had known each other a few mnth and i fell pregnant. He is from africa and when i met him he had two yrs before visa ran out.we had a pretty good relationship. But the situation was hard i didnt think he was the dad but it turned ou... (277 words)

Is it normal for ex wives/husbands going on vacation together normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age - I am on my third marriage/my wife also her third. My wife is going on vacation with her grown kids, grandchildren and with her ex husband from her first marriage. The ex is bringing his girlfriend also. I just find it strange that she would want to go on vacation with her ex. ... (84 words)

My mother doesn't want to relocated to a new city. Do I leave her behind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am relocating to a different city. My mother lives with me and she doesn't want to relocate with me. She has sundowning sometime and I don't feel comfortable leaving her behind. How can I convince her to go with me. We have been living together for 6 months my mother and ... (204 words)

My husband being a night owl is causing problems in our marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a night owl whilst i quite like my sleep! But the difference is annoying not only at home but socially. Like we were at a wedding yesterday and i had work the next day - i said maybe we could go home around 12. But we agreed on 1am. It came and went and even... (177 words)

Would you be offended if a guy you were dating joked you are a cheap date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I was seeing someone, everything was going well but it recently fizzled out and she decided she just wants to be friends. I've been wracking my brains trying to remember if I did or said anything wrong and all I can think of is a time when we were out at lunch and I joked she ... (135 words)

Why a sudden change of mind for us so soon after deciding we didn't want a child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, we had the "baby talk" and both decided it was right timing right now, but I've been panicking about the unprotected sex we had. I asked him as we cuddled in bed last night what he wants for us in the future and he said "can we have a ... (119 words)

Should I tolerate this kind of behavior from my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Last night I went to a bar with my boyfriend, we went to order the drinks and the bartender was an old man. After that we sat in a table and were talking, all of a sudden my boyfriend started saying bad things to me, he said i was a bitch and go there at the bar cause you ... (251 words)

Will we be passing HPV back and forth if we keep having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age - Hello, well a women friend of mine, had a pap smear, it came back she has hpv, am the only man she's been with in years, I'm wondering, I've been told it can up to 2 years for your immune system to clear it up, I know their is a lot of different strain's of it, now if we are ... (197 words)

He wouldn't even say "happy birthday" to me after I used all my lunch money to buy him birthday presents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i like this guy who talks to a lot of girls and we started talking and texting for two weeks and we even stayed up together until 3 before but then things started to change..he found out that i like him and just started to ignore me. yesterday was my birthday and he wont even ... (111 words)

Please help me understand my bisexual boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My current boyfriend, Johnny, used to go out with a 21 year old bisexual guy, Kevin. They dated for 4 years. During that time, their relationship was open from the start and Johnny who is gay, forced himself to conform to Kevin's ways and slept with women. They would have ... (194 words)

My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the wedding date. Another thing.. my boy... (141 words)

I'm single again. Now I think I've fallen in love with my best friend, What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been extremely close to my friend for a little over 3 years now. Our friendship started out with us liking each other, then we kind of got over it and I got a boyfriend and was with him for 3 years. But my friend and I talk for hours on end on the phone and consistently ... (244 words)

If he was backing off from me, why go to such lengths to show that this girl is just his friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a quick question about male behavior. I have a friend i work with.. He was real flirty and and a big group of us went out and he was all about me. I didn't really think a whole lot on it since he was going through a divorce and we were all drinking. He then would text ... (720 words)

How can I get this man to commit to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I'm 21 and my boyfried is 39. Yes, I realize the age difference but that's never mattered to me and my parents don't seem to mind much. We've been together since I was 18 and for being my age, that's a long time. Yes, we've both had a few relationships in the past and ... (266 words)

I have to take the bus to see him. How can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I've asked a question about this before, but I need some more advice. Basically, I like someone a lot. Lots in common, we argue about literature and politics. I'm 14 he's 16. My last question was based on whether 2/3 years was too big an age gap and the response was 'th... (143 words)

Is there anyone else out there suffering from Misophonia

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there anyone else out there suffering from Misophonia (a form of sound sensitivity where noises like people chewing, breathing, snoring etc provoke a fight or flight/rage response in the sufferer) who can offer me any advice about coping with it? I am 27 and have been ... (235 words)