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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there any hope of me getting her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I had been with my now ex girlfriend for a little over a year, the last 3 months however was long distance. We spoke basically everyday and I went to see her 4times in that space. I asked her if iI could move up to the same place and iif she felt it was too soon in our ... (501 words)

He struggles to talk to me. Could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a crush for a while now, and I have a feeling he might like me, as do my friends and his sister. He's never had a girlfriend or kissed anybody that I know of, and he's very shy when it comes to relationships and romantic interests. I'm also quite shy and before I... (346 words)

Is it weird that I don't want a boyfriend at 19?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and in my first year at uni, and I've never had a boyfriend before or during uni (or even been on a date, though I've been asked out quite a few times). I've never slept with anyone either. I just don't see the point of short-term stuff. It seems like a waste of time. ... (307 words)

Was this a friendly rejection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres a guy who i see once a month due to work and he will flirt and so on just with me even though we have a big group. Today i emailed him internally stating: i've had a really naff day!are you free for a drink after work?I can ask ..(a mutual friend) to come to. i un... (96 words)

Thoughts please?why the build up but no action?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend at work asked me to collect him from his parents house stating hes home alone few days house sitting and as we had to go same destination i said sure. Collected him and we went to destination. Days he has been flirting, never before given me his number but he asked and ... (182 words)

How can I deal with this selfish man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! Really need some relationship advice :( so I have been with my fiance for 2.5 years. I have always supported him, he wanted to go into the army - I stuck around, he wanted to do a degree from home - I stuck around, he now wants to stick in his job and go into politics ... (304 words)

I'm like a big secret to his family and friends. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My partner and I have been together for a little over 3 yaers now and have lived together for 2 years. Over that time I've goten to know him and to this day i still cant figure out a few things about him and why he does things. I've only met his parents once, briefly and ... (331 words)

I'm nervous all the time! I wasn't always this way. What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

9 May 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I feel nervous all the time! to the point, I can't breathe and I feel sick. I don't know why, or what I'm particularly nervous about because it's all the time. I'm constantly concerned about my family an wether they are okay/safe, sometimes when I leave my mum and dad I feel ... (162 words)

No contact with ex since he broke things off. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi really hope you can help i was with a man for 4 months who i really loved i met his family who i got on well with me and my ex were so in sync with each other we would say the same things at the same time we had known each other for 5 years before we got together he broke up ... (138 words)

My husband is more interested in the TV than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I get my feelings hurt because I do not see my husband all day and when he gets home the first thing he does is go to the TV and stays there all night.(when I do talk to him he doesn't hear half of what I say either) I work part time and then come home and take care of ... (213 words)

I don't think I can cope with another disappointment from boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts. My bf moved in with me 2 years ago and then his ex wife ordered him to move back (his old place was close to hers and with me he was an hour away) because he was not so available for the 2 kids. Which he did. Now he is looking at a new job which is in my town with a ... (166 words)

Am I too young to be thinking of marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Just a quick question. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 26. We have been together for 8 months. I really love him and he loves me. Everything is great. The trouble is we have started to talk about marriage- I want to marry him and think that he is the perfect man for me. But ... (98 words)

My friends were pushing me so they could upset me and it worked.....was it really a joke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I had two friends. Il call them friend A and B. We have been friends for 5years since grade 7 (now in grade11). Well, we had conflicts here and there but they never lasted this long. Unfortunately, something unexpected happened the day before yesterday. Let me tell you a lil ... (267 words)

Am I in the friend zone? Or should I kiss him when we go out next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've been friends with this guy for about a year and a half and as of September we've been talking on the phone and texting every day. He's in the army so he only comes home for the weekend like once every 6 weeks. I don't really know what the set up with us is, I've... (252 words)

Is she hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - For 1 im with a girl together.Everything is alright, amazing actually she never said anything bad about me or my habbits she slept over at my place, she told her parents about me and they dont have anything against it. My problem is: She studys at college in a city (100km aw... (218 words)

Why do so many girls have sex so early in life and become promiscuous when many don't even orgasm through sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd like to hear here from girls how often they reach orgasm during sex.the reason why I'm asking is because I've read on internet that only 30% or girls/woman reach orgasm, this makes me a bit confused because girls are having sex more then in past and also they're losing ... (70 words)

My girlfriend's mother has banned us from talking to each other! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so the situation is that me and my girlfriend have been a serious relationship for about six months. We live in different countries, but we have both talked about this and we are hopefully going to resolve that in the coming year. As of yesterday, her mother has decided ... (157 words)

Rumours are circulating that my girlfriend hooked up with another guy when she was out of town, but the emails date to before we met. Who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi There has been a incident in my relationship. The other week my girlfriend went to the city With her girlfriend and I went to a party with my mates. Later on during the week I heard from a few people that My girlfriend hooked up with a guy who's known to us Outside a ce... (184 words)

I think my boyfriend is infatuated with his female friend; are we at a dead end? Shall I let him go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I believe my boyfriend has an infatuation over his female friend. I sensed and saw it when I first met her and saw how they acted together.(at the time i felt it was just him acting on it to make me jealous, i sensed insecurties, especially as he felt he was 'punching above his ... (519 words)

