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writes:Alright, so long story, I'll attempt to make it short. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out last year and she said yes. Come to find out, she had a boyfriend that I wasn't aware of. I cut my ties and said forget it.Yesterday, I ran into her again. She ran up and acted like nothing had happened and told me to hit her up sometime, because she misses me. I didn't say much and the whole thing was rather brief, because I had to leave.Should I call her up? I'm not sure if she is seeing someone, but I can't decide if she's worth it, to be completely honest. What would you guys do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust for clarification, we never actually went out. I asked her out and found out about the other BF before we actually went out through a mutual friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): You have had your first introduction to people who come from another planet and who only care about their own selfish lusts and wants. You did well. Take this as a good life lesson into your future with you. Good-Job.......
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 May 2013):
 You did the right thing by cutting ties! You don't want to date a girl who is happy to cheat on her boyfriend.
She is NOT the only girl out there! Other girls will happily go out with you, and since you know that girls will say yes when you ask them out, chalk her up as old news and go get 'em!
As for this one, tell her you're not interested unless she completely breaks up with her boyfriend. Even then, I wouldn't date her because you never date cheaters, ever. If they did it to date you, they'll do it TO you to date someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013): In this case you shouldn't hit her up. She has proven she can't be trusted and she could be setting you up again.
Even if she left her boyfriend; she has proven she has no credibility, and you won't be able to trust her.
Trust your gut on this one. She may not be worth it. She made a fool of you once. That's one time too many.
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