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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I appologize to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4255 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy kinda on and off. (He's 24, and I'm 21; I met him during my first year of art college). We were together for three months, then took a break that ended up killing the relationship. (I was super clingy at the time and couldn't deal with him being u... (1441 words)

She acts like she's interested in me, says she's unhappy with her boyfriend, but she's still with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I wanted to share a story of mine and ask for your advice. So, basically, a colleague of mine that I have known for 2 years now has been sending me mixed signals and I do not know where I stand with her. Initially, I thought nothing of her and flirting was ... (1159 words)

Is there a natural way to delay my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going on vacation wednesday but im suppossed to get my period tomorrow. Is there anyway i can postpone it naturally in a few days without the pill?... (28 words)

I didn't notice what might have been her attraction to me and now she seems cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is this girl I know in college, we met the first week but don't see each other much. We ran into each other at a few parties where she sent me signals (commenting on stuff that she likes about me, like the fact that I'm writing a book) or brushed against me ... (565 words)

She's very friendly to me, but she seems friendly with other guys too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4255 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - since my entrance in to the university, i haven't being too friendly to girls in our department of study. Recently there is this girl in our class i've started chatting with. Anytime we sit together she's will be so close enough to me that our body do touch each other.when we ... (306 words)

I feel like I'll never be loved or respected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I feel very sad, demoralized and like I should just give up on relationships. I was with my ex for six years. It was a troubled relationship. He was the jealous, controlling type, he was obsessed with my past and thought that I would cheat on him. I started isolating myself and ... (325 words)

How can I help my b/f pick out a nice suit for a wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello all!! this isn't a relationship question as such but im looking for advice regarding my boyfriend. He's attending a wedding in a few weeks and wants me to help him choose a suit to wear. He has a suit but, although there isn't anything wrong with it, it makes... (176 words)

Miscarriage and breakup right on top of each other. I can't cope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i am going through a really bad time at the moment i have just recently had a miscarriage my boyfriend split up with me the day after we had all these plans of marriage and children he said he needed space and he is a loner what did he mean i cant get in contact with him as ... (73 words)

I am extremely unhappy with me weight...can you help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very overweight and i am extremely unhappy with my weight. I am 5'5 and currently weight 122.5kg, i have lost 2 kg but even with exercise and lowered calorie intake it wont shift anymore. When i started loosing weight i lost 3 kg, put on 4, lost 5, put on 2 and so on. i ... (91 words)

Will she come back to me because I can support her and her kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I married a philippine women 3.years ago and I.regret that everyday of my life but im glad I discovered she was going to use me for a green card because I.went.back to visit her and.discovered she was sleeping with so many men and I wonder is she going to try and come back to ... (68 words)

Is it wrong to date him if I still chat with his ex-wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So this may be drawn out but I feel like I need to include as much info as I can. My ex and I are currently going through a divorce. We have been separated for 1.5 yr and were married 7 years. During our relationship we became close with an old college buddy of his and his ... (375 words)

Is this a good time to try ignorning her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've heard that ignoring a girl you want to come back makes them miss you and want YOU back. The girl Im talking about is in Advanced Individual Training in Texas and just finished BCT. She says Im her favorite person on this Earth, which I believe. We dated nearly two years ... (267 words)

We weren't exclusive and both slept with others. He got an STD so he had to tell me. Do I tell him I slept with someone else too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 3 months ago at a party in a city 'bout 3 hours from where I live. Within 5 mins of talking, he asked for my number. We didn't have much time to talk that night, maybe danced for a bit, and I had to go back to the hotel with my friends. I didn't talk to him for ... (786 words)

We've run our course, but our holiday abroad is imminent. I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So very confused. I will keep this as short as I can... I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years, but I feel it has run its course. She is a great girl, I still like her very much, but I don't see a future with her and haven't for quite a long time now. This is the firs... (765 words)