I feel ridiculously rejected by her remarks. Will this affect our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together a year. I have been wanting to say I love you for around 6 months. I always assumed she loved me, but both of us were too nervous to say it first. So last night I said it to her, the reply I got was not what I expected at all...she sai... (215 words)

I think I’m losing my girlfriend, so how can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - A little about myself first, I am a 34 year old male who has crohn’s disease, epilepsy, depression and anxiety and I did have anger management problems but that has been knocked on the head. I see a counselor for my depression and anxiety and i thought that it was under co... (1005 words)

Been hurt in the past and I don't want it to happen again, so should I just get out now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now and it going great. Its just casual - we hang out and have fun but nothing too committed. However problem is I think im starting to fall for him. I know he doesn't want a relationship, which is fine and I'm glad he's bee... (127 words)

I need advice on how to go on top.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help. I'm 29 years old. I have a Problem when it comes to sex, I'm always scared to go on top because I really freeze and I don't know what to do. I want to and see him enjoy and come while m on top, I always opt for missionary because I know that I won't be abl... (96 words)

For the girls: Would you be interested in a one night stand or short term fling with a guy who couldnt have penetrative sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Question mainly for girls. I am an older guy, who is quite lucky as I still get plenty of attention from girls, smiles and signals on the street, at bus stops, shops etc. Also plenty of offers at work. Although, I have issues getting an erection(especially due to medicatio... (142 words)

In love with male ex-teacher. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I graduated from high school 2 years ago. When I was still studying in my high school, I developed a crush on my English teacher. He's 20 years older than me but single. It all started on my final year when I got into his English class, Band 1 class. At first everything wa... (227 words)

My friend started dating the guy I like, they broke up so I thought I had a chance but now she's messaging him again! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I became friends with a guy(X) on facebook and we exchanged nos. We used to text each other all day and even nights and i really started to like him. He is funny and really caring. But just when i thought that maybe we could become more than just friends... I came to know that ... (262 words)

Girlfriend is telling little white lies about trivial things....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend of 2 years recently admitted something to me that is bothering me to death she admitted that she has told "white lies" to me, because she felt i would not be happy with something, and thus rather than fight or have a spat she figured it didn't matter and would... (802 words)

Feeling down in the dumps about nothing and have no desire for sex, what is wrong with me?

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9 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, I've felt up and down about my relationship, even though there's nothing really wrong going on. We don't argue or lie to each other about anything, in fact, we're rather open with each other, which I know is a good thing. The matter of concern is that I haven't r... (364 words)

I'm very conscious of my appearance and worry that if I meet the guy I've been talking to he'll never call again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. A few months ago i received a request from a really nice guy on Facebook. We started talking on whatsapp aswell and i found out that he is actually from my area, though currently at school abroad. So the issue is that he started to like me very much, he saw my pics and ... (147 words)

In my 20's and never had an orgasm, I cant even have sex with my husband! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How common is it for a woman to be in her 20s, and never had an orgasm? Growing up, I had an unusual childhood, not much free time, got picked on in school for the way I looked, and never felt comfortable about my body. I also had a mother who talked to me way too much abo... (492 words)

Why is he behaving this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for awhile He's friendly and charismatic There's was a point he used to check me out but make it lighthearted Once I caught him. He's always tried to talk to me but I'm really quiet Physically I'm not tip top shape but I heard him discussing my phys... (239 words)

When is the right time to sleep with a guy after you have started going on dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts, I have a question that I feel I haven't been able to find an answer to because every way I try it I seem to be wrong: When is the right time to sleep with a guy after you have started going on dates. I used to start the physical part of the relationshi... (322 words)

Could this sudden change mean she cheated on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 years and it's been great til yesterday.we have sex almost everyday and her vagina is tight and hugs my penis and I can feel her uterus when I go deep until yesterday cause usually I have to go slow when going in her vagina ... (175 words)

It's going really well so far -- help me to not screw it up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So I have been friends with this girl who goes to another school for about 3 years. She is seriously my best friend. She has always had this friend I always thought was very attractive. I had never talked to her and never imagined I would have any interaction with her ... (406 words)

How do you help someone with a fear of flying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a serious phobia of airplane rides. We've been dating for a year and will be taking our first international trip together soon. We're both looking forward to the trip itself but as our flight date approaches, he's becoming quite worried. He has prescription... (180 words)

We had a fight and I haven't heard from him since

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Its been a week since my bf ( or ex) called me. We had a fight a week back when he unloaded his frustation on me and called me names. Usually when he verbally abuses i wont fight back, this time i couldnt take it, so fought back. Since then he never called me ... (191 words)

Thank you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

9 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wanted to say, I think the agony aunts and uncles on this site are amazing. I don't know how such a wise group of people gathered together in one cyber place but ...I'm glad you did because you helped me get through some serious crap, and now I'm feeling like my old self ... (113 words)