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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How come he can't find 5 minutes for me? please help, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. i'm right now in a disturbing relationship. my bf is older than me, he is very sweet, intelligent, and he loves me a lot. we have been together for one year. in beginning he was not too good but was not too bad either. he texted me, called me and spended time wit... (191 words)

Am I thinking right for a guy my age? Have I wasted my youth? Am I missing opportunities to meet girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This may be daft a question but well I've had like 4 sexual partners from about 16-21 I'm now 25.. So that's 4 sexual partners in 9 years one relationship lasted 4 years and I got hurt in the end (a lot was my fault). I've been single for these 3 and a half years and feel h... (144 words)

I feel like I ruined a good relationship between my family and boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, well i'm in this great mess. THe thing is I tend to fight and argue a lot with my family, so most of the time I'M angry with them and my dad used to allways talk shit and say really mean yhings about my boyfriend. SO yeah i ended up saying and expressing everything to my ... (228 words)

My crush knows I like him but he's back with his ex and treats me the same, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science and english. In science i got sat next to him by the ... (417 words)

He wants a break after 3 months, he's not sure when he'll be ready to start dating me again. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I met a guy online around 3 months ago. I wasn't initially into him but I liked him so I decided to give it a go. He runs his own startup business therefore we had an understanding from the off that we'd only see each other infrequently. He'd had failures in the past and it ... (520 words)

What is appropriate? From the moment I was introduced to this woman, she has been rude and condescending to me. Do I stay home or demand he end the friendship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Very early in our relationship I was introduced to a female friend/colleague of his. This woman was the partner of one of his close friends, he knew them as a couple for almost 20 years. The relationship between his ... (452 words)

He doesn't seem to understand why I would be upset that he wants to hang out with a sexy young flight attendant and her friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend met a sexy young flight attendant at a bar last year. She lives in another city and is 30 years his junior. He says he wants to hang out with her and her friend this weekend because he wants to try to set up one of his buddies (also 30 years their senior). He ... (66 words)

Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So today i gave this guy I've ... (114 words)

No diagnosis for his ED and lack of desire! My marriage is almost destroyed by this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age - I hope there are someone out there in my situation. I feel so alone with my problem. My 28 year long marriage is almost destroyed by this, and I dont know what else can I do. So my husband has a chronic sexual/erectile dysfunction, and complete lack of desire for sex. The ... (187 words)

Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead? A coworker flirted with me via email and in person for a few months. He stared at me all the time, emailed me but in some ways was reserved. I thought he was shy. He was actually flirting with another coworker... (163 words)

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she don't want the guy anymore ... (84 words)

Why do I miss him, even after a week? He dumped me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me last week. He was very abusive for that past 6 months. Long story short, I haven't called him since the day he dumped me. I'm making myself busy at work so I won't have time to mope. But for the past 2 days he is always in my mind, I ... (155 words)

He told me he's not thinking of marriage yet! Am I wrong to be disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im with a ldr now with my boyfriend and we been 3 years knew each other via skype and call. And always visiting me here every year, despite of the distance he always make effort to see me. He lives in Slovakia and i lived in Singapore and im still studying while he was ... (439 words)

He hasn't replied to my message, should I delete his number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I've met this guy that's a few years older than me a few times and recently sent him a text (yesterday at almost 12am) it is now a little past 5. He normally takes a while to answer (few hours) but not this long. Should I just give up and move on (delete him from my phone an... (384 words)

Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other so much? My boyfriend says all guys do this, but I don't think so. In their group of friends they are always joking about having sex with each other, and they grab each others asses and squeeze it. They sometimes do it right in ... (260 words)

My boyfriend is deleting messages on his phone, am I just being insecure or should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently caught my boyfriend of a year and 8 months texting 4 other girls and he deleted all of the messages between them but i searched words on his spotlight search and the messages came up. we broke up for about two weeks and i started back talking to him because i love ... (218 words)

My fiance's ex is getting out of jail and he once told me he'd never love me as much as he loves her, am I going to get kicked to the curb when she's back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early but hid it from me and told ... (134 words)

How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how do I teach him humility and sel... (79 words)

Dodgy messages on husband's phone, suspicions of a prostitute, should I phone the person to see who it is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for almost ten years and we have a six year old son. My husband has always been interested in porn (every year or so he slips up and I "find" something, particularly quite young women although not illegal), but I have had no clear evidence or suspicions of ... (710 words)

Do I tell her how I feel, despite having played down my feelings in the past? How do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been training with a woman 1 to 1 at karate for six months we are both instructors. Over this time we talked about many things including relationships, i knew i was fond of her, but not to what extent, and I am also in a relationship where she is not. we trained reg... (430 words)

This girl seems a bit too interested in my fiance so after she hung up on me repeatedly I told my fiance he couldnt drive 5 hours to pick her up from the rodeo. Did I over-react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living together with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we are engaged, he's very naive and always try to cheer people up if they look upset especially his female friends.. One of them is his step cousin, his step Dad brother's wife niece (not related). I met her ... (537 words)

