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Archived questions from: 18 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm scared to ruin this friendship. But why hasn't he made a move, when he knows I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm friends with a guy at college and I really like him. He knows, but not from me. He doesn't act on this though and he seems to like someone else. I'm so conflicted on what to do. Should I seek advice from his friend? I'm scared to ruin our friendship but I feel he shou... (62 words)

What birth defects could have been caused from caffeine, smoking and being fed by bottle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother smoked cigarettes and consumed a lot of Caffeine while she was pregnant with me. I was also always bottle fed, never breast fed. I'm wondering what birth defects (if any) could have been caused by those three factors? ... (40 words)

I haven't had sex in 10 years. Will my sex drive stop if I don't have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am in my early fourties haven't had sex in ten years of my life I was wondering will my sex drive go away if I don't hurry up and have sex.I don't use vibrators, no sex toys period I just try to keep my mind on other things like every day life.I desire to be ... (132 words)

Bullying stories?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i would like to know if anyone has any storys of when theyve challenged someone's behaviour that was bullying, discriminatory or insensitive. Do not use an example where the other person was simply angry or upset. Their behaviour must have been bullying, discriminatory or ... (57 words)

My mother in law expects me to wait on her hand and foot just because I'm married to her son

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids I am a troubled woman. I am staying with my mother in law but I have so much bitterness and unresolved issues with her. I decided to stop calling my mum in law last month because she would harass me each time I called her and made life so difficult for me. Wh... (314 words)

Attracted to a coworker and want to ask her on a date but confused exactly how to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So having worked in this low-end job for about a month I've been struggling with the black or white question of whether or not I should try and make a move towards being more than friends. It's taken me so long because working (and dating) coupled with the fact that we're both ... (275 words)

Girlfriend keeps breaking up and then saying she regrets it. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm having a bit of a hard time lately. i've been with my girlfriend about a year now and sometimes our ups and downs really effect me. since this is anonymous, i don't feel too bad disclosing this information, seeing as how it's very pertinent. she's in therapy for some... (852 words)

My ex is trying to change, should I get back together with him? How do I tell my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my fiancé in late January this year. I loved and still do love him dearly. I left him because I was unhappy about many things about how he chose to live his life. he chose to hang out with loser drug addicts and got himself involved in that scene. he couldn... (904 words)

Out of hand crush, how can I speak to this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I would really like some advice about a crush i have that is getting a little out of hand. Last year my brother moved into a shared house full of men. I went to visit him when i met the most attractive man who owned the house, he shook my hand and i felt a chemistry... (214 words)

How do I keep him still wanting to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently separated coming out of a 17 years of emotional and sometimes physical abuse; i now see myself as a strong independent woman with a respectable career and i believe no one looking at me could really guess what I'm coming out of. Now I wasn't looking for any other ... (333 words)

I've become more possessive with partner who seems happy around everyone but me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My mind is completely shattered as I write this question.I fell in love with a guy who waited 3 years for me. It has been almost an year since we got committed. Of course there have been problems but we were never tired of each other. But now, it is like he is happy with ... (143 words)

HE can see his parents and take time off work for friends but not for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I dont know if anyone has been in the same situation as me but would love to hear what you say.... I'm 23 have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years, we met on the first day of uni and have stuck together since. We live together in London im currently looking f... (687 words)

Anyone else really hate pick-up artists?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been remotely interested in a guy like that. It just absolutely puts me off. It's like someone knows I wouldn't be interested in him if he acts like his normal self, so he has to put on a "front" and try manipulative mind games like "negging" me and lowering my ... (252 words)

My husband wants sex but I dont!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! I have been married to my husband for 13 years. We have three beautiful children and are financially stable. My husband is the provider and I am a stay- at- home mom. Other than our sexual problem, we have a wonderful relationship. About two years ago, my l... (519 words)

5 years together...and then a new girl enters my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. And I admit that i'm a good and committed lover. In-fact, this is my first relationship. Well Everything's going well. The honey moon period is over, we had our good and bad times together as a couple. It was a challenging one. ... (418 words)

