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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does he want to do it himself instead of being intimate with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we are in love and live together. We have a really good and happy relationship apart from one thing. He would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Iv talked to him about it and he said that he just hasn’t felt like sex ... (308 words)

New relationship advice needed! How much togetherness is too much? Do I push back on the alcohol issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 months. We met at work and so far everything has gone fairly well. So far, we only have 2 issues that cause a little tension. When we first started talking as friends, she mentioned that there was an apartment in the next building ... (248 words)

What city should I file for divorce in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am thinking very seriously about divorcing my spouse. I was wondering if I plan on moving after I give him the papers do I find a lawyer in the city I live in now or then city I plan to move to? It will be in the same state. ... (52 words)

Boyfriend of 8 months is ignoring me after a fight

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 8 months is completely ignoring me. It's been 5 days with no contact. We got into a stupid fight about him always wanting to do things on his schedule and him being inconsiderate towards me. I was trying to have a conversation but he blew up, got really defen... (359 words)

Brothers girlfriend spreading rumours?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My brothers girlfriend has really started to annoy me. She previously went out with my fiancee's best friend, but they were only together for a week and he even said that he barely counts it as a relationship. She has told my brother that he has been sending her messages on ... (327 words)

My sister in laws children never listen to anything their told?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 18 weeks pregnant and experiencing LOADS of hormones. Please no judging on this questions because I know that if I wasn't pregnant and feeling all of these emotions that I would never be feeling like this. In every article I've read on pregnancy, it sa... (302 words)

Her family doesn't approve of us dating and its bleeding into our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really concerned about my girlfriend and the future of our relationship. The background is this: Her family has never approved of her very much. If she didn't get perfect grades, it was reason to ground her - and by that I mean confined to her room with nothing to do ev... (919 words)

Guys: what's your opinion on strap-ons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - During an alcohol-fueled conversation with a (straight) male friend about a month ago, he let it slip that his ex-girlfriend had sex with him using a strap-on...and he loved it. My boyfriend has requested that I come up with some new things to do in bed, and I've been ... (322 words)

How do I tell her no without hurting her feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i've known this girl for @ least more than a year now and we've been friends, im 18 n she's 24. I like her so much and appreciates the friendship. I hav a bf, a guy i so much love n will not like to loose. To the story, the way she behaves wen im around her i kind of suspects ... (233 words)

Is being without a sense of direction, perpous, or,meaning to our lives getting too popular in Western culture??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

20 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that this isnt a love, dating, or sexual question but this sight is full mindfull and intelligent individuals and I was.wondering if any of you felt the same way about Western society today?? As a man in my twenties I do not want to sound as if I am an old man griping ... (315 words)

I'm scared that my new boyfriend with his shady past may hurt me, or leave me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a very shady past,he ws never in love,has had meaningless sex and not treated women thaat well! And I met him and the first 2 dates I thought may be he wants the same from me,but after those 2 dates he started liking me more,wanting to spend more time,wan... (134 words)

I broke up with him because of this girl and now I feel like she's replaced me. I'm really hurt

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he was basically cheating on me. He didn't sleep with her or physically cheat on me, but I found out that him and her were flirting a lot and always up talking all night and exchanging pictures. She also asked him to ... (240 words)

B/f ended things rudely denied dating a co-worker and now they're hugging and kissing at work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so hurt by my ex and I really just want to vent... we dated for about 6 months and it starts off great... we met at work, went out on dates that he paid for, we spent alot of time outside of work, and generally enjoyed our time together...I though he wanted more of a ... (397 words)

Keep getting text messages from a very weird guy. Advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at a party a couple of weeks ago and bumped into one of my old friends whom I hadn't seen for a while. We used to get on really well and she introduced me to some of the people she'd come with, including this guy. I said hi to him and everyone else and didn't think too ... (784 words)

Why do I want my ex back? Why can't I accept that its over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years of age and my ex boyfriend is 22. We have been together 2years today. We have been split up for 3 weeks tomorrow. My ex split up with me because he said he needed a break because we had been living together for a few weeks because I got kicked out my home. I then ... (331 words)

Did my boyfriend really want the gift to be from both of us or is he just trying to get off cheap?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends sibling got married not too long ago. I wasn't able to make it to the wedding due to being away, but my boyfriend was the best man. He asked me if I wanted to go in on a wedding gift for his sibling. My question is, is my boyfriend using me just to be able to ... (116 words)

