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Archived questions from: 26 May, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it wrong to be a serial lunch dater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I view lunch dates as a fun way to meet new people, as well as a diplomatic alternative to me saying NO DATES FOR YOU. But recently a friend told me: You shouldn't go on dates with men who you aren't attracted to... that is the equivalent of leading them on! It's wrong! W... (204 words)

It bothers me that my b/f has a tatoo on his foot of the day his g/f died

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. He has a tattoo on his foot representing the date that his first girlfriend died in a car accident several years ago. At the beginning of our relationship I didn't mention the tattoo, but now that things are getting ... (149 words)

My boyfriend doesn't keep me informed without me asking and it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, i have the most amazing boyfriend ever who takes every thing in his life seriously , his work , the scout and for sure me, but when it comes to telling me about it, he simply never does, even when his work involve issues that are related to me, if i don't ask he ... (505 words)

I am so happy with my boyfriend, but his roomate/ex/best friend hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! The people on this site have helped me loads in the past and I'm hoping you can help me again with your advice. I got out of a very bad LTR last year which started when I was very young, for almost 4 years I was cheated on and manipulated and controlled by th... (767 words)

Am I dating someone too young for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 26 year old mature student and I recently began seeing another student who is 18 about to turn 19, it took me a while to go on a date with this guy cause of the age difference but we get on really well, however I am still really worried about the age difference, it's not ... (114 words)

My girlfriend is controlling and I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks for all responses. Much thanks. This is a long complicated story so bare with me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 years now. It has been kind of a decrescendo it seems. She was brought up without a Dad and her Mom taught her to be self sufficient which... (634 words)

Weekend's with my boyfriend's children leave me feeling like a slave

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hope you can help me. I am 33 years old. I have been with my partner (not married) for 2 years. He has 2 kids whom I love to bits and I don't have any, but my fella does want more with me. When my boyfriend was in his late teens, he met the mother of his kids. T... (981 words)

Is he pushing me away?/ I know he is pushing me away. How do I go about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am getting the feeling my boyfriend is distancing himself from me. We are in a long distance relationship (different continents), UK and Canada. So we already couldn't be more farther apart. I just came back to canada for uni for summer term a month ago after vi... (476 words)

Does the father of my child want me to chase him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years who is now the father of my child will not live with me. He says I've kicked him out too many times in the past for him to just leave his stable home with his two friends and move back in.. I told him I didn't want anything to do with him while living ... (128 words)

When he doesn't want me, he throws me away. When he does want me, he expects me to go flying to him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex last month because he drifted apart. He's white and I'm Asian. He studies abroad now. He never contacted me so I asked him for closure. He didn't say anything either. I was pissed because I don't even deserve a closure after all the nice things I did for ... (218 words)

After a fight and make up, girlfriend says no sex. We are going on a holiday and no sex???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

26 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi AA's This question is long winded so apologies. Ive been going out with a girl for 4 years now, in reality she is very insecure but also has to have her own way as she believes what she wants is the right thing and dosnt see outside the box. Anyhow, we had an argum... (223 words)

How to deal with disappear reappear guy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really need an advice. Apparently I'm dealing with a houdini. The old disappear and reappear acts. I've dated this guy for a month. we went on 4 great dates. on our last date he brought me home, we watched movie, we kissed for the first time.short story i missed my bus a... (206 words)

I feel awful feeling this way but I am not at all interested in my boyfriend's step daughter!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8 months with someone that makes me very happy. However he has a step-child from a past relationship that he is very close to as treats as his own daughter and Ive never been with someone who has a kid and Im not sure how to deal with the ... (513 words)

Together 7 years. Recently he's been criticising me for the smallest things and has a short fuse. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone on this forum, i have used this forum once or twice in the past so here i am again, with a new problem for all those agony aunts out there. ive been with my fiance for 7 years now and well i am starting to find problems with, what i thought was a perfect relation... (354 words)

I don't want to appear desperate but I want him to know that I was being serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who is in my course at university. I see him about once a week, but it's hard to say whether he likes me or not.. we're not friends, but have done some group work together and sometimes talk before class... we've been doing a practical component of our course ... (320 words)

It's hard for me to move on. What are the chances that she'll come back a second time? I think she might miss me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Am totally confused. I have been in this relationship now for four years. This January my girlfriend left me for another guy, I later got to find out, and she slammed these words on my face in the presence of her friends that 'she's no more interested in the relationship that I ... (599 words)

Does him cancelling twice really mean he's not interested or did I overreact and come to the wrong conclusion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been dating this guy for several weeks. Seems normal enough. He's 42, I'm 37. Last date was at my house, we cooked together and kissed etc (no sex). We were due to meet up in the week but he cancelled the day before with work commitments and suggested Sunday instead. He ... (404 words)

Help! My boyfriend is putting me in awful moods!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. No, our relationship isn't perfect as I've been struggling with depression and its killed my sex drive but he understands and is really nice about it. However, it really does my head in because he sleep... (175 words)

Don't want to date this guy, but I still want us to be friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My situation I am in a bit of a pickle. I went on a nice date with this guy and a movie, but I don't want to date. This guy I met in my town just started talking to me and having conversation with me. And we chatted, and he asked for my number, and I happi... (239 words)

Is this single guy looking for a threesome with me and my BF? Who makes the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So here it goes. I have a male friend he split up from his girlfriend a year ago and is still looking for someone. Recently he spoke to one of his other female friends and asked to have a Fwb relationship. She agreed but ended up getting back with her boyfriend so this didnt wo... (284 words)

Why am I not special enough for a guy to stay exclusive with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I feel positively stupid. And ugly... especially ugly. Long story short: I met a guy, we liked each other but it's long distance, so there's no chance it'd work... we met once a couple months ago and had a great date, we got along great, and yes, slept together (back t... (641 words)

I feel like I'm stuck with my BF of 3 years. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my BF for 3 years now. Looking back, I feel like he was a rebound for me because my first love had completely betrayed me. Of course, I wasn't aware of it at the time. A year into our relationship he moved countries to be with me and we'd continued to thr... (272 words)

I spy on my man and he feels suffocated. What does it mean that "I love him too much."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, we've been on 4 months ago.. but a month ago we have an argument, i have this jealous attitude towards him i admit i almost became a spy on him even on his social network i spy him and confront him.. and we had a big fi... (226 words)

I have a friend I'm in love with. Do I just leave her alone? She still loves her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay,so recently I reconnented with a former best friend who stop talking to me because of her then boyfriend. Anyway we started back talking april 15th and we were dating that same day. We been together before she broke up with me Thursday, because she still loves her ex. Idk ... (79 words)

I visited an old boyfriend after 4 years. Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, After four years, I booked a flight to visit my ex-boyfriend in Florida. The trip itself felt more like a dream because I didn't think I'd ever see him again. I had moved on, dated other guys and matured as a person whereas he did the same. Though, the on-a... (365 words)

My boyfriend never takes me out but goes out with his friends. Is this fair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I've a problem with my boyfriend every month end I must be left behind, he make sure that he goes out an leave me all alone at our to have a good time with his friends and comes back the following morning. I've talked to him about this but it seems I'm just pouring water ... (138 words)

When we're not arguing, things are good. But he broke my heart. Is it worth it, to keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

26 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my fiance 3 years. We had an argument over some petty BS. I wasn't even fighting with him, he just escalated to anger like he always does when we argue, and then says 'F**k this' or 'I'm done' and hangs up the phone, and then usually doesn't call back until th... (233 words)