I'm attracted to a man 21 years older than me. Could it work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 26 year old woman and I find a 45 year old man attractive who barely looks 40, he could pass for late 30s. My question is does anyone know of any successful stories of people with an age gap this big? My ex was 36, we split due to other reasons in my opinion he acted ... (67 words)

What am I missing? Do women just want to play games when dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I was having dinner with my guy friends last night, and we were sharing recent dating experiences. Two of us are in our early 30s and the other guy his late 30s. As we shared our stories, a common theme emerged - we were tired of people playing games with us. All of us are ... (303 words)

He says he is not verbally affectionate or "open", but he used to be before. Am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20. He's 21. We are in a long distance "relationship" (I use inverted commas because it isn't at the boyfriend/girlfriend stage yet. We are exclusively dating/seeing each other, but it isn't official, we're progressing to the relationship stage slowly.) Anyways, to brief... (1141 words)

My daughter is missing my ex after our break up. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I was dating a woman for about 6 years,she was wonderful and took care of my daughter as her own!my daughter instantly bonded with her,she used to help my daughter with homework,take her shopping..my daughter would go to her for anything.. But for a past few m... (131 words)

I want to tell my boyfriend that I kissed another guy but not sure how to do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my boyfriend and kissed someone when I was drunk I feel bad, he's cheated on me in the past but I felt worse that he had lied to me I want to tell him but I don't know what to say... (44 words)

My girlfriend won't let her ex go.. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for a year and a half. When I started into my relationship, my girlfriend had been broken up from her ex for 1 year. About the time that I came into her life was when her ex started contacting her. She was very emotional and told me that she wasn't ... (290 words)

We'e only seen each other once and when I talk about seeing each other he gets mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A year ago I met my boyfriend through my friend who lives in Texas. I have only met him once. Every time we talk he says he loves me and misses me and he can't wait till he gets to see me again but every time I bring up him visiting me up here or me going down there he gets mad ... (129 words)

My girlfriends father issues and an affair with a married man whom she stays in touch with daily

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I have just separated from my girlfriend of 8 months.not long I know but it's been one heck of a journey . She is 32 and im 41 ,throughout our relationship she has kept in close contact with several older men. Just lunches ,drinks after work etc. after a few months I ... (496 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend I let another girl give me oral sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have seriously messed things up with my girlfriend and I need advice on how to put things right. Basically a few weeks ago I went out for my friend's birthday, my girlfriend didn't come as she couldn't get the time off work. I was annoyed that she didn't ask for it off or t... (237 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me but we work together and no one knew we were dating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years dumped me thru phone. He was very mean and verbally abusive to me all the time and broke up with me yesterday. We started working in the same office 2 months back. I cant quit my job, noone in office knows we are dating, I will be seeing him... (102 words)

Is he really worth spending my life with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, i love a man of great generosity and respect to me, we has been together 11 month now and we were planning to get married after a year my parents would only accept him as my husband only if he have a 4 room apartment and a 1200000 lira pounds a month m... (416 words)

My b/f treats me like a door mat. How do I move forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 2nd year stundent at varsity, im 19, and the guy im dating is also a 2nd year, he's 20. But this isn't a maturity . The problem more than anythng is that i have a very low self-esteem and as a result people treat me like a doormat. Particularly the guy i'm inlove with. I ... (151 words)

Should I approach my crush, or just get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all sorry if this is long, I need your advice on how to get over a crush. To start off with I am 28 and the woman I have a crush on is 40. I have never been out with a bloke before so obviously as you can tell I am very introverted, or so my family think. I have never been ... (484 words)

Why do young girls keep naughty pictures and make mean comments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi this is not a relationship question or sex question, but anyway i decided to ask in order to get some feedback from you guys. i've been searching (and viewing)a lor of facebook profiles (of girls) and there is a thing i don't understand. why these girls(almost every teen, gi... (123 words)

He wants anal but it hurts, and he says I'll get used to it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years now and we have tried anal sex in the past but I find it painful at times and other times it’s alright. My issue is he won’t stop asking me for anal sex even after I've had some tearing as a result of it. It has healed since ... (164 words)

