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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have never met anyone like him and I'm really confused by him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I posted a question a few weeks ago to determine whether or not the guy I had started seeing was intersted. I am a 36 year old, ordinarily together woman, however feel like a confused teenager at the moment. I have been kind of seeing a man for a month now. W... (312 words)

A girl who likes my boyfriend is going to be his college room mate! I am very uneasy with this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend made friends with this girl a few months ago, she's in the same group of friends as him. She's in the same college as him, I'm not. One night I was over at his, we were all a bit drunk, and she was there along with a few of his friends. He was talking just to her ... (294 words)

My husband doesn't understand his ex-wife and her daughter are manipulating him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (?) age 41-50 - hi,im 34 myparthners 52. we have 3 kids together. i love him but for some strange reason he thinks I don't love him but I love his money or etc. hes terribly wrong! he lived with his ex for 20 years.they have no kids together.we would have a harmony family if nt his ex and ex... (250 words)

Am I in danger of crossing the line with this older married man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - We work together in the same gym. He is married. I am single. He is 15 years older than me. Our relationship in the last couple of months has become much more friendly. He always found me attractive and there was the long, lingering eye contact, catching him staring at me al... (477 words)

Does my child's father have any rights? Hasn't paid support and his name isn't on the birth certificate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a son who is nearly 5 his dad has never seen him he told me to have a abortion or he was going to get someone to make me miscarry i had my son and brought him up alone but his dad has tried to get in contact with me he has nit paid a penny towards maintenance and his ... (78 words)

About Intimacy with BF vs. Self...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there any reason why I seem to get wetter when my boyfriend uses his hands on me versus my own? I can't say I think about it when it happens but I have always noticed my underwear, clothing, sheets, etc...more saturated after I climax when he is involved. Any explanations?... (51 words)

I really need to feel comfortable with people my own age rather than the older crowd

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid My problem is a bit tricky and I am not able to come to any conclusion. Background: I am 21 year old and I recently moved to another city for university since November 2012. Since beginning, I am having difficulty in spending time with people of my age especia... (420 words)

I'm starting to think of her as more than a friend even though I'm not gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, I have posted a question recently about one of my female friends dropping sexual hints and I almost sure that she is doing it on purpose. So we've been meeting up in college and we have really long conversation that we don't want to break off. The only thing is though, ... (298 words)

If I want optimal results, should I be clean shave, have some stubble, or full beard?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

16 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I know looks are only part of what women want, and other factors for attraction come into play, like how active I am, how I take care of myself, etc. But, my question here is, what should I do, facial hair wise, to get some more potential suitors? Should I: 1) Grow a beard... (256 words)

Does this sound normal for "down there"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, this is embarrassing but for like the last couple years its look like there was another little hole or tear under the vagina hole there or some thing and iv ignored it but today i opened it more and noticed its like 3 litle diffrent flabs of skin it almost looks like ... (171 words)

My coworker gives my butterflies is it morally right to invite I'm to dinner knowing he is spoken for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,I am in Lust with one of my co- workers at my job but he is spoken for we flirt with each other every time we get a chance over the week end I spoke to him on the phone my heart was melting with pleasure I could n't believe I was talking to my crush.I was wondering ... (77 words)

Its been a year, why can't I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age - What is wrong with me- WHY can't I just let it go. It's been almost a yr. since I heard from my ex..the last time I heard from him was not a good conversation. His soon to be wife had been calling me 2 mths. prior but, I totally ignored the calls...I pretty much knew it was her ... (693 words)

Relationship problems with my younger mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 36 and he's 28 when we met and start dating everything was cool and going great. After we end up in a relationship later down the line, I was even more happy. Making a long story a little short, he now stay with me and my 14 year old son. He smoke a lot and now my home doe... (821 words)

It's a love/hate kind of thing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've dated this girl for about a year and a half and we broke up around a month ago. Things had gotten pretty bumpy and I felt that it was time for the both of us to move on. I was away from school on coop at this time and broke up with her the weekend that she came do... (471 words)

Should my best friend meet up with her (soon to be ex-) teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a question as to what would be the right or most sensible thing for me to do with regards to my best friend. We're in year 13 at our sixth form, so our last year before we go to university in October. Throughout the past two years, my friend (I'll call her A) has been ... (615 words)

My surprise weekend turned to going to his mom's! Why couldn't he have told me the truth sooner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help I don't know how to handle this. My boyfriend of 2 years told me he was planning a surprise weekend away for this weekend and I told my family and friends and this week ago I wanted him to give me an idea of where we were going so I know what to pack and he was a ... (206 words)

