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female
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anonymous
writes:Aunts and Uncles. I am 19 and had enough of 'Love', I thought this would be the perfect place to rant to you so you could find out where I am going wrong.19 is a little young for all this heavy talk, but let's face it with 13 year olds having longer relationship status' than me, modern day seems to be over the age limit discussion.Long story short, I have never had any good experiences with guys. Never had an 'official relationship' mostly flings that did last over yearly periods etc but they were not healthy of any kind. I must of been very naive.Anyhow, now at University, I decided to focus on my studies. I do not hold anything against the prospect of a relationship due to my past it just makes me more sure of what I want to find, a long term official relationship, for once. I joined the Gym as an aspect to be social as well as for active reasons, and a guy who works there slowly caught my attentions by our increased eye contact etc. The more people started to comment on us the more I knew I wasn't making this up, the situation flourished into us talking and getting to know each other better - still at his work surroundings. After work on a warm day he suggested we sit out on the grass for a while, many people were doing so that day. We naturally hung out for a while, we do have chemistry, but he said he wasn't good with girls. I asked for his number at the end of this, we were always subtly touchy feely so I had an idea he was interested. I have an iPhone so I am very socially interactive through it, he on the other hand just had a old basic model phone due to carelessness of more expensive mobiles I think. So the point being I always text him sometimes, he texts back, others he doesnt. This always has me second guessing the situation, whenever I speak to him in person he is fine and genuinely hangs around to talk. My friend suggested I ask him out for drinks, I did so, and have heard no reply, nothing.The problem in our equation being, I am currently in my examination period so I haven't been able to get to the Gym and I won't for some time yet, I can't see him, he hasn't texted me back from before and after exams I will probably move back to my hometown just for the summer.I honestly believe he is one of the good ones, otherwise I would not have gone through the effort of typing this whole dilemma out. I just feel like no matter how many times I try with a positive outlook my 'love life' just isn't happening for me. What do I do with this one guys. I've got it bad.Thank you.
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