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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Having second thoughts about my current boyfriend of 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im going to try and make this short...I was married for 12years to a very controlling and emotionally abusive man. The guy I am with now is 13years my junior. He is mature in some ways but others not so much (financially and education wise) Anyway we have had our differen... (320 words)

For my porn-addicted boyfriend, will me not having sex with him make him distant or just horny?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 May 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hello, this might sound childish but i really need to make my boyfriendd want me more, i really need to tease him, but will me not having sex with him (we r sexual active) make him distant or just horny. see the thing is he watches porn and i hate it, it enrages me and m... (137 words)

How do I tell him I like him without ruining our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - So there's this guy and he is one o my close friends ( I'll call him zack ). Ok so zack and I have been getting along much more now and I have been having feelings for him for a little while. He is super nice and some days he's really fun funny and nice. And there are those ... (155 words)

Haven't seen her for two years, so how do I initiate contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - so im a junior in highschool and theres this girl that ive really liked, but the last time we talked was the last day of freshman year and she was expecting me to ask her out.... but i didnt go through with it. I didnt see her at all last school year but this school year ive ... (113 words)

I'm a nice girl -- why don't other girls ever like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't girls like me? Is there something wrong? Girls don't like me at all. Everywhere I go. Gym, college, work. I'd meet a bunch of girls and just one will be friends with me and the rest would just look at me funny and not talk to me at all. But they'd ta... (239 words)

His friend flirts with him big time -- why does she do it when she knows he's in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Hope everyone is good. I posted on here a couple of months ago about having problems with my boyfriends female friend who constantly kept flirting with him. I got mixed opinions about the whole situation and what I should do. I'm unfortunately still having this ... (283 words)

Should I ask him about this Facebook page that showed up in my browser history?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Whilst going back through my history to find a webpage I had visited a few days ago, I noticed a certain name kept popping up and clicked onto the facebook page. I have never been on this page, nor do I have facebook! So I figured it was obviously my boyfriend (who occasionally ... (152 words)

The guy I like is complimenting me and stealing glances at me, what does this mean? I thought he liked someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy but I know he likes/liked another girl. Not sure whether he still likes her now though. He shows signs like showing up to where I am at school, stealing glances and complimenting me. What does this mean? ... (42 words)

My FWB is sick of me and called me a whore! Did I do anything wrong to deserve to be treated this way?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am in on and off FWB with my best friend. I fell in love with him but he says he likes me but no love word. Long story short, he bacame very abusive (physically and emotionally) lately. I couldnt even hold a decent conversation with him. Its been days since he... (151 words)

His wife has moved back in with him and he cant divorce her, but he wants to continue seeing me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, how I’m going to start this. I read some of “my boyfriend has a wife” discussion and I’m in the same situation now. We start as a friend since then all of our friends knew that his separated to his wife. He has a kid, and that is the only thing connected to his wife. We ... (328 words)

I wasn't sure if he only wanted me for sex. Was I right to reject him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend at college had a huge dorm party last week and there was a lot of alcohol involved. Long story short, I had drunk quite a bit when one of her friends whom I didn't know hit on me. We ended up making out and kissing, but he was really aggressive. He asked me to come ... (316 words)

Have I lost the love of my life? She has feelings for someone else and wont stop seeing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

14 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - have i lost her? i have been in a relationship for 10 years, i left this girl for over a year and started a new relationship, i broke her heart and we eventually ended up back together. i have never treated her right and have never committed to anything, we never even lived to... (352 words)

Dating a girl for 2 weeks, saw some strange messages on her phone then her best friend calls me to tell me to walk away from her! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been online dating for about a year and I go on about 2 dates a week. I'm no Brad Pitt but i'm a good looking guy and have just qualified as a children's doctor. I met a girl (M) 2 weeks ago and we have been on some dates. She is cute as hell and very exciting a... (400 words)

What are your views on no sex before marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am Christian but nondenominational and I honestly can't decide whether I should wait till marriage and the most committed relationship possible to have sex or have fun, play the field and get experienced with boyfriends at college. I would love to hear others' opinions; what ... (51 words)

