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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The thought of sex with just anyone makes me physically ill. Am I the only one out there like this? Will I ever meet anyone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and never had a boyfriend or sexual contact or anything. Yeah, I've had self esteem issues. But realistically, I've never even ever met anyone in real life that I had any feelings for. I never met anyone that I was attracted to. Aside from celebrities -which ... (324 words)

What is my fathers problem? And why does my mum put up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What is my fathers problem? And why does my mum puts up with him? My dad gets on my nerves!! Since I can remember he's always been such an @sshole. He treats my mum like ****. She pays the bills and everything in our house whiles my dad sits on his *** all day. He just... (230 words)

Has anyone with retrograde jealousy ever come to terms with it and found peace?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

29 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - About 2 years ago I posted an issue in this forum about how my wife cheated on me while we were dating and how lost her virginity to another man. This was despite her telling me she would not have premarital sex with anyone until married and I waited for her not knowing she was ... (425 words)

Could I be putting myself in danger by allowing my Ex back in my new life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I have been single for ten years now and I want to be back with my ex he is my daughter father I moved to another state to get my life together I stopped drinking and getting high( pot) .Now that we are going older the children are grown we want to rekindle the flame ... (111 words)

My gf doesn't want me to please her because she thinks I expect the same back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

29 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have a girlfriend and I love. I sometimes do nice and cute stuff to make her happy. And I usually expect to be rewarded for doing so by her as well. As it appears, she doesn't share my point of view. I offered her to make a romantic dinner on her birthday ... (181 words)

Fiance walked out on me while pregnant, I found out he's living with his ex. He wants me back but I can't get over the hurt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - he walked away without a word and left town when I was pregnant. two days later said he left to give me space. I was hurt so I didn't allow him to come right back. then I had the baby he said he was so sorry about hurting me the way he did by leaving and I was now allowing him ... (438 words)

Can extroverts successfully date introverts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really extroverted and sociable; I have loads of friends and am generally pretty nice, but it seems to scare a lot of "introverted"/nice/geeky guys off as I guess I come across as rather in your face. I went out with a friend of mine (who's almost the complete opposit... (247 words)

I don't really have that many good friends, how do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 and I've just realised today that I don't have any good friends, only acquaintances. I know I must be unintentionally doing something to cause this, so my question is how do I fix it? I always make an effort to be nice and friendly to people, but my relationships ve... (245 words)

Is it selfish to be a bit upset that my freshly-out gay friend will never feel for me what I feel for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always considered myself pan-sexual. I only fall for special people, regardless of gender. I can only fall for personality and not sex, and never people I haven't known for a while. I have a really good friend, whom I've been infatuated with for a few months. He's a year ... (325 words)

It feels like I'm living in a version of Harold & Maude!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - This is an update on http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-16-year-old-son-is-in-love.html I should mention, this woman is a counsellor for people with gambling addictions - adults, that is, not a school counsellor and she's also extremely wealthy too - despite that, sh... (389 words)

Is it reasonable for your fiance to demand that you never speak to any exes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I recently got engaged, mostly due to the fact that I got pregnant. We were having some problems but when we found out, we decided to work on it. It hasn't been easy but things are slowly improving and we're both excited about the baby. During the time we were... (348 words)

What do I do if she comes on to me? I don't want to be on her "list of resentments"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I need some help! For some backstory, understand that my ex, lets call her Sue (names changed obviously) and I were a great couple back in high school and at the beginning of college despite going to schools that were 500 miles apart. When we did break up, it was... (551 words)

Can a man who lies to me about everything be a keeper? Should I carry on with him or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid.It was a LDR but we are livin together now in Gauteng,6months now but we've been in this for 4 years nw. My problem is that-I visited him so many times at his province of residence,he introduced me to his family BUT he lied abt his mom that she is his grand ma and i... (283 words)

My husband always looks at other women and tells me that's normal. I can't bear it! Help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - whenever i am out with my husband, he always look at other womens which i can't bear. its hurting me always. due to which i don't talk to my husband 2-3 days. but still he does the same. i spoke to him about this. he says it's normal. but i can't accept this. i love him very ... (79 words)

