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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are we hurting each other by staying together? I am not happy with our LDR!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - H Everyone, I'm a 23 year old Canadian Male. I've been dating my high school sweetheart for a little more than 6 years. We were always very close and we loved each other a lot. We both went to the same university as well. However, I graduated a year earlier than her and I w... (1261 words)

I love my ex fiance and want her back. How do I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everybody I'm in so much pain please help. Me and my fiance of 3 and a half years broke up 5 weeks ago. We broke up because i thought i was over it. I thought that because she can be very difficult and what i think immature. She would get really jealous over things such as ... (404 words)

Is it lust or love I feel for my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4245 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have one small story,about my attraction with my married cousin sister from my ssc onwords it started when i was slept with her on same bed(normal sleep) but next few years i din't much interactions with her one day again i went to her home wen i was 20+ some time... (316 words)

Do you hang out with your friend's? or the friend's of your boyfriend/girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I want to get some personal opinions about this. It's not really a problem but more so a question I have. My boyfriend is a very popular guy, he has a ton of other guy friends and even has a lot of female friends. I know this is going to sound pathetic but I do... (210 words)

I don't want to pine after my crush if she's never going to be free!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a long relationship and recently met this girl who I have a huge crush on. She has a girlfriend although she complains about her all the time she also says that she hates change and likes the security of a relationship. The thing is I know she likes me too ... (127 words)

We love each other but cannot be together. How can I heal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you have fallen in love with someone and they feel the same but you cannot be together. How do i get over the heartbreak. ... (29 words)

Boyfriend's illness makes him never want to go out but I feel caged!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend of 7 years underwent a surgery for a problem he's been facing since 2 years now!he gets these eruptions and warts all over his face and body and the doctors said its a result of an infection with a virus,no matter how many times he underwent surgery ... (172 words)

I hate my father, but my whole family depends on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I grew up in such a loving family, and then one day that all changed. My mom and dad had argument and my dad moved out from our apartment. Shortly after my mom and my younger brother went on vacation. The same day that they went, my dad dropped by our building to bring me some ... (784 words)

Self-Esteem and Love Life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been about three years without a date, and every once in a while I think to myself "Man, I'd really like to spend more time with her." There are a few reasons I don't act on those feelings not the least of which is the fact that I sincerely don't feel like it would go ... (183 words)

How can I compete? My boyfriend chooses marijuana over me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my fiance and partner of 11 years had told me outright that marijuana is more important to his life than me. We have both smoked recreationally since before we met, but lately he has taken it to a whole new level. Over the many years that we have shared a life I have grow... (446 words)

I told my crush that I like him. I didn't stick around to hear his reply though; I ran away. What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my crush that I like him. I didn't stick around to hear his reply though; I ran away. But ever since that incident, he and I have been talking more, staying up for hours at a stretch to chat. He has been incredibly nice, a bit flirty and concerned for my well-being. ... (158 words)

My man pushes me to be bisexual!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hello , i would like to share my relationship problem , because its making me suffer long long time.I was married unhappily (fighting and prisoned in a house)and had 2 children . i met this man in internet and we were chatting everyday for a long time, then after some months we ... (823 words)

She slept with men for money until we started dating. Red flag?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I recently started dating a beautiful girl, a model/student. We've known each other for some time, and I was interested in her, but I knew she sometimes slept with men for money. In her business, she says it is somewhat more common than we might think. We recently start... (226 words)

How do I un-invite my friend from my other friend's bachelorette party??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend since high school was drinks uncontrollably and blacks out and causes problems for everyone around her because of her drinking. I have been kicked out of places, found her passed out on sidewalks in dangerous cities, she has run off from the group, called me and ... (790 words)

When is it okay in a relationship to criticize someone, if ever, and when does it border on verbal abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age - I have a general question about verbal abuse and criticism. When is it okay in a relationship to criticize someone, if ever, and when does it border on verbal abuse? Just one example, my boyfriend came downstairs this morning, saw I had made him a hot breakfast and co... (346 words)

Should I love him even if I know him only in Facebook and we're not seen each other yet personally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi friends, I am 17 now, boy. I just want to share my story and ask for help. Last year I met this guy(but only through Facebook). He was so far from where I am living right now but we are on the same country. When I saw his pictures I felt something weird inside of me, love at ... (342 words)

I think I've found my soul mate but she's 35 years younger than I. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age - I think I have found a soulmate, however I don't think we were meant to be together as we have a very large age difference. I think that as the older person I am meant to help her in some way. Why do I think we are soulmates? Well, our likes are so close sometimes it seems ... (209 words)

I'm pregnant again and all the old problems with my boyfriend and the last pregnancy have resurfaced

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 4 and a half years and we have a 2 almost 3 year old. We have been trying for a few months to get pregnant and I'm 8 weeks pregnant. Our son wasn't planned but it worked out ok, and he's a lovely little boy. When I was pregnant with my son he w... (405 words)

How do I make this girl accept a date from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4246 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - since my entrance in to the university, i haven't being too friendly to girls in our department of study. Recently there is this girl in our class i've started chatting with. Anytime we sit together she's will be so close enough to me that our body do touch each other.when we ... (300 words)

Husband's co-worker is sending him suggestive messages late at night and he is responding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am concerned about my husband's co-worker. I snooped through his email account this morning and found an email from her to my husband saying that if he was single and asked her out, she would say yes. I am very concerned about this. I find this statement to b... (155 words)

He's 24. He was texting me. Then he just stopped. What can I do? Because I am aggrieved.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 year-old woman who had been harbouring initial feelings of fondness for a man who happens to be two years senior to me. We had been Facebook friends since a long time, but had conversations once in a blue moon. A fortnight back we started chatting regularly and en... (360 words)

