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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I worry others may find me weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm polite and friendly and stuff but, I'm too shy to go up to people and talk to them, I'm in high school and the people have all come from primary schools in bunches of friends that already know each other, I can't bring myself to go up and talk to these groups and I don't ... (99 words)

How do I keep my old friends as I evolve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just to clarify first of all, I don't think there's a problem with being geeky at all. When I started college, I was the sort of girl who played video games regularly, read loads of fantasy and sci-fi novels, listened to alternative rock and whatnot (though I realise that isn't ... (595 words)

Am I too feminine to be a good boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

13 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - since I have been really young, I've identified much better with females. My closest friends even in elementary school were all girls. I was hanging out with girls and enjoying their company at the same time most other boys were in the "cooties" phase. I also developed ... (788 words)

It seems even guys I like as friends only want to have sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was introduced to a bunch a guy friends by my guy friend. We went on night clubbing. I was introduced in the new group. One guy opted to drop me home. we began chatting ... he was willing to pick me up from home whenever I wanted to go partying and also without any hesitation ... (239 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me with an old fling!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Just found out my boyfriend slept with someone else on Saturday night. Background: We've been together for over a year. Moved in together after a month and although we've had our ups and downs, I've never felt this way about anyone before. A few months ago he moved back to... (1030 words)

He has changed, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is becoming very abusive lately, he is abusive only with me, with his friends and others he behaves very sweetly. He hasnt said a single nice thing to me in past few months. I tried not to evoke his anger in anyway, but nothing works anymore. ... (136 words)

Do you stay out of the financial decisions your fiance makes with his children from another marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age - We live together. My fiance has two adult children from his first marriage. His son has a nice job and a new girlfriend. His son moved out of his apartment with his last girlfriend...he broke it off with her. His son is now moving into an apartment with his new girlfriend. ... (310 words)

He wont tell his married ex about me.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello that's my first time to ask online but I'm really upset and stressed. My story is long and will try to make It short. I'm in a long distance relation. He was my friend before becoming my bf but there was too much chemistry between us he was in relationship with a girl who... (382 words)

What's a good way to make friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. This may sound silly but what's a good way to make some friends? I'm only 18 and I've never really had many friends. Some of the friends I did have are no longer my friends. I go to a community college and nobody seems to really talk to each other there, they just ... (114 words)

I'm in love, but I'm not allowed to date and he's moving. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - im 13 and desperately in love with this boy. He also loves me, but niether of us are allowed to date. He goes to a different school, so we only see each other when our parents get together. worst of all, in a few months hes moving. what do i do about this guy, i love literally ... (61 words)

We are arguing all the time and I want to leave but I'm afraid....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for almost two years. There's always been a lot of fighting but it was always my fault. I cheated once and I called an ex boyfriend for comfort when my boyfriend found out. Lately the arguing hasn't been my fault. My boyfriend was very angry when I ... (280 words)

Can I breakup with my boyfriend a week before his birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend on holiday almost 1 year ago. He lives about 300 miles form me so we only really see each other for a weekend once a month. He comes to see me mostly and I have went to his twice (he is 20 and I am 18). We have spoken every day since we met and at the ... (273 words)

Texting relationships: good or bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age - What are your opinions on a relationship that is 90% texting, phone calls maybe every other day or so and mostly booty calls. The guy is telling the woman he loves her, but he is telling his really close friends that "Hell No I Do Not Want To Spend 24/7 With Her!!!" Is this a ... (73 words)

Dealing with casually racist people?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I go to a top British university where there are quite a lot of upper/middle-class white people from the South. Obviously, I don't have a problem with this. I'm half Asian, however, and because of this I don't look like I'm from any particular minority often born in the UK ... (576 words)

Is it possible for my relationship with a man who is almost twice my age to actually be real or not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm feeling really conflicted and I would love some advice. I am wondering if it's possible for my relationship with a man who is almost twice my age to actually be real or not. I've known of him for a few years, but Ive really gotten to know him well in the past year. I've ... (311 words)