My boyfriend runs hot and cold.....is he a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Well my bf this notorious habit of being extra vigil about his phone and email and need lots of female attention too. He runs hot and cold and I am rarely sure what he is thinking now . I first thought its me and I have some jealousy issues.I was also extra careful as he sa... (235 words)

I really like her but I'm not sure if she likes me, plus she might have something going on with another guy! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - so my best friend (R) has a twin sister called J and she met this guy at a mutual friends party, they kissed and thats it. since that party we spoke more and i didn't hear anything about this other guy and every time we were around each other i kept thinking she liked me by the ... (497 words)

Boyfriend suddenly needs space. Do I give him space? Or dump him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months suddenly says he needs to "reconnect" with his friends (aka drinking buddies) and plans to stay out every Friday night with them. He says I'm not invited "for now" - and besides I work at 7AM on Saturdays and he wants to stay out until 4 or 5am. Up un... (166 words)

Ready to date. Where can I meet men outside my daily routine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been a year and a half since I last dated, and would like to date again. I'm looking for a long-term serious relationship but I don't know where to look. I want someone a bit older and more experienced so college isn't the ideal place to look. I've tried online datin... (116 words)

The fact that he doesn't take care of himself makes it hard for me to see a future for the relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - You will think that I am very superficial. (I am not even saying "you may think" I know that it is superficial.) I have just started seeing this guy. He is very smart, sweet and caring. He is a little bit on the heavy side but I do find him attractive. However, the fact that he ... (264 words)

She flirts virtually, not as much in real life, I'm interested: not sure what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

14 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Very recently, I met a girl through a professional social network (weird, I know!). We started chatting, texting every other day, till we decided to meet. After the first meeting, I made it clear that I was interested in her romantically. (I said it point blank.) We kept c... (252 words)

He wants me to wear lingere but I don't think it suits me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m not really sure how to begin but I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year, he’s 26 almost 27 and I’m 23. We were really close friends for probably 3 years before we started dating. So my boyfriend and I have been having… I wouldn’t call it a fight but more of a disagreement. ... (463 words)

I sense that she's unhappy and losing her patience

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

14 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - First time poster. I'm here because I'm afraid of ruining a relationship with an amazing woman. We have been dating about a year most of which was long distance at the start. Since then, we've moved in together. She had some emergencies and personal matters that drew her out of ... (718 words)

Is my crush jealous of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey so I want to figure out why my crush is questioning me sooo much. Ok so I was sitting next to my crush and he had found out about me and my ex. He doesn't really like my ex btw. So I told him that we WERE dating and yea Me and my ex had been together off and on and it ... (300 words)

I am really mad at how he ended our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Just realized that my boyfriend dumped me over Facebook! How immature and obnoxious is that? We are talking about a 28 year old guy here! We were on a break, and as everyone, I expected him to contact me in order to know if we would stay together or not. Then today he uploade... (253 words)

Is the way I'm treated by my father control or abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello i have a difficult father i found out from the a young age that i could not trust him as he used to twist my words just to be always right. It broke me to have a father i cant trust so i limited my conversations with him but he would create problems to get at me, example ... (320 words)

I should be happy I've been dumped by my abusive ex but I don't know how to stop wanting him back! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My verbally and emotionally abusive bf of 3 years dumped me yesterday. I know i should be relieved that i wont be abused anymore. I dont need to walk on egg shells around him anymore and i dont have to scared everytime he calls me or i call him. My brain knows ... (162 words)

I feel trapped in our relationship and his porn addiction is just breaking my heart!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

14 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I would really love some advice from men and women. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He is my 1st true relationship I'm 27 an he is 26. We got together when we were 18. I told him from the beginning that i was not okay with porn. He always told me men that look at ... (400 words)

I'm a slow learner, how do I manage this with my new job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (?) age 36-40 - I'm starting a new job next Monday. I'm real excited about it, but there's one thing that worries me. I'm kind of a slow learner, (slower than most people I know). In the past, that's really annoyed my supervisors and managers at other jobs. They accused me of not listening... (191 words)