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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell my boyfriend to be himself and not who he thinks I want him to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is pretending to be someone he's not... I smoke pot, He knows that and he's fine with it. But after I told him, he never shuts up about "how much pot he smokes", and "how high he is right now". I don't know if he's lying just to seem 'cooler' and show off. It's ... (84 words)

Is it a harmless foot fetish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so the guy I'm dating now is the Absolute most affectionate man I've ever been with the sex is good and very Passionate and I love him to peices but there is just one thing he loves FEET he Literately loves to put my feet in his mouth all the time! I don't really mind it ... (96 words)

Should I participate in hanky panky with a colleague while out of town?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age - Just feeling a bit naughty I suppose. Soon I will be going out of town to San Diego for a 4 day class and conference. My husband has declined to join me so I am thinking of sharing a hotel room and bed with a very nice attractive young gentleman in the group who has offered to ... (147 words)

Can ex's be friends without issues? My boyfriend still talks online to his ex every day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts. My question is based on my own relationship history and my boyfriend's. Whenever I have broken up with someone, I haven't been able to stay friends with my ex's, for whatever reason. I have had 3 serious relationships including my current relationship. Howeve... (296 words)

I can't have an orgasm during normal sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is an explicit topic but I need advice on something, that's obviously why I am here. I am worried that I am loosing my sexual stamina. I am a 21 year old female and I have never had an orgasm by a mans penis. the only way I can orgasm is being deeply ... (111 words)

Was my boyfriend just being friendly or too curious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend asked his friends girlfriend if she was still with her boyfriend, should i be worried? My boyfriend was friends with her boyfriend first, so that is how he knows her. Do you think he was just asking to be friendly, or what ?. I saw that on one of his messages, bu... (76 words)

My boyfriend has been taking me for granted since we got back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy from past 6 years. we broke up for a year but got back together again. We both love each other a lot but from the past 6 months he has been taking me very casually. He cuts the call in between when ever he feels like...he shouts a lot ... (174 words)

He keeps promising to marry me but seven years later...nothing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years an we've even bought a house together cause we were both tired of him renting small places. My problem is he forever promises to marry me an when the time comes he become agressive. On the past 4 months I went back home thinking... (155 words)

My boyfriend maintains a friendship with a woman who has a crush on him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even though my boyfriend says he doesn't ... (79 words)

My boyfriend's lack of ambition is taking a toll on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says he's lost his lust for life. And I can see a serious lack of motivation and drive but because Ive only been in the picture for two years I dont know for sure if this is a recent thing or if he has always been this way. He is a musician and always had dreams of ... (479 words)

My co-worker cannot take a hint!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - One of my co workers gave me a ride home one time. On our way there, my neighbor called me and said they were having a party in our building and to come join them. So I asked my co worker if he wanted to join the party and he said yes. I was just being friendly, nothing more. ... (691 words)

I'd like to wait until Father's Day to tell my husband I'm pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I just found out, Im two and a half weeks pregnant via blood test, so its very early on. ( I was getting a blood test anyway and had missed my period so I asked if my doctor could order a blood preg test also) Anyways its very early on and I wanted to wait to tell my ... (132 words)

My boyfriend has been acting strangely since he discovered I deleted his ex-girlfriend's number from his phone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now because he is from the UK and I am from North America and I have to finish university until December, then we can be together. We have been dating for about a year and a half now and have done long distance for abou... (449 words)

My girlfriend chose me over him, but now she's depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

19 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - we have been going through a rocky patch for the last 3 weeks. my girlfriend called me friday night and appolagised for breaking up with me,she said that she had kissed another guy she had feelings for she said that she was sorry and had to tell me and asked me back and to ... (264 words)

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) age 36-40 - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for months, but we never really cut ... (215 words)

I think I wasted my teenage years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I'm wondering if anyone here can relate and give me some advice. I'm 19 years old and I feel like I've sort of wasted my teenage years and that I didn't really live the life of a normal teenager. I've never had a boyfriend, never really had any close or best friends, ... (158 words)

I'm having a difficult time getting over an abusive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me a week ago. I'm still trying to move on even though for the last 6 months he was very abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards me, called me whore and slut while dumping me thru phone. I know I didn't deserve it, but still mourning o... (166 words)

Should I ask older guy to meet up again? Or wait until he asks me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a bar.. He was the one that talked to me first and he said it'd be a shame if we didn't see each other again. I spend almost 24hours with him after we met. Then I asked him to meet again by texting and he said yes. So after we met again I asked to see him... (323 words)

Does she like me? Or just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working with this girl for about a month now, and I really like her. But the problem is I don't know if she likes me back or not. I'm not very good at telling when a girl likes you or if they're just being friendly. Whenever I'm working with her she is always to... (230 words)

It was supposed to be just the two of us, and now its me, him and her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay... So I just found out this guy I like likes me back, so I invited him to come hang around with me at the weekend but my friend tagged along too. They recently exchanged numbers and have started telling each other secrets and my friend even sent a message to me ... (143 words)

Should I text him? Or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4193 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, Hey so I got the number of this guy I'm into from my friend about a week ago. I sent him a text saying it was me and I was sorry for getting really sloppy while drunk. He replied in about a minute saying it was fine. We then sent about ten messages, and he would match my... (203 words)

So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

19 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me to approach them. I do... (231 words)

My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard on.... (50 words)

Grass isn't green on any side it seems...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So here is my Story, I am in school for Police Foundation and I would one day like to become a cop. I met this girl in my college that seems to also be going for the same thing i am in seeming we are in the same classes. So we start to talk and it also leads to us Dating. ... (417 words)

I haven't heard from him for a long time, and miss him a lot!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Thanks for help first. I knew a man three years ago from a party. Since I was married at the time, we never talked and saw each other again. I am separated now. Since I was lonely, I went to sing and met the same man again. I told him I would divorce. He then beg... (754 words)

My only problem with him is his parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me start by saying my partner and I are 27 and 28. We have pretty much the perfect relationship. We never argue, fight, lie or hide anything from eachother. We are so happy together. We have had problems in the past from outside influences but this has never affected how we ... (962 words)

Is he just a total liar? Why would he put up pictures that are found online? And make out that they are him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy I know and who hits on me a lot. We've hooked up quite some times. He tells all this stories about being in the military, being deployed, being hurts in battle, the military training, the special courses he has, that he wakes up everyday at 6am to train. ... (379 words)

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long. My husband denied it over and o... (154 words)

Was it my fault that she broke up with me? Was I wrong falling in love with a recovering alcoholic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (M)

age - Hi, I keep hearing I should have left her alone during her tweive step program, but we were together for three months. I don't know if she drank before I picked her up to go dancing, movies, walks in the parks, trips, picnics. I stopped drinking over twenty years ago. I was a dr... (243 words)

Feel hopelessly bound to him. Do I just try to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

19 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Began I relationship with a boy from a very young age. We lost our virginities to each other and were beyond in-love. Due to our age and him wanting to 'be a bloke' and hang out with 'his boys' and the pressure of us having to get on with our lives eg him moving country ... (165 words)

So why am I feeling conflicted about progressing this to sex with her? Seemed the logical next option.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

19 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently began a self-improvement kick, beginning to exercise, be more social, exude confidence. I'm getting female attention for the first time in ages. I really hit it off with a girl at a party last week, we spoke a lot and ended up holding hands/exchanging ... (327 words)