How do I stop being insecure about my penis size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So im an Asian guy will be having sex with a white guy. he's amazing and that's also what he thinks about me. But as any Asian, size issues make me feel insecure. Also, this gonna be his first time being with a guy and i wanna to make it as good as i can. any advice would be ... (61 words)

Is it stress that's causing this inkling that something has changed in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and recently when we've been away from each other I keep having this tiny inkling that something's changed. However, when we're together that all goes and I want to hold her, kiss her etc and we do. I fall in love again. I... (112 words)

Pregnant and lonely, husband is always working?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I don't know what to do or who else to talk to about this but I really need to let it out. I'm halfway through my pregnancy with my first child and I'm feeling so down all the time. It was planned and I'm not unhappy that we're having this child, I just feel so u... (273 words)

Why is he really chatty with other girls but not with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he do that? I don't understand him? So there's this cute guy that I've liked for a while now. He has alot of girly friends and is very chatty with them but he tends to be very quiet with me. Whenever he's talking to them and he sees me he'd turn his f... (203 words)

Are relationships at 19 inevitably pointless?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and currently at university, and I'm quite focused on stuff like my career, my studies, developing a good personality and making long-lasting friendships as that seems to be stuff that will last me for life and actually matter. Because I'm young, I love partying an... (304 words)

Why is my ex still trying to hurt me? He is bringing a girl into my work and my church.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my ex broke up with me. He knows my work schedule and where I work so he brings another girl to my job I work in a make up store most guys don't go in they usually go shopping or wait outside. I was off that day he brought a girl but I usually work Saturdays so he ... (167 words)

It upsets me that my son won't speak to me. Should my parents be offering him special treats, even though he disrespects me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age - I've fallen out with my son, about 6 months ago. I'm perfectly willing to discuss whatever's bothering him, and try and resolve it. He's 20 ,and a very strong character. He simply won't speak to me. He sees my parents about once a week, and I've been trying to get them to ... (158 words)

Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue? My bf and I have been together for 3 years most of the time our relationship is brilliant, but some issues keep coming up and we don't seem to be able to resolve them. When we argue (which is not that often) he can be... (354 words)

How do you stop being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you stop being jealous???? I have never been that jealous of other woman when I have been with boyfriends but in my last relationship my ex boyfriend had a few close female friends and aqaintences and I was very jealous and can't work out why all of a sudden it made me ... (73 words)

Had the second date and I really like her, but she's not responded to my texts for a week!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been on two dates with a wonderful woman and over the course of these dates I have found out that she is perfect for me in every way. The problem is that even though the dates were successful it seems that I'm not a priority in her life at all.... (179 words)

Am I being unfair by not wanting to discuss her ex's? Or is she in the wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there people I am engaged to a beautiful, smart and intelligent girl. Everything is great between us. The thing is, I haven't been in any serious relationships prior to this one although she has been in two very serious relationships, until her partners broke it off for... (361 words)

My ex has jumped straight into a new relationship and she wants me to leave her alone, but I want her back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex girlfriend/the mother of my child of 5years broke up with me and is involved in a rebound relationship. I really want her back but don't know what to do, I've tried expressing my feelings but that seems to push her further away and closer to her new boyfriend. I know ... (146 words)

Do I move on from my boyfriend or just deal with this friendship he has with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I feel like it's time to just give up on my three year relationship. My boyfriend met a girl about two months ago and they seem to hit it off well and I'm suspicious of her. She is the total opposite of me. She is a huge and natural flirt and almost every con... (330 words)

What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains very professional and... (522 words)

My boyfriend of 2 years still doesn't want me to meet his friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! Please help me, I can't understand this, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, my issue is that he doesn't want me to meet most of his friends. (they are all male and all of them are students just like us, no drugs or dark or dangerous things, ... (360 words)

Does this sound like normal puberty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Im 13. Ive had discharge for two years nonstop with no period. My breasts hurt i get headaches, ive noticed lots of blackheads and clogged pores, and i am constantly grumpy and hateful. What does this mean? help, i think puberty hates me... (47 words)

Online dating: yay or nay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I signed up for an online dating site and received a few messages already. Then I realized I was too shy to even reply back to a simple message! Ugh! I thought I would give it a try but I'm still a little on the fence on whether it's a good idea or not. I've heard many, ma... (247 words)

My boyfriend tells other women he's single when he's not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know where to start, other than to say simply -- I'm conflicted. I have been with the same person for four and a half years, since I was 17 and he was 18. I was his first serious relationship, and we were each other's first loves. But he has another love -- attentio... (612 words)

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i cant stop thinking about h... (183 words)

My long distance boyfriend has been cool with me lately

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Am in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend and i are best of friends, but this weekend (ie this last one) he travelled for a party, and i wasnt able to communicate well with him @ all. he sent a txt of his arrival to where the party is holding and that he was very bus... (159 words)

How can I get the confidence to do more things without feeling guilty? And any suggestions on how to end my relationship and not feel like I'm dropping in a hole of being alone forever?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Uncles :) This may be a little long but I could really do with some help. I am a single 24 year old female, would describe myself as being attractive,easy going,hardworking and loyal amongst many other things. Not meaning to sound at all big headed or anyth... (603 words)