I want change… but I don't want to change who I am. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - (I'm tired and it's 2:45am but I can't sleep because these thoughts are running through my head, so bear with me...) I guess the biggest way to sum up my situation, is that I don't know what to do with myself. I feel like I'm stuck in this everyday routine with no directio... (1300 words)

There were five condoms in the drawer and now there are none!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello my question is my baby father had like 5 condoms for one we don't use them I check his draw beside every time and seen he had them now its empty my suggest to any women what would you but he doesn't know that I even know about. I've worried about it from time to time ... (71 words)

Is it too soon in our relationship to consider starting a family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Boyfriend and I are together 8 months. I'm on the patch so this may be a silly question! I finished my period last week and had sex with the boyfriend and now my breasts are very very sore, all over and nipples and a bit veiny. I also felt dizzy and nauseous the other ... (204 words)

Sister and husband had an affair, and I am expected to act all happy at family gatherings!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'd married my first love for more than 10 years. we have one college daughter. Few years ago, I found out he cheated with my younger sister. I filed for a divorce, but never left our house beacause he was begging, crying and promising me he'll change. Be... (189 words)

I love him but we're not on the same page about marriage and kids

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for five years now and I love him very much. But we started on the topic of the future and he dropped the bombshell that although he wants to same things as I do, he wants them on a completely different time scale to me. That is, he wants marriage ... (120 words)

I'm ready for a baby now but my fiance wants to wait a few years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a bad case of baby fever, I'm afraid. I've always loved kids and adored the thought of having my own. I work at a daycare, and I am responsible for 4 infants on my own. I love it. It's difficult at times, especially when they're all crying and you're covered in ... (287 words)

I think we can work our problems out, but he's ready to break up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I got into a huge fight with my boyfriend the other night. We've been together for 3 years now and have had problems within those years, some of which have not successfully been solved. I was away for 6 months going to school, and the last two months were the hardest. We ... (430 words)

The guy I like has been acting all tough around me ever since I told him, instead of the sweet guy I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, i like this boy, and he recently told me he likes me back. Im 13, and neither of us can date yet. Now he is acting all tough and a little pervy around me, instead of the sweet, smart, sensitive, funny, wimpy nerd i fell in like with. What do i do, i want him to just be ... (68 words)

I kissed another girl/guy. How do I get my "bf" back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I kissed another girl and a guy at a party and my boyfriend broke up with me. What should I do to get him back? To clarify, we had gone on a couple dates and had been in an on and off relationship before over the span of 7 months or so. We had recently started getting ... (650 words)

How can I stop missing the other man? He was a selfish, controlling, manipulative jerk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - 18 months ago, I ended an affair I was having with my neighbour. I was married and so was he. I not only ended it but told my husband, his wife, sold my house, moved to a different neighbourhood and never contacted him again. Even though I've done everything possi... (124 words)

I made a fool of myself when drunk. Tried to make out with a guy who's hot. Friends say I should text him and apologize. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so here's the deal. Last Friday, I got drunk and high with two of my friends and this guy I'm interested in. I've only known him for few weeks but he's really cute. Anyways I'm on this new medication for depression and I guess it messed with my tolerance or something cau... (289 words)

How do I approach a girl I feel attracted to? She is so beautiful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So I am an 18 year old girl, and I have had boyfriends, but recently I feel like i have fallen for a girl who is 25. I hardly know her.. my sister is in a singing competition, where this girl is one of the judges, and since speaking with my sister and findi... (285 words)

He's a bit eccentric, can't take him home to meet my parents, there isn't much sexual attraction. But he's lovely and everything I want. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What would people do in this situation? I met this guy he is everything I want but.. there isn't much sexual attraction and the other thing is he is way too eccentric to take home to my parents. I'd be embarassed. He says things loudly which he shouldn't. He's very, let's ... (77 words)

LDR friend. How can I have a clean break up, without too much hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

13 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - my LD girlfriend and I will have "the talk" soon about our future together, does not look good. we have been together for a year now and knowing each other for another. we are continents apart. I travel every two months to see her and stay a couple of weeks each time. w... (176 words)