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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wants to do sexual things and I do to but am unsure of how and what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked a guy for about 5-6 months and we've recently told each other that we liked each other. He said he likes me and wants to do things and become more than friends and i agreed. However, i have never done anything sexual with a guy before, other than kiss and cuddle, ... (98 words)

I am not sure whether my friend likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I am crushing on and I have a feeling she might like me. She always calls me cute and laughs at my jokes, and every time she comes over to look at my work [at uni], she'll either put her hands on my shoulders, play with my hair, or give me and long hug and ... (104 words)

I think he's got a girlfriend after seeing a photo of them on the internet. Do I ask him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi to all people here n dear cupid..I met this guy his 30 he really seems nice and gentle we been texting 2 weeks b4 we go out for a dinner he's cool guy .. we still texting now and planning for a 2nd date.but I found out tht when I search his name on facebook seen tht his ... (266 words)

How do I move this relationship on into the 'offline' world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Was walking through the shopping centre last week and heard my name being called out, long story short it was a friend from way back in primary school. We caught up for a bit and that evening I messaged him wishing him luck in his forthcoming exams. We've been messaging quite ... (102 words)

How to cope with moving in with a SO.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, I made the grave mistake of moving in with my boyfriend. In my defence, he seemed like a solid, responsible guy, and he is! He currently carries most of our financial burden. Since he is working, and I am looking for a job so in the meantime I have tak... (938 words)

Should I try to get to know better the brother of my ex FWB??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok some time ago I wrote in about a really horrible friends with benefits situation I could not seem to get out of. It went on for two years until finally the cloud went from my eyes and I could see the situation for what it really was. We have both moved on. He has a girlfrie... (573 words)

Is my boyfriend still not over his ex 2 years later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend checks his ex girlfriends facebook sometimes, he was deeply hurt by how she treated him and was angry with himself about how he let her hurt him so much and it took him time to get over her. I was insecure that he was not quite over her and asked him to delet... (346 words)

Are most young guys in relationships really committed to their girlfriends nowadays?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Quite a few close male friends I know in relationships don't actually seem to care about their girlfriends all that much. Or they do, but they see her as a temporary thing, and merely a girl of convenience for sex and companionship rather than possibly The One or someone they ... (221 words)

How do I get the courage to ask a coworker out (on a date)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to a girl I work with and have seen her out of work socially a few times and we get along great, have a lot of fun and seem to genuinely enjoy each other's company. Anyway I've decided after a lot of deliberation that I'd like to at least try and make it more than ... (227 words)

The relationship is amazing, but I'm worried he's not really over his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused. My boyfriend of 8 months and I get along really well. I'm really attracted to him but I'm a little insecure! We talk about future holidays and even what our wedding will be like. He's told me (after a few drinks) how he really really loves me and sees me in his ... (449 words)

My remarks were intended to build her up but she's told me they were inappropriate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try to make this fairly quick. I've always been the kind of guy who's really tactful and good with words. I've always prided myself on knowing what to say and having good social skills. But lately, my girlfriend has been making me feel pretty bad about myself and I don't ... (386 words)

Tissue problem when giving oral!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I love pleasing my wife orally. However, there's often some tissue remnants. just small bits which is really off putting. Blokes, is this common? How do you deal with it in the moment? Ladies, how can I broach this with her?... (47 words)

I have reached the end of my patience with my boyfriend, but I'm too much of a pushover to let him go. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Well where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. I'm not going to go majorly into the backstory about how we got together, but before hand I had been in a 9 month relationship with another person who was ... (1627 words)

How do I show her that I won't listen to my friend's advice anymore and convince her to give me a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i'm 16 year old boy and I i've been such an idiot..... I liked this girl and when I eventually asked her out she said that she wasn't sure if she liked me. then her mate says to me that she likes someone else and that she doesn't like me. the girl i like then doesn't say ... (606 words)

I've never had an opportunity with a girl like this, let alone, any girl interested in me. Should I stay away from this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is sort of a dilemma. It's been a couple years since college graduation. My former roommate and female friend who have been together broke up not too long ago. I had visited them along with other friends from college. Well, the female friend have been talking, and it'... (215 words)

