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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need flirting tips!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am meeting a guy for coffee next week, and I have been duly informed by my friends that I suck a flirting and recognising flirting. I don't know if this guy likes me or not, but we had a close working relationship last year, but haven't seen each other for nearly a year an... (208 words)

He's 25 years older than me! Should I just find someone my own age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

2 May 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, am a young lady of 20 years old and 4months ago I months ago I met a 45year old man. Since then we have been communicating very well, but we don't meet regularly as he doesn't stay in town but works here. He told me he have never been married but has 1daughter(5years old) ... (121 words)

My man refuses to have sex with me for the past 4 months

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So for the past 4 months out of my 10 month relationship my boyfriend has not touched me. He says that he is not emotionally ready. Due to issues we have been having. I know one thing for a fact is that he is not cheating. I am becoming extremely annoyed besides that fact that ... (106 words)

I need to leave my sociopath girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a relationship with a woman whom I believe is a sociopath; I have been with her for over 7 years now. Here is the background of the situation, I met her when I returned from another state where another relationship had failed and began working in nightclubs as a ... (842 words)

I met the perfect guy but it's completely the wrong time for a relationship. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really, really like this guy I met very recently at college. Though I don't know him very well, from what I've seen of him he has an amazing personality, is extremely caring (spends most of his free time volunteering and helping others) and that's why I fancy him so much. We ... (370 words)

I'm confused if I ever liked this girl I met thru a friend or was I just using her as a shrink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 27,I was in a live-in relationship with a girl for over 3 years,my family knew about it and everyone welcomed her with open arms!I belong to a very priveldged family and with god's grace we have more that what we asked for! I loved this girl with all my heart and was ... (301 words)

My girlfriend stayed the night with her ex. I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My Gf and I have been dating for 7months. Im 19 and she's 20. 2 days ago her ex and some of his friends were in her city and asked her out. The very last minute she left, she told me she'd stay the night with them. (at the time i didn't know her ex would be there as well). T... (152 words)

I'm gay, but keeping it a secret! Some people suspect and whisper behind my back, and now I'm wondering about my close male friend! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been through a lot. Since primary school I've been bullied by my cousin for being shy and a little overweight. At 13, I decided to move school, I continued to be shy because I didn't have any confidence. After a while I started to get bullied by the popular guys but not ... (278 words)

Her reply to my declaration of feelings for her was "what the hell are you talking?" I'm so hurt, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi frndzz, i love my cousin a lot. We used to chat to each other at gmail. I have strong feelings for her. I expressed my feelings to her through gmail but she ignored my feelings and replied:'' what the hell are you talking?''. And i have been hurted very much. Pls pls give me ... (73 words)

Will a guy ever see me as "special"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello my questions is about my dating history. I have a few boyfriends in the past. I have noticed that men like to chase women they like women who are hard to get. For some reason I don't why men don't chase me. I have to make all the moves in the past. I even back off and ... (198 words)

As much as I love my friends, I feel like I am the only one who always gets left out and even ignored sometimes.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to try and make this as short as I can. As much as I love my friends, I feel like I am the only one who always gets left out and even ignored sometimes. They will all make plans or hang out or all be online chatting and doing stuff together without me. I j... (265 words)

My fiancé 'needs space'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having a major panic. Im engaged (was) to be married this December. Two weeks ago my fiance had an arguement that escalated and we pretty much havnt spoken. Now at the best of times he can be insecure and Im getting all the blame here as I apparantly left him after he said ... (244 words)

Did my ex love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was just wondering did my ex really love me he would correct everything i said everything i done even stupid things like cleaning my teeth how i tidy up how i hoovered yet he could be so loving he would also call me names quite often and tried to put me down i would kiss ... (82 words)

When I show some weakness like depending him for emotional support or ask him for his help, he pulls back and is disinterested in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf of 3.5 years talks to me nicely when i pull back i.e doesn't show any interest whatsoever in him, but if when i show some weakness like depending him for emotional support or ask him for his help, he pulls back and is disinterested in me. This kind of beh... (122 words)

Out of nowhere he tells me that he's going to date this girl, that he loves her more then he ever loved me and he's completely positive that he's going to marry her. Um..what just happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to an ex again about 5 months back. We'd been talking and it seemed like things were headed back toward a relationship. (Yay, because this was the one guy that I could actually see any future with). Then out of no where he tells me that he's going to date this ... (154 words)

Am I reading too much onto his behavior? Or do you think he wants to get closer to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - The other night I went to my best guy friends house. He was quite drunk an played me some music on his guitar and we talked about some deep things. He likes to hug me a lot and shake my hand a lot. One of the times he hugged me I felt him Kiss my shoulder. He even said he loves ... (101 words)

Is it weird that I'm really sexually attracted to loads of guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - is it weird that im really sexually attracted to loads of guys? most of my friends either have crushes or boyfriends and the fact that i think about sex so much is strange to them because ive never actually had it but ive come pretty close and i really enjoy it, does that make ... (60 words)