I yelled at her and due to her past it's left her feeling traumatized. Now she's ignored me for 2 days. How can I make things right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - in need of help... two nights ago, out of frustration and in the heat of the moment, i slightly raised my voice at my girlfriend of 6 months. this was the first time I ever did that. I simply got upset over something involving us. later on in the night, we talked on Face... (224 words)

After connecting via a dating site, then what do I say to a potential girl friend, who I've only met online, in a first email to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I use dating websites, but when it comes to emailing someone I have no idea what to say. I suppose I could just say "Hi I like your profile and would like to get to know you." But that just doesn't seem good enough. Do I ask her things about herself, do I tell her thing... (74 words)

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things worse the lady broke up with hi... (94 words)

Lesbian LDR and I need help. Is our relationship going no where?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys I need help My girlfriend says she is not gay or bi but not 100% straight neither… I am sooooo confused …Although I understand that we shouldn't be putting labels on ourselves but I just don't feel our relationship is secure. Almost all my friends knows her but I don'... (450 words)

At the moment, I am not ready for a threesome to happen in our relationship. My Bf would like it to happen. How long into a relationship before agreeing to it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ok I would love some fair and informative advice here on my boyfriend wanting to have a FFM threesome. We have been going out with each other for 8 months and moved in together three months ago. At the beginning of the relationship he told me that he wanted a threeso... (265 words)

Should I be worried that she is cheating on me? Or am I just being insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been hurt in the past by women and 3 months ago I met this girl who I think is the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life, she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. she is going through a divorc... (701 words)

Want a low cost way to get a flat stomach by Dec 2013. Is my goal achievable and how?

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 1.63m/5'4" and I weigh 66kg/146lbs and 20 percent body fat. I want to get a flat stomach and get my body fat down to 10-12 percent by mid December. I don't know how to do this when I have a limited budget for food and can't eat 5 times a day due to work and lack of avai... (88 words)

I have been invited to attend my married lover's birthday party. I don't think I should go, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age - Hi.All I'm in a very long term relationship with a married man,please no judgements,we can't end it so it goes on and has done for years. We are both in our late 60's and have known each other for over 30years.he treats me with the utmost respect and we both love each other.... (214 words)

How to I reconcile knowing something significant about my boyfriend's father that even he doesn't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my partner is one of three children. He has a different father to the younger two and sees this dad as his also. He has no interest in his biological 'father' since he never had anything to do with him. Last night I was drinking with my mother in law and she blurted out ... (175 words)

Does my ex-girlfriend want to reunite or remain friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

18 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here's the situation. I’m 23 she's 22... we dated for about a year. I got caught up and did a bunch of stuff I shouldn't have (cheated, lying) and things got rocky. Trust was gone, she was hurt like hell and eventually we broke up. I did the typical bf thing and tri... (451 words)

I'm a strippper, attractive and fit so why does my boyfriend still watch porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am 18 years old, my fiance is 26. we have been together for a few years and we have a pretty good sex life. generally at least once a day. im just wondering why he wants to continue looking at porn when he has me. (i'm a stripper) i'm extremely fit, and i think i look gre... (84 words)

My husband is very controlling and dismissive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was was wondering if I could get some help here. My husband is very controlling. He refuses to listen to any ideas I have, and plans our weeks the ways he wants them. He will not see movies I want to see, or go to any social events I am interested in. He also spen... (212 words)

I'm planning to visit my long distance boyfriend, but too young to rent a hotel. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this isn't really a relationship question, but my LDR boyfriend and I are planning to meet pretty soon and recently I've been trying to get everything prepared to go visit him. There are two problems though, I suppose. We're still pretty young and he still lives with his... (319 words)

After 8 years of marriage I became totally dependant on my ex-husband to support me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 28 and i don't want to work. I'm still living with my ex husband and his girl friend, he has moved on and i relied on him so much for 8 years. i have become comfortable living like that. i don't work or pay any bills. i don't do anything or contribute in the house in... (132 words)