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writes:We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refuses to show me their chatlogs. He even told me he deleted them already. This is he second time he talked to that girl, I forgave him before and moved on but after a year he commited the same mistake. Is it worthy to forgive him again or should I moved on and wont be fooled again by his "I wont do it again story?"He's now not talking to me because he's mad I doubted him. I continually communicate, but to me but hes ignoring me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe are now taking things slowly and still working out on our relationship. I told him that i cudnt forgive him for it but im giving him a chance for the sake of our marriage and my love for him. But before we settled to this a really hardcore figt over skype has happened. For so many times I tried to explain to him little by little but took us so long. Goodluck to me and my marriage hoping my decision is right. Thank you very much !
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): It sounds like he has something to hide, especially if he's DELETING his messages and getting mad at YOU. If he's clean, there should be no problem with showing you the messages, even leaving it saved instead of deleting them.You may have to pull him aside, tell him to quit being a baby and talk to you like a husband and wife should. He shouldn't object to this. You need to be the mature one, since it sounds like he's not. If any chance he refuses, it shows he's not ready to be married. Marriage needs communication and if he's unwilling to provide his side, you need to reconsider your options.You're still young, 22? You have plenty of time to find someone who treats you right, if things don't work out here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013): Hi,
This sounds like a hard situation, I think that you should confront him with the evidence. And check with him if he is mature enough and willing to commit to a marriage.
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