We are keeping things casual so how do I broach the subject of being exclusive without scaring him off or appearing needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone I think I'm being paranoid about this but just wanted a bit of advice. I've been seeing this guy for the last 2 or 3 months but neither of us want anything serious so we 're just keeping things casual and not telling any of our friends. Problem is I can't help ... (116 words)

How do I get him to come out of his depression and share his worries?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii i have been in relationship with my friend from past 2 years... what hurts me a lot is that he does not share his worries with me..... he keeps very silent even though i ask him wat happened with lot of love..... when that silent went for 1 and a half month..... (348 words)

How to approach girl. Will I have to make a random approach on Facebook or is there a better way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, So a while ago I saw a photo from a female friend of mine on Facebook which was with her and this really attractive girl. Didn't think much of it. Turns out I saw her on the bus going home a few days ago, I couldn't approach her as it was full, and all of t... (320 words)

Why do I not have the drive to fix something that is making me unhappy and get a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and never been with a girl. It makes me sad and unhappy and I crave someone to be close to, cuddle and other intimacy. Yet I can't seem to find the drive to do anything. Each year I think to myself: this year I want to get a girl. It hasn't happened so far. In co... (191 words)

I've just found out my boyfriend has a second child with his ex, I don't think I can deal with him having so many kids but I'm pregnant with his baby! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just found out my boyfriend has another baby with his first baby mama, they already have a son I knew about. im also 5 months pregnant with his baby, he said he just found out that her daughter is his, he didn't cheat with her the baby was before me he just didn't know or tell ... (179 words)

He's lost interest in me since he's been watching porn, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 21 i we've been in relation for around 8 months...he loves me so much...we were very happy ...and he told me many times that he watch porn i didnt care because it didnt show any change in our relationship...recently i saw him watching nude pics of other girls and watching ... (159 words)

I was snooping on my boyfriend's phone and found he was looking for 'city over 30's' - was he planning on cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I know snooping is wrong but I did it, I snooped on my boyfriends phone and saw his last google search. He was away at a course for the weekend and the city he went to for this course he googled: "city over 30s". I thought he was looking for night out to meet someone and he had ... (150 words)

Why don't girls like compliments?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 25 years old,and had quite the reputation about dating women which I am not proud of but I was never in love hence played the field.. About 2 years ago I started dating this beautiful girl,she is beutiful inside out,has a heart of gold andd I was instantly drawn ... (140 words)

My boyfriend wants other women to touch him?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been in relationship with s for more then 5 years. it wasn't easy all this while. but i stayed strong cause he never bring in any girls. last year an incident happen where he lied to me and went outstation with his working friend female. after a long fight he told me that ... (348 words)

Four years dating on and off and now he says he doesn't care for me in that way??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I dated this guy for a year and a half but we broke it off cause he were fighting a lot and I would still talk to him or go visit him (lives a little far) then when I finally decided that I couldn't take it anymore, i stopped trying all together to talk to him or be in his ... (334 words)

I want to tell him I'm in love with him but am worried I may be saying it too soon. What does everyone think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met online. We have been together for almost 2 months now. I am in love with him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same about me. We haven't actually said it yet. Is it the guys job or the girls? He is turning 31 this year, he has never been married and has ... (306 words)

My ex looks sad but I'm happy I ended things!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well as many of you know I've been having issues with my so called boyfriend .. Well me and him aren't together any longer and I feel good but then again really lonely. I go out with family and friends to get my mind off things but today I saw him at the restaurant where I was ... (120 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to stop yelling at me all the time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and in the beginning he would never yell at me, but now it's like everything I do is wrong. I can't talk to certain people otherwise he gets really angry and threatens to leave me, if I don't do something right. Sometimes I ... (194 words)

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend is not and I feel that if I give him my virginity, I'm giving him a claim on me but I won't have any significant claim to him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi so I have a little conflict with myself right now and I don't really know what to do. I happen to be 17 turning 18 and my boyfriend is 19 turning 20 and lately we've been discussing the topic of lovemaking. For starters I do know that I am too young to be thinking about sex, ... (368 words)

Sometimes he can be the sweetest person I know and sometimes he can act like a complete and utter pig.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - It's driving me mad. There this bloke that I really, really like. Sometimes he can be the sweetest person I know. He laughs at my jokes and I laugh at his. We've got quite a bit in common and I have known him now for 5 years. Sometimes though he can act like a com... (216 words)

Is my boyfriend's father a deal breaker for us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years, we are both 25 years old. We have our problems, but I really need advice on one thing that's incidentally not his fault, as i'm not sure whether it's a deal breaker or not.. We've been living together for 2 years and i've a... (501 words)

I have a light patch on my upper lip and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I thank anyone in advance who takes the time to read this and answer it, because it's a rather small problem yet it greatly affects my self confidence. See, I grow a bit of facial hair above my lip and I remove it no problem with waxing strips. The problem is, the ... (287 words)