My boyfriend is going on a holiday with his ex wife and their child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal - or even not so normal but okay sometimes - for a separated man to go on holiday with his wife and son, if the son has been very badly affected by the parents' separation to the extent of showing fairly extreme behavioural disorder, including aggression and mood ... (91 words)

My mother's comments about me hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I overhead my mum tell my aunt that I could be difficult and she'd be surprised if I find a man to cope with me. It's the first ive heard about it, to me she says I'm lovely, just Mr Right hasn't come along yet. I was so upset to hear their conversation, we had an argument ... (132 words)

My boyfriend wont be nice to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf hasnt said once nice word to me in the past 5 months. He is verbally very abusive, always belittles me, never calls me, if i get lucky he might pick up my calls once in 2 days may be and that call might not last more than 10 mins. BTW i wont call more than o... (174 words)

It feels I have hired an escort rather than have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half seems permanently short of money, due to a lot of things including job, child maintenance, grasping ex who gave up her own job etc. I am ok for money but not by any means rich, I can afford the basics on my salary with a bit to spare. We ... (157 words)

I'm sending mixed signals, aware he may be straight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. This is going to be a long one because the key is in the details. I'm gay and in college studying chemical engineering and there is this guy that I sort of like. Now I just transferred to the college I'm at now at the beginning of this school year and I'm incredibly ... (1116 words)

Would being involved with his friend's mother make him uncomfortable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I fell for a guy who is 34 and i am 45,however he is my son's friend . He has not denied his attraction for me ,at first he thought I was his friend's sister :)I really like him a lot,we spoke and we have so much in common i have never met anyone in my life that is so compatib... (111 words)

I have had a crush on my husband's brother, and I want it to go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Before I go into details, the only intention I have is to make this go away. I don't want to hurt anyone. I love my husband dearly, and I want to keep my vow. I have had a crush on my husband's younger brother since the first time I met this man. At that time, my husband... (737 words)

Disagreement about parenting styles is threatening to end our relationship. How should I approach this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't even think straight right now. My relationship with my boyfriend of nearly three years, who I love more than anything in the whole world, is on the brink of collapse. This is partially my fault, because I never brought it up before, and I really should have. We wer... (201 words)

We can't get married so what happens if he leaves us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a relationship with my cousin olmost 8years we have own baby son 6 years old his healthy.... my question what if he found another and leave us alone.we cant be merried? ... (35 words)

I thought she was neat and together -- turns out she's a slob who turns everything into a pity party

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - im a neat freak so to speak and my girlfriend is pretty much a slob. verry careless in her mannerisms not like when we first met. I was lead to believe she was neet and clean and hard working with herself somewhat together. She was in school on scholarship in hawaii. later ... (375 words)

I dumped the good guy for the bad guy, now I want the good guy back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

5 May 2013 (M)

age - Hello, what am writing about is, I was seeing some one about a year ago, he was a prince charming kinda guy, treated me great, about 3 months, my ex was in jail, the one who phy. abuse me, beat me, choke me, just a bad guy, but I was in love with him, when he got out of jail, I ... (165 words)

Excited to be pregnant, but I am not married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am a teacher in a middle school and I've been seeing a co-worker of mine for about seven months now. We're the youngest teachers (23) by far and three weeks ago I found out that I'm pregnant with his and my first child. There are a lot of older, very opinionated people I ... (204 words)

He texts all day but wont be seen in public with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a friend who I thought would be more he made me think he liked me and some stuff happened between us. It turned out that the guy is actually gay which is fine I had no issue with that I was happy to be just friends. He would text me all the time and tell me all about who ... (317 words)

What to do now, do I say something else to him? I feel lost and crushed by his lies and his games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

5 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going to try to make this as short as possible by giving enough info but it's a long story. any advice is welcomed. refrain from judgement and ill comments please. My fiance and I got into an argument one day. very stupid argument and when I went to make food in the ... (1056 words)