New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2013, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (34), 2 (34), 3 (41), 4 (36), 5 (43), 6 (43), 7 (45), 8 (28), 9 (37), 10 (45),
11 (33), 12 (29), 13 (29), 14 (28), 15 (42), 16 (33), 17 (39), 18 (29), 19 (31), 20 (31),
21 (42), 22 (34), 23 (26), 24 (25), 25 (29), 26 (28), 27 (27), 28 (35), 29 (30), 30 (30),
31 (29),

Archived questions from: 22 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

(More questions from May, 2013)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend just broke up with me. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year just broke up with me, and I don't know what to do or how to feel. As a reference, I'm 19 and he's 17, so while we may seem young, we're both very mature and understanding of the world around us. It was the first serious relationship for both of us, and ... (825 words)

Every few days we have anal sex but I hate it and scares me to think of having it all my life!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Straight to the facts: I have a rather big problem in my nearly perfect relationship. For introduction, I must inform you that I am (23) in relationship for nearly 7 month, 2 month ago we have moved together, he is so much caring and loving man (29), that sometimes I... (347 words)

How can I create a moment with this older guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently I've developed feelings for a guy- a guy who is four years older than me. And who happens to be my vice drama teacher. We've been talking a lot recently, not just about basic topics but also deeper, more meaningful things. I know nothing can happen, and we are just ... (137 words)

Why does my ex want nothing to do with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex broke up with me 7 months ago and has maintained no contact since then. I have always loved him and a part of me still does, and I accept that he does not want to be with me anymore, but why doesn't he at least want to be friends with me? I tried to contact him twic... (192 words)

My boyfriend pointed out a larger girl to me and said if I ever got that fat he would dump me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for just under 4 years. At the weekend we were on a night out and he pointed out a woman on the dancefloor who was probably a UK size 14/16 and he told me if I ever get as fat as that he will dump me! Now this girl was on the curvaceous ... (261 words)

Am I too needy or is she not really as into me as I am thinking?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This might be long because I really need help and want anyone who can help to have as many "facts" as possible, but I'll be as brief as I can... I became friends with my girlfriend over a two year period that eventually blossomed into romance. After two years of friends... (1141 words)

Whenever we have problems my g/f goes running to her ex boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I just spent the weekend on a wonderful mini vacation with my girlfriend. We are both 25 years old. We've been together for 3 years now and we have a great relationship which is very loving from both sides. We have had fights in the past and a breakup the la... (509 words)

He wants to get married and have children and I'm not sure yet. Do I stay and have kids or do I let him go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with a guy for two years. We live together and for the most part, things are fine. We come from different cultures and are quite different as people, but we get on well in many respects. I'm happy enough with him but he doesn't exactly give me butterflies ... (312 words)

Why does he stay with this girl? How do I stop being upset about his relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I can't stop feeling so upset that my good friend continues to be with a girl who is always being unfaithful to him. I've known the guy for a long time, he's a good friend of the family and is really like a family member to me. When he first got with this gi... (283 words)

Text him again? Wait a few days, then text? Or just forget about him altogether and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I sent a guy I've been meeting a text last Monday at almost 12am (end of monday). Monday was a day off here for most not sure if him since he always works night shifts and he doesn't always know when he works. Usually he's off Mondays and Tuesdays though. It's Wednesday... (272 words)

Should I go for it or not? Is he into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last October I got to know this guy on a night out (found out we had stuff in common, are on the same course, same uni etc) nothing happened that night but he emailed me on Facebook about timetables got talking and he gave me his number. We were texting practically ever... (409 words)

How do I warn my friend about my former FWB without reliving my story?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I was in FWB for around 3 years on and off. He was my collegue at work and I was in love with him. Long story short he was very abusive towards the end and dumped me a month ago. We see each other at work, he carries on as if I don't exist and I am still trying to ... (175 words)

I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love him dearly as a friend, but... (376 words)

Struggling to trust my girlfriend after she kissed another man....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My situation is that my long term girlfriend of 9 years kissed another man at work. She came clean about it all and turns out that this dick has been pursuing her for about 6 years! She said she got curious and kissed him and that she immediately regretted it and told him ... (455 words)