We all had plans to do stuff this summer, and now I'm not going to be invited to any of it. I'm really sad and feel lonely now. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I had a falling out with the main person in my friend group I guess you can say. It was just a little argument over something really silly, something I didn't even do, but I apologized and he still won't speak to me. Well since then I guess he's been talking bad... (206 words)

Is cyber sex considered cheating?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it cheating?. I am a bit confused if ... (68 words)

I see my marriage as an obligation, not something that I can enjoy and have fun being in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello! After a lot of time that i haven't seen my ex-boyfriend, i think that i don't really feel the need to be with him anymore. We only talk some times in the phone in a friendly way. We remain friends after all, but i don't like a more intimate relation with him. However, i ... (367 words)

I'm torn between 2 boys. One is an ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Im torn between these two boys "A" is a ex who I've always had an amazing connection with we were together for a bit last October after we admitted feelings for echother finally i kinda used to put him in the friend zone beacause the thought of us had never come to mind but his ... (161 words)

Fiance had feelings for old school friend, how should I have handled this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 23 year old woman, and am about to get married to my fiance, but I have an issue. He has some feelings for a girl he used to go to school with, and I let my insecurity get the better of me and caused this girl a situation where I humiliated her in front of all of her old ... (783 words)

Huge row and now he isn't talking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP me and my bf are 15 and been together for nearly 11 months, its now the half term and me and my bf had a huge row Friday night because I saw him hug one of his female mates, I texted him asking why this happened he told me she hugged him because he was sad about not ge... (501 words)

Do girls share everything with their friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

29 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I like this girl lets call her a. So in school a also responded me well.it was well obvious we both liked each other. We chat on facebook. And now i came 2 know.. Whenevr i used to chat with her,she used to share that with other freinds. Does girls who like a guy talk about... (68 words)

If you attended a rather large school and some person identified you and complimented you. Would you reply back? Would you feel creeped out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts and uncles! All advice is welcome. The sooner the better, as the problem is quite simple. I am on a dating site, and this guy from the university happens to be on there as well. Once I found this out, I went through stages of "To message him or not... (181 words)

The thought of this man really excites me but I don't want to lose my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am riddled with guilt, anxiety, and excitement. I am married 15 years to a man I have known 20 years. Recently I met a man at a place I usually shop. We struck up a conversation, and met almost every day there. Finally he asked me if I am married, I said yes and he looked ... (322 words)

Feel dizzy/faint when touch vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. So just some background info.. I just turned 18, I'm not a virgin, I've had sex a few times but it was really painful each time so I kind of have avoided having sex since then. A couple of years ago, I tried putting in a tampon, and I put it in (I'm positive it was ... (188 words)

I like this guy but feel pressured since its almost the end of the school year. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, right now my life is not perfect. Currently going through a very rough time and sometimes i wish something good would come out of my life just for once. Anyways i ve never really been in a relationship but for some reason i kinda feel if i did it would make my life feel ... (182 words)

I want to hurt my husband with words the way that he hurts me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always says harsh words to me which make me feel worthless and they stay in my mind for a long time. He says words which belittle me and make me feel worthless. Anytime I give an opinion or request he jus turns it down so harshly. When he hurts me and i try to tell ... (94 words)

Hopeless Crush on a Childhood Friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy that lives a couple houses down my street. He's only one year older than me, and we used to play together all the time when we were much younger. I didn't see him around for the past few years, but since the past couple weeks I've seen him around, but always ... (134 words)

My former teacher always knew how I felt about him. He knew I always loved him, so why he reacted like this when I admitted it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, I simply need help and advice. I have been some stupid school girl and fell for a married teacher. I don't even know how to put into words and I don't know whose fault. But what happened has happened. This teacher didn't taught me but was always close to... (636 words)

Can a no strings attached relationship ever turn into a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

29 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there im back out on the dating scene again yeeaah well anyways i kinda want nsa's fun and no relationship however that seem to be somewhat hard as now the three guys im sleeping with want to have a realtionship yes all three but i don't know what to do i like e... (185 words)