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writes: My bf and I were on and off so many times. He cheated on me twice and while he studied abroad I found out that he kissed some other girl. I forgave him and gave him a lot of chances. We were in a long distance relationship before I broke up with him. While he's away from me, I missed him and cried to bed almost every night or I went to bed sad or angry because of tons of fights. He hurt me again and he seems doesn't care this breakup. He never contacted me. Now I'm trying to move on. I'm happy that I don't go to bed angry and sad or worry about him cheating on me again. I can buy whatever I want. I don't need to save money to go see him and live with him. I got the certificate that I've always wanted. I'm proud of myself which is something he never did. We are not friends on facebook. I don't know anything about his life like he doesn't know how everything's going with me now. I'm glad that I finally moved on and got rid of him. How to I let him know I'm happy without him and make him regret leaving a nice girl like me?
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (17 May 2013):
The opposite of love is indifference, not hate. Only when you have genuinely achieved the former will you be truly free of your ex, and by then you'll feel letting him know anything about you would be pointless. Keep busy and keep socializing.
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reader, Darrell Goodliffe +, writes (17 May 2013):
 I would keep him out of your life and carry on along the road you are traveling. You are healing, on the road to recovery, yet you are trying to find a way to insinuate him back into your life, even if consciously you think this is to rub his nose in how happy you are, and it would be regressive to do this. The very fact that it matters, that he is still a part of you enough for you to want to rub his nose in it, suggests very strongly to me you are not as fully healed as you think you are.
Contacting him again will take you right back to square 1 and open up all those wounds that you thought had healed so much. Carry on doing what your doing and dont spare a thought for this man who clearly doesnt deserve anything from you. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013): Why do you care what your ex thinks. I could give a flying flip about whether or not my knows Im happy and I am not trying to put it out there that I am. You still have strong feelings for this person and you're not doing
yourself any justice by trying to Let him know. Just live your life to through fullest and Let it be at that. Best of luck.
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