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writes:So I've been trying to have sex with my boyfriend and whenever he inserts his penis in my vagina the pain is awful and then I begin to bleed. So as soon as its hurting I ask him to take it out, which he does. I thought once you inserted at least twice the pain would go away? As for the blood I though you only bled once also. I'm very lubricated and relaxed. My boyfriend says I should go visit a doctor, but it's embarrassing and I dont really want to. So if anyone can relate that would be a big help.Also I'm on birth control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy boyfriend is experience and is going slow and gently. It's just pain is awful. The blood I can expect and the pain but to the level of how painful it is I didn't expect. We have tried with fingers no problems even managed 2.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): The same thing happened with my wife and I during our first experience. It hurt her a great deal not only the first time, but the second, third, and likely fourth. She bled during each of those times. However, it did get better shortly thereafter and we now have a very enjoyable sex life. If things do not improve in the near future, you may want to consult a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): From my experience, it takes a while.
My wife and I tried for 2-3 weeks, almost every other night, until we made it. And we started with a finger, not the penis.
A female friend of mine also told me it took her husband 2 weeks to get in there successfully.
Bleeding once or twice is normal. It's the cherry being popped.
Your boyfriend is apparently inexperienced. You don't need a doctor. Just tell him to go gently and slowly. You're just an 18-21 virgin for god's sake!!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (17 May 2013):
 You need to go visit a doctor. Sex more doesn't stretch your vagina or change it, so having more sex won't help this. If you're relaxed and still in a lot of pain, you really need to see a doctor to check for health problems. Some women have things like clenching/cramping of their vaginal muscles during sex or very thick hymens and these things require care/treatment.
It's not embarrassing, it is a health problem and doctors are there to help. They see all kind of problems on all kinds of people, it's not weird or abnormal for them to see situations like this.
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