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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will I cheat because I lost out in dating for a few years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have just recently got my first girlfriend--at the age of 22. The reason is that im shy and i was scared i suppose, of what i dont know. Anyway im pleased that i have finally found someone. But i feel that i have missed out on so much. The 18--21 period where you are ... (103 words)

I want a relationship just not sure if I want it with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I'm in a situation where I really don't understand my own feelings, and I don't think that's ever happened to me before. There's this guy I'm crazy about, when we're together I feel in love, we have great conversations, the same sense of humour and the ... (204 words)

Me and my uni friend are playful, but I want to tell her I like her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a uni friend who I flirt playfully with quite a lot. I am a guy and she is a girl, and she always jokes about me 'being her boyfriend' or a future husband. I wouldn't say we are ultra close friends, which is how I like it, as I would actually love to date her. The ... (110 words)

If he thought I was pretty and he liked me, why wouldn't he just ask me out already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first semester instead of having gym, I had health... (1281 words)

My boyfriend's female friends don't like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey thanks for taking the time to read this. As much as I love my boyfriend, his friends are a bit of an issue for me. Our relationship use to be long distance at one point and his friends use to encourage him to cheat on me behind my back with girls at the bar and to dump ... (285 words)

Should I be worried about my wife's sudden interest in astrology?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently saw my wifes Internet search history on her phone and she had visited a horoscope site and specifically looked up "how to seduce a Scorpio". Sounds innocent enough, except for the fact that I am a Cancer!! Been married 19 years. Should I be concerned. I feel ... (99 words)

How do I casually set up a situation for oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have fooled around before and i like it and i know he wants to do more but i've never done any of that before. hes felt me up and fingered me but thats the most ive ever done. ive never given a blowjob or a handjob and i feel comfortable doing that with him i ... (145 words)

I don't like being called a bitch! Do I try harder to be friendlier to my boyfriend's mates?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm over reacting but I thought I would ask anyways. I've always been an emotional person and I get my feelings hurt easily. A friend of my boyfriend has really hurt my feelings twice now. The first time was he called me an 'effing bitch' (using the f word) and made... (277 words)

Boyfriend vacationing with his Ex-Wife

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for several months and it's been absolutely fantastic. He is divorced (6 years ago) and has 2 wonderful children. (8 and 11) I've met his ex-wife and she seems nice and genuinely happy for him being with me. Before I came into the picture, he plann... (332 words)

How to forget him and go back to how I was before all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there Just wanted some advise really. I'm married and have been for 20 years. Feeling very taken for granted by husband which is normal I suppose. I know he loves me but we've had serious trust issues over the years. He's broken my trust over the past years. He went on ... (391 words)

How long till I start dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - the love of my life of 4 years broke up with me over a text and left with a guy she just met, and just got out of jail,i dont even know where she is. how long till i start dating again or seeing other girls?... (46 words)

How could I not see the evil person that he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - First all thanks for reading this. I am single 34y woman. I met a guy living overseas last year. We had a good time and after we both left to our own countries we kept the communication by skype and fbk..etc. I found the opportunity to do some seasonal job in a different ... (232 words)

Is what she told me about birth control pills for her true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance were talking about birth control one day and i asked her why doesn't she start taking the pill.She told me that she went to a doctor about it and they said that because of her size (she is close to 100lb over weight) that all it would do is stabilize her ... (90 words)

Girlfriend who broke up with me is back. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age - Short version: GF broke up with me 5 months ago, relationship wasn't going well but I was still wanting to continue, nothing unfixable. Took me a looooong time to start getting over her, but just had begun when I started "no contact". I still missed and loved her but I tried to ... (244 words)

Do you think parents who do not want to take responsibility for their children should be let scot free for the sake of peace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 10 year old daughter with my ex. My ex has not been seeing the child nor supporting her financially. I took him to court for child maintenance, and he was ordered. He only paid few times and has completely stopped. I work and can somehow manage to care for the child ... (202 words)

How do I freshen up a relationship without spending too much money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I freshen up a relationship without spending too much money? I've been with my partner for five years now and we're already like an old married couple win have got into a bit of a rot and have a routine. I want to freshen up our relationship com brighten our days ... (75 words)

We have good sex so why is my husband looking at porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently noticed on the history of my phone was a porn site so clearly its my husband I've checked his history and it was the same site. I don't watch porn but don't mind him watching so said nothing. our sex life is really good to him to and is very frequent so now I don't ... (107 words)

I'm sick of his ex! Will she ever be out of the picture?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all thank you for taking the time to read this. i have fallen in love with a man who is 25 yrs older than me and im having his baby. the problem is, is that his stupid ex wife will not get it through her head that i am with him now. i had to wait in the background seein hi... (261 words)

Our marriage has went downhill since I've been pregnant. He just doesn't seem to care how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've written about this topic before, and every time I try other's advice, it just goes no where, and I'm not sure what to do. I'm now 8 months pregnant (fit and all belly). Since I started showing, my sex life has dwindled. It's pretty much become a couple of early morning... (444 words)

Do women mature faster than men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks, Maisy here! What are other peoples thoughts on whether girls are more mature than boys generally please? im 23 and all the girls i know have flown the nest yet all the boys i know at still living at home for example. Do others agree that women are generally ... (68 words)

Help reaching an the "BIG O"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we first started having sex and missing around about 2-3 months into our relationship. When it comes down to it she gets really into it when we mess around and says she really enjoys it but after a while the sens... (189 words)

Team mate takes credit for my work and is getting on my nerves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My team mate at work doesn't do any productive work. We both are of same cadre, i do everything and almost everyone knows that i'm good at what i'm doing. But this team mate is always sneaking behind my back. He always trying to get credit for my work, i cant com... (116 words)