Is this about Japanese:European cultural differences? Is this normal? Or is he keeping me at a distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you for reading, I'm from Europe and about one year I live in Japan with my bf and his family. He is Japanese. We met over 3 years ago in web and last year decided to live together. Now he graduated and working in company, I graduated too, and now can study and work h... (618 words)

What should I do, and how could this affect my marriage, considering that I am married, but may be bi-sexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate the fact that i can't get rid of this feeling and have to come back here and ask you guys for advices. I got married 8 months ago to a loving man of more than 3 years relationship. He's not perfect but he's the greatest one. Only him can make me laugh that way and fe... (287 words)

Sexy pictures? I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So what to do? Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I need help i want to send my bf some sexy pictures of me. Problem is i don't know how to take these kind of pictures. Im a chubby girl with small breasts. I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So any ideas? I would like guys opinion in this. ... (54 words)

He can cum when he watches porn, when he thinks I'm asleep. But with me he can't last. Is it me? Am not sexy enough for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

3 May 2013 (?) age 36-40 - hi everybody .. i got married 6 months ago. I am 25 and my husband 36 now .. when we have sex he cant keep his penis hard for a long time and he doesn't cum always .. I have read about it and found out that it's because of alcohol and smoking and he drinks a lot and smokes o... (199 words)

Should I tell her about the relationship I had in the past with a married woman? Or is it best left in the past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Five years ago I had an off and on physical relationship with a married woman who I work with. I was single at the time. We still work together but it ended well and there is no bad blood between us but she can be Vindictive if she wants to be. In the past six months I hav... (194 words)

Does he think I'm The One?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my boyfriend last night that I thought he was The One! We're together about 7 months. Anyway, he replied: "good". Did he just say that to shut me up? Or does he think the same of me!? He's not the very best at being sensitive and emotional and talk about his feelings so ... (61 words)

When I visit my BF he always has girls in his house, and this makes me feel humiliated.. Should I continue dating him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for 7 months. I see a lot of girls in his house when i visit and he tells me they are desperate to be with him. He always assures me that am the one he loves. Should i continue dating him or what else can i do. I feel so humiliated and feel like a fool... (71 words)

How do I negotiate dating a soon to be divorced man with a child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing a guy. It started out as a hook up ad we started meeting regularly for BDSM type nights. I'm quite a bit younger than he is and he is in the middle of negotiating a divorce with a young child. I met her a few weeks ago and have seen her a few times. My ... (193 words)

Does my willingness to end the relationship mean it's time for it to end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together for 1.5 years. There's been good times and bad. I've verbally attacked him and physically attacked him twice. I can't figure out why, but he must love me. I really do love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I'm also not willing to stay ... (158 words)

How do I handle the visitation of my ex seeing our baby after its born? He left me and is an alcoholic

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do when the father of my baby wants to see her after shes born?? I am now 20 weeks pregnant and alone. The father left me for dead and I havent heard boo from him. I have accepted the fact that Im going to be a single parent. The father is an alcoholic and a deadbeat ... (325 words)

Risk the friendship with former teacher, or risk the whole thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to be a sophomore in College and after a year of getting away from the high school scene, I thought a few feelings for a former teacher would subside, however, I think they've only grown. From my freshman to senior year in high school, I became personally close... (251 words)

I want to tell him that he makes me depressed but I like him but I'm afraid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately, the guy I like has been avoiding me lately. I'm also kind of sure he does like me back (maybe, I'm not completely sure). When we pass by each other in the hallway, we would always say hello and have a quick chat. Also, normally, we would walk to our locker to put our ... (318 words)

Was I wrong to tell my friend that on a girls night out for my birthday everyone pay for themselves, and not me paying for everyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a situation that I need some clarification with your help. My birthday is coming up in a couple of weeks. Usually this is what we do with my friends: we get together only girls and go first to dinner and then club to dance. It's always lots of fun, as we don't get to ... (694 words)

I want to know how my friend feels but am worried about ruining our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4243 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this boy nearly two years ago at a political meeting, and as soon as he walked into the room I knew that I liked him. It was instantaneous. Since then, my feels have increased ten fold. We've become pretty good friends, and I really don't want to risk our friendship b... (241 words)

Ex being nice? Or does he want something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - okay....so here's the thing : i went out with this guy for a year and two months wen i was in high school. after that i broke up with him n went out with a couple of guys for relatively small durations of time and this first guy knows tat. so he never talked to me politely... (137 words)

Co-worker will not stop asking me out even after saying no several times... what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I work with who has been showing interest in me for over a year. He is older than me by 10 or so years, but he is in a position below me. Several times he has told me that he is attracted to me, that he cares for me, and that he thinks I like him too (he is ... (466 words)

Can guys with commitment issues ever change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - can guys with commitment issues ever change? my ex is 23 and we have been on and off for 16 months. seems every time things begin to get pretty serious he freaks out and runs off! the last time we broke up was in january, we broke up because he said he cared about me so much ... (981 words)

Is this guy playing me or is he for real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I'm 28 years old female and I was wondering what the motives are from a guy I just met. He works for another office right next to mine so I saw him very frequently on the bus when I was on my way to work but we have never spoken to each other. Until I added him... (760 words)

When is it the right time to walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

3 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - When is it the right time to walk away? I want to be back with my ex. I have been contacting him through a dice game, he had changed his phone number after we broke up when he went back to his ex. His ex didnt want to be with him, she just did not want him with anyone else. He ... (390 words)