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He's convinced we're becoming closer. I don't feel that way. So how do I ensure I don't hurt his feelings?

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Question - (17 May 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ebeccaa writes:

Moderator note: please mention the ages of the two boys you have been talking to in your first followup?

I'm really stuck.. I've been talking to a boy for a while he said he likes me and I said I like him but I just want to take things slowly, was I don't want a relationship yet.

He is convinced we will get together soon although I'm not to sure about my feelings just yet.

Yesterday I met up with another boy and realised I actually like him, I don't want to hurt the other one but what do I do now? Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013):

You have to tell people how you feel. If you don't, you're just playing around with his feelings. Why can't you just be honest? You'd rather hurt his feelings by being dishonest?

Does that really make sense?

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