Was it a one night stand or does he have other plans?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went home to my sister's wedding and I met this guy, he is Danish, anyway, we end up getting so drunk and we spent all the wedding day together, to make things short I went back to his hotel room and we had sex. I was actually the one that coaxed him too, he seemed a ... (293 words)

What exactly is going on between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a fairly weird relationship with my male best friend. We started off purely as friends initially, but then as we got closer, we became increasingly flirty around each other. We will admit that we think of each other day and night and miss each other and started using ... (134 words)

How can I get my bad temper in check, and make it clear that I love him so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am with the love of my life and I never want to loose him. He is my everything. I feel like I will loose him because of my anger. I have bad anger and a short fuse. I love him to much to every loose him and if I do I may just go crazy without him by my side. ... (95 words)

Do you think I have good reasoning to question his sexuality? Do you think he could possibly be gay or bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this friend, who I'm head over heels for. He's extremely cute, smart, kind of socially awkward, etc. We hang out a ton and I consider him one of my best friends. Although there's one problem - I think he's straight and it would never work between us. Or at least I ... (553 words)

Am I in love? Should I talk to her about getting back together with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl that I have feelings for and these are different than what I normally feel. We dated for a while and broke up in December and I never stopped having said feelings. We have been talking every night since summer began for an average of about six hours (we were ... (127 words)

Suspicious email to husband--he denies he's signed up. Can I believe him?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a problem. I just got married. I h ave been with my man for a long time. I was looking through his emails and came acroos a email from XXXXbook [mod note: actual site name removed, it is not facebook]. I wouldve just deleted it and thought it was spam but... (96 words)

How do you know if attraction is mutual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) age 41-50 - Is mutual attraction usually mutual? I have been in a situation where I have always wondered if this particular man was ever attracted to me. Has anyone been in this situation and what are the signs the attraction is mutual, not imagined? Thanks... (43 words)

The light switch relationship--now she's pregnant with someone else's baby and I don't want kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so. i got this on again off again relationship for about the last couple years. shes 20 im 23. seems every time we have a drink together we end up in the sack together. shes always telling me im the sweetest guy she knows. and stuff like that. i really like this girl. and i ... (391 words)

What is a good way to say I've developed feelings for this man ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really starting to develop feelings for this man I work with. We talk during the week and on the weekend but I am giving him mixed signals not on purpose I have been stressed it's been three months since my engagement was broken off I could not deal with my ex even... (382 words)

One of my best friends is in love with the boy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a boy that is in all of my classes and has been all year. When I met him, my first thoughts were of how good looking he was. As I got to know him, I also found out he has a crazy sense of humor. He's tastefully halarious and isn't afraid to be himself, no matter ... (217 words)

Our conversations always end up in fights?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, and lately I feel like every time we talk, it ends up with us getting angry at each other. I know, I am responsible for some of it but he just acts so frustrating sometimes. For example, we'll be talking and we h... (391 words)

My partner's great, but my ex has come back into the picture ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - This will be long so I apologise in advance. A couple of years ago one of my very best friends became my boyfriend. He is a wonderful man who treats me better than I ever thought possible, he adores me and would do anything for me. I found it very hard making the transiti... (423 words)

He says to wait for him, but it's been three months

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid lately iv been feeling lonely i haven't been been talking to any guys because i feel that they do not care. i have a friend who iv had a crush on since i was 15 a few months ago we made out and tried to start a relationship but he says "i need to get my life in o... (157 words)

My parents doubt and don't seem to believe in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, i hope someone out there can give me some help on a pretty personal issue. I am a 22 year old girl who lives with her parents. I attended University for 3 years and lived away for that amount of time and changed into a wonderful person I think. I used to be ve... (495 words)

I want a relationship with him, but I don't know if he feels the same and I don't know how to bring it up in conversation. How do I find out how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

30 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have become really close to a guy who is 2 years older than me (I am 18, he is 20) It started in the new year when we were walking home with a couple of friends from the pub and we were walking in front of everyone else as he had offered to walk me home. Once he walked me to ... (212 words)