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writes:Is it wrong that I don't feel like its problem that I don't have a relationship at 23? I feel pressured by my family to find a man that I can get serious with. They see hanging out with random guys as a waste of time unless they have long term potential. (Some of them I hang out with, I already know are not in the market for a gf but are just fun to hang out with) I am made to feel like times running out or I'm slutty or I should just get in a relationship with anyone so I have someone until someone better comes along rather than be alone. It's not that I don't want a boyfriend, but at my age it doesn't seem like most guys are ready to settle down. What age do most guys start thinking about a commitment to one person? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): There are plenty of guys who want to settle down at 23, although they aren't going to be the ones hitting on lots of women looking for an easy lay. You meet them less often than the players because they are choosy. Each serious guy approaches fewer girls on average, unlike the players. Plus, even the choosy guys may not come right out and say that they are looking for something steady when they first meet you, even if they do see that potential in you.
But all that has nothing to do with what you want. If you don't want to settle down yet, then dont.
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reader, Brokenv +, writes (17 May 2013):
First of all your too young to settle down. You need to experience life. Travel, education, volunteer or do what you want. Don't listen to them listen to who knows you best, YOU!
Beside when you meet the one, you will know and that is when it is time to settle down.
Good Luck to YOU!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (17 May 2013):
 WHOSE life is it to live???..... Your's? ... or, your family's?????
IF it's "your's," then you - and ONLY YOU - are entitled to decide if/when/where/how/why you want to "settle down" with someone....
Good luck....
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