Is there any way to convince her age is just a number? I'm 18 and she is in her forties but we have the most amazing connection....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Thank you in advance for reading this, and for your advice is any comes to mind :) I’ll try to keep this short and to the point. I’m 18, and gay (girl). I met the most amazing woman two weeks ago, at a concert. I assumed she was in her mid twenties. We ... (487 words)

Cant stop deaming about my son's father and the woman he cheated on me with....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am torturing myself over here. My ex of 2 years who I was crazy about, and I had a child together. Throughout the relationship he was abusive, and cheated, and I kept forgiving, and giving chances. After 2 years of the off and on and constant lies and My finding text messages ... (291 words)

He said my friend is a bit more beautiful than I am, is it ok for him to say this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend and we were talking,in the course of that i talked about my girlfriend and asked him if we look alike,he said yes that i and my girlfriend look alike but its just that she is a bit more beautiful than i am....is it okay that he said this?,does he really ... (64 words)

Boyfriend thinks I take advantage of his kindness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much, and he loves me. He is 5 years older than me,he thinks of me as marriage material. Hes a great guy and booked a flight for us to get away for a long weekend.He has a good job and loves to take me out for dinner etc.im not working I'm a student.my ... (383 words)

How could a guy like him fall for a girl like her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating the most wonderful man, Jeff, for about a year now, I have met his parents and he’s met mine, we’re planning to get married early next year. Everything’s perfect and I may be just looking for problems... (691 words)

My boyfriend has changed his mind about wanting children and now I feel like he resents me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - At the beginning of my relationship i made it clear i had no plans for children in my life, not because i dont like them but because i want to keep my freedom etc and not go through pregnancy in general. My boyfriend said he did not mind either way. However along the way it... (237 words)

My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. I worry about how I will look,... (105 words)

Is there a lie I can make up to get myself out of this awkward situation or do I have to tell the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently meet a guy online and we've been on a few dates. I really like him and I see a future there and so does he. But I'm constantly sneaking behind my families back because I'm too ashamed to tell them I met someone online. I've met people online before but I usua... (127 words)

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not getting hard. So I haven't pushed i... (320 words)

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always had arguments and i thought ... (241 words)

Distressing personal comments from my Gf :( I have told her that these comments, or jokes, are making me insecure. How do I respond when she says it's just a joke?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my lovely girlfriend for 2 year now. We recently began having sex, both our first times. I am just above average in penis length according to many quoted sites. However she has made a few comments that have seriously dented my confidence now on what... (191 words)

What do you think? Why does he choose to talk to me about girls he thinks are hot? It makes me uncomfortable.What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend seems to be really comfortable talking about how some girls are hot. It makes me feel really uncomfortable and puts the thought in my head that he might go after another girl. Am I overreacting? Also yesterday, he mentioned one of his ex's and the first ti... (231 words)

How can I help my girlfriend be comfortable discussing serious matters with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - We've been together 3 years. I'm having a really hard time getting my girlfriend to be willing to communicate with me about serious matters. She's great to spend time with when we're doing well, but when something serious does come up, she tends to avoid me sometimes to th... (493 words)

We had a LDR. We broke up. How could he do this after he gave me his commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf last month because we were in a LDR and he drifted apart. He never contacted me after the breakup. Just few days ago he sent me a text asked if I called him from an unknown number. If so just call from my normal number so he knows to pick up. He doesn't ... (208 words)

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the main thing we're both looki... (329 words)

What should I do? But I have never felt so lonely in my entire life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - In Janurary I moved interstate to try something new, and to live with my mum for awhile. I left a few extremely close friends, a boyfriend, and a part-time promotions/modelling job to come up here and give it a try. I've found a full-time job, which I enjoy, and I absolutel... (175 words)

Should I act on this. I can't get him out of my mind. It's been three years since we've seen or spoken to each other.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Greetings everyone, I am unsure as to whether or not I should get back in contact with an old high school teacher. I truly enjoyed his class and his passion for teaching emitted in the classroom. He was attractive, and well respected by his colleagues. I noticed that he was v... (653 words)

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. Over the past 2 years we've beco... (306 words)

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him my number too without soun... (118 words)

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone yeara without all the ... (205 words)