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writes:Hello, this is a little long but please do read.This is a bit of a messy situation, literally.Yesterday i interviewed a man who i have a serious crush on, a very sexy handsome man with massive muscles, i sat next to him to take a picture and asked if i could feel his muscles and see his tattoos and he took off his shirt so i could see, i was oohhing and arrhhing then all of a sudden we were embraced kissing passionately and feeling each other and he asked me if i had not seen the way he was staring at me when he came in. He pressed himself against me and said look what i am doing to him, i replied i liked it.We were kissing when someone walked in so he asked if he could come to see me later, i excitedly gave him my address. Obviously i wanted to go all the way with him, i am not looking for a relationship i will be honest, just fun. So anyway, later in the night he came over to mine and we had mad passionate sex. Before he left he kissed me on my forehead then said 'come here' and kissed me on the mouth, then he said he was going to teach me to give him oral because he loves it, i laughed and said 'you wish' we'd had a discussion earlier where i had told him i don't do oral sex as i have reflex that will cause my jaw to clamp shut as my mouth is used to food alone lol. The thing is, after he'd left, i noticed some blood and was so embarrassed and unsure if he had got any on him, so the next day plucked up the courage to text him that i'd noticed some blood after sex and am so sorry if any had got on him and was embarrassed and so confused why i bled as i was not due and the only explanation i could think of was the mad good sex he gave me combined with the fact i hadn't had sex in a year before last night.7hrs later after no response i e-mailed him asking if he got my text outlining if he is mad at me how sorry i am.Still no reply.Now,i slept with him for my own pleasure and do not regret it, but do you think he is ignoring me because of the blood? or did he just want a f@kc?I am so upset i bled, i can't believe it.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (17 May 2013):
You do not email that at the end! You never put something like that on a professional setting. Just consider it a hook up and move on.
**shaking head**
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013): Thank you all for your replies. I did tell him i wasn't looking for a relationship and we could have fun as friends which to his reply was 'definitely'.
Anyway i guess he just isn't interested anymore. Being with him was a dream come true for me i have to admit i had fantasized about him for a long time and was over the moon when i discovered i would be meeting him.
I have to e-mail him a copy of his interview, i would like to add at the end ...... thank you for the sex, it was fun, take care. Or should i just leave it out?
Thanks.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (17 May 2013):
 he doesn't care about the blood. it was just a hook up for him, so that's why he's not responding. don't worry about it. in fact, he probably never even knew you bled til you said something.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (17 May 2013):
For a mature man blood wouldn't be a big deal. He probably didn't respond because it was a one time thing.
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reader, R1 +, writes (17 May 2013):
 I doubt the blood bothered him, people bleed during sex sometimes it's not a big deal. He probably thinks you are after a relationship so is avoiding replying in case you get the wrong idea. It was a one off.
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