My boyfriend of 1 year has never said I love you and never talks about the future. Should I be concerned?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He's a very caring person, always there for me and if I ask, will go out of his way to help me out. We keep in contact the whole day by texting or calling each other. He normally initiates sending a good morning text to me. Though... (279 words)

My ex and I are in contact again but I wonder if the bad way I broke up with him will stop us from having a future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, in a bit of a pickle at the moment! I dated this guy while at uni, four years ago, when uni finished I was in a bad space and broke up with him without a proper explanation. I defiantly handled it the wrong way and regret that soo much. 4 years down the track, and having ... (204 words)

Am I just paranoid or is he just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My guy friend has been staring at me for the past few weeks. But we stopped talking (I don't know why though) but his 'last seens' were way back. So I know he hasn't been online. He talked to me twice face to face at school last week. I was hoping that he would keep throwing ... (82 words)

have people broken mirrors and actually had bad luck after?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - you might think i'm stupid for even asking this question. But this morning I dropped my mirror and a chunk of the corner cracked and came off. I am quite superstitious, so I was wondering if it is true that if you break a mirror it's bad luck? My dad said to me it's only if ... (114 words)

Do you think Steve and I will ever have a normal relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles. I've been with Steve over 1 year. I'd consider myself a fairly attractive and confident 26 year old, he's 31. We've had an extremely tough year so please bear with the long background info. I used to work with Steve then 8 months into our relations... (1340 words)

How on earth do you break off a friendship that you feel is dragging you down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a friend who I have slowly been trying to move away from. We live in different cities and frankly i feel as though we have nothing in commmon. He is a gay man who I feel doesn't take me or anyone seriously. I also feel disrespected and undermined when I am with h... (430 words)

How do I send her a text message to let her know I'm interested without sounding like a stalker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I got to know this girl at the end of the semester really well. She is my ideal girl. We spent a night together studying until 5 in the morning and we talked about how we can be OCD about certain things and talked about our family and personal lives. She was going home for the ... (161 words)

Mother in law blamed me for her son's change of behavior.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a grown man he's 33years old 4 years older than me He was 30 when he join the Army and I was pregnant with our twins while he was gone. He's always a Momma's boy for the last 6 years we dated ( joint bank account with mom) his whole life....until we got married ... (684 words)

Would you date someone with so many tattoos? Or would you fear it would ruin your reputation?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Today while on lunch break a friend said to me, very openly and out loud, "did you see all the tattoos on that guy's face? He must have been to prison!" I quietly nodded then thought of something... I was very attracted to another friend who had many, many tattoos. His who... (190 words)

I really love him but feel like running away. I can't cope with the fact that he had a daughter from a one night stand

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together since June 2012. He had a one night stand with a friend before we ever got together. Turns out she got pregnant. When she found out he he had denied being the father because she had slept with other guys too. She court ordered a paternity ... (263 words)

How do you deal with the issue of bad breath tactfully, yet firmly enough that the behaviour changes without resentment or hurt feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My new boyfriend (3 months) has horrific breath sometimes. I tried subtle, then obvious hints like putting a toothbrush on his overnight bag. I finally said that didnt cut it, brush your teeth man! Then I turned it into a game about brushed teeth = sex time. That worked for ... (263 words)

I feel like I'm losing my g/f completely and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i seriously don't know what to do. i feel like i'm losing my gf completely. i've been with her for about 8 months. within the last few days, things have gotten really hard. she's working on a lot of things in therapy and one of them is learning how to speak her mind and not be ... (836 words)

Sex with him is too long and too rough! How do I make him understand?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I just met someone , and we started having sex very fast. He is much younger and very good looking, and I know that it won't last long. It's funny how invites me to lunches and drinks, I didn't even expect this. I thought it would be something like just sex. But he is actual... (649 words)

I love my boyfriend not my ex, but how do I convince my boyfriend of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I'm 24 years old and have completely landed myself in a hopeless situation. I am in a relationship since a month with a new guy after I broke up with my former boyfriend. The issue is that I am still friends with my ex and my present guy seemed to pay me little... (224 words)

I love my boyfriend but I am so bored, what can I do to spice up my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

20 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and i know that's not exactly 10 years but i feel really bored. We barely go out because neither of us have that much money, our intimate time is dull and he gets all the pleasure (not selfishly, just to the point where i get bored), we ... (152 words)