We both like each other and want to go on a date but we are too busy to meet up, how do I act in this situation? Can I flirt with other guys or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I confessed to liking him and he told me he likes me back. He has tried asking me out, but since we're both busy with exams at the moment, we haven't really decided on when. What is he expecting from me? Does he expect us to be dating now or a relationship? ... Am I not all... (179 words)

Do you think I have any right to be angry? Or was I to blame for being naive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I was dating a guy for a month. It was a LDR and on the third date, I had to spend the night at his, due to distance. The date did not go too well, we had a bit of a falliing out but made up. In the night, he said he would prepare the spare room for me, but in the nigh... (155 words)

He's not ready for a relationship and I'm not either, but I'm worried I'll fall for him if I keep on seeing him.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids! Have you ever seen that film " hes just not into you"? Well thats like the story of my life but without the happy ending. I think the saying is right "if its meant to happen, then he will make it happen" and for me it just doesnt happen. Iv been cheated on 3... (614 words)

I want to get back with my ex but I cant kick my boyfriend out because he owes my parents money! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well me and my boyfriend have been 'together' for nearly 3 years right at the beginning it was a casual thing we were only young and I kissed someone at a party, and up until yesterday that was all I had done. Whereas he has cheated on me 5+ times taken numerous drugs which I ... (383 words)

Does he like me? Is he just taking it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently saw an old friend whilst out and spent a good amount of the evening with him catching up. He's 17 and very nice and friendly, too nice I might add. On that day we talked about a lot of things, we've got quite a few things in common. I have to let you know that ... (649 words)

I am lost and just wandering through life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

16 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello this is a typical story but I'm feeling lost and like I'm just wandering through life.. about 3 years back I split up with my first love. We was 2gether for 5 years. I did love her but didn't feel I could look after .. she was wealthy I wasn't. Anyway she brought a new ... (133 words)

Should I just leave? Or try to wait things out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. 2 years ago I got with my boyfriend, we got a house together, one year ago today we got engaged, I was very happy. About 6-8 months ago things started getting tense and there were lots of arguments. Over the months it's gotten worse and worse and now we're no longer ... (1195 words)

Will it be weird if I'm the only one wearing a long dress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Im going to graduation soon and i bought this white long dress to wear during graduation. It looks really nice to me but all of my friend says they are going to wear knee length dresses. I want to know what are your opinions and advices and should i wear the dress? Also would ... (68 words)

Urgent, Help required About Divorce and remarriage.....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my friend is planned to marry a guy which is second marriage to him. That guys wife applied for divorce 5 years back.....But still the case is in process. So my doubt is whether my friend can marry him or she has to wait until his guy gets divorce from his wife.Or if she m... (97 words)

Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with? This girl has only known my boyfriend for about a week and she has been talking very openly about how much she likes sex and been telling him some of her sexual fantasies... (106 words)

Should I keep the shirt or return it to my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for 4 years and was in LDR for two years. I'm not a person that would ask for promises or commitment while my ex gave me his life commitment and talked about our future all the time. I ended my relationship last week because he's drifting apart the last two ... (151 words)

How can I get him to flirt with me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on my classmate since the start of the semester so during the last day of the semester I decided to approach him and introduce myself. It went pretty well. He told me that he actually wanted to talk to me too and he was very flirty. He got my number and ... (169 words)

I don't want to vulnerable anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I got dumped thru phone from a 3 yr relationship a week back. Im picking the pieces and trying to move on. 3 years is a very long time for a relationship, then how come my ex bf moved on as soon as he dumped me? Didn't i impress him at all so it was easy for hi... (180 words)

Ready to have some fun, for once! Suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4207 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm single, 19 years old. I'm not looking for a relationship right now (but if one develops, I'll go with it) and I just want to have fun. But I am totally clueless since my relationship of almost 3 years just ended. What are your suggestions? And to ans... (72 words)

How do I move on? I really need some help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my first post. I feel as if I have no where else to turn. A little over a month ago, I was dumped. We were together for a year and 4 months. I did not see the breakup coming.. His reasoning for the breakup was that he feels as if we have nothing in common and that ... (382 words)

Junior in college and I hate my major. Do I call it quits and change it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m a university student majoring in business management, and I unfortunately hate my major. I was a performing arts major during my first year of college. I chose it because I didn’t know what else to choose, but I realized it wasn’t for me. I then changed my major to busi... (542 words)

How do I get over my girlfriend's past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend (20) and I (19) go to the same college, and have been together for the past couple months. It's been, for the most part, an excellent relationship. We care for each other a great deal; heck, I think I'm in love with her. And, for the record, this is my first ... (408 words)