He broke up with me and we work together. How do I pretend like I'm ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4231 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My ex bf and myself work for the same company and we see each other every day. He dumped me few days back and i'm still trying to cope up. He broke up with me thru phone, as soon as he broke up, he blocked me in his phone and i think he blocked me in his mail account too... (132 words)

After all the drama now he's avoiding me and won't contact me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How Can I have a good relationship with an anxious man ? I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and he fell in love with me i tried to be more rational as i had so many bad experiences before so I couldn't help my heart and I fell in love with him too .he has an anxiety problem ... (456 words)

I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend and she feels the same way, but I don't want to lose my girlfiriend either! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - i have a girlfriend for 2 months.. but before that i met a girl in wich i was interested in.. but i didnt tell her.(she is the best friend of my current girlfriend) and we are best friends now, i found out that she is in love with me as am i with her. and we want to date eac... (120 words)

Should I stop liking her becuase she isnt giving me a chance to get to know her? Or can I make her fall in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I like this girl, and through some of my actions, she realized that I liked her. There are many things I cannot do especially if she knew already. We are not really friends so we don't yet really know each other. Like me, she has no boyfriend since birth. Being an amateur, she ... (144 words)

Why did I have a sexual dream about my former teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and currently single after breaking off a five-year-old relationship. I haven't been with any guy since then. Last night I had a very weird dream - I was having sex with a teacher who had taught me a long time ago and with whom I have minimal contact right ... (113 words)

Thinking about moving in together so I wanted to go furniture shopping, he just tells me to go on my own so he can go out drinking! Is this what our life is going to be like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We have recently been talking about moving in together, but it has started causing problems between us because we have such different ideas about what it will be like. At the moment we have fairly separate social lives ... (281 words)

Do I confess my feelings for him before I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Over a year ago, I started working as a Team Leader in a customer service account that employed over 200 people. Since I was recruited externally, my lack of familiarity with the account and the people made me feel very apprehensive, but the manager who I directly reported to ... (1517 words)

Why do I always fall into the wrong relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Why I always fell in a wrong relationship? I’m 30 yrs old been engage once he is my boyfriend for almost 8 years since we are in collage. After I graduated I left my country to work in other place. He cannot wait me so he widows the engagement. Past few ... (326 words)

How do I get over being insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've known a guy for around 3 years, in the past year we've become close friends and finally on valentines day he asked me on a date. I said yes and ever since we've been seeing each other. He's the perfect guy, treats me well, there when I need him brilliant with m... (161 words)

HELP!!!! My weight is ruining my relationship

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had two children and I am now 70 pounds overweight. I'm very unhappy, angery and out of sorts with myself. I know that I need to lose weight, but after working, taking care of my dads kids and then taking care of my own kids, I find I have no energy to workout or incli... (136 words)

I know he doesn't love me because of his "other" life. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a gay male who has been having sex with this straight thug male for years. he is so down low it kills me at times. he has a girlfriend. just to be with him I let him and her come stay with me. we only have sex late at night when she stay at her mother house. I get fine ... (159 words)

I think my Sis FWB guy likes me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help aunts! Ok so my sis is in a FWB with this guy. Hes telling her he loves her and that they should become a couple. She sayin she likes him and that she cares. Now the problem is, about 1 month and a half ago my sis FWB guy text me. Hes saying he likes me and wants to be... (504 words)

Is this how brother in laws are? I don't like mine!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello this isn't a relationship question but I need advice because I really dislike my brother in law who is married to my sister, I just want to slowly cut all contact with them. I know this doesn't make much sense but he treats her very badly, she has no say, he decides ... (238 words)

I'd like to take a break to give my boyfriend time to miss me but will have no one around to bolster me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to take a break from my boyfriend for about three weeks in order for him to miss me and appreciate me more. However, as much as I'd like to do it, for the next few months my company with be low so there'll be not many people around to get me through the three weeks and ... (69 words)

Can you be happy and have fun in life if you don't have any friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you be happy and have fun in life without having friends? Is it possible? I've always been kind of a loner, and I don't really know what to do with my free time. I feel really lonely and I feel like you have to have friends to be happy in life. I feel like a lot... (141 words)

How do I avoid the usual "what do you want to do? Whatever you want..." situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my gf for the last 2.5 years. We've had our ups and downs but so far we're happy. Point of contention: she always ends up picking what we're doing on our dates, at least 4/5 times. The conversation is the usual cliché: Me: I'd really like to do A. Her: I... (171 words)

I do everything for him and he does nothing for me! Is this love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long distance relationship since 2 and half year now. I did so much for my fiancé that now days no one does. I got laser hair removal for 10,000, I gave him everything he asked me for, expensive perfumes, shampoos, glasses, iphone 4s, iphone accessories, $250 ... (525 words)

What should I say to her? I can't imagine my life without her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

15 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll just jump straight into it: I have a really good friend, who I've known ever since I got to university four years ago that I haven't been able to see as often as I have as the years progressed, but every time we see each other, things just feel right, that we really do ... (332 words)

I'm falling for the wrong guys -- what's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

15 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid This is my first attempt in my entire life doing soul searching. My ex-husband was a loser, good for nothing guy who was very clingy, needy. I couldnt take it, so we divorced. My ex-bf of 3 yrs was very very absive verbally and emotionally, once or twice hit m... (249 words)

He has a bad-news friend that concerns me ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i are in our mid to late twenties and have been together for almost a year. We truly love each other and I feel he is the one. We constantly are there for one another and and really love each other. With that being said without too much detail he does h... (322 words)