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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's as if I want friends but I'm afraid to be hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - m female, in my late 20's, attractive, intelligent,confident, well dressed and I have great hygiene. I have no problems meeting new people and being in large groups. I find interacting with other people easy. I don't suffer from any social anxieties. I started uni last... (573 words)

Am I lying to myself about feelings for her; could she have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. My story starts 2 years ago. I started my 11th year in school. I met this girl. Around the start of the year. I got to know her at a friends party. We became friends. I started feeling something for her. I wasn't sure. But on june 1st. I wanted to ask her out. I don't... (450 words)

Why has my boyfriend stopped expressing his feelings towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I am 23 years old, and my boyfriend is 22, we have been together for almost 2 years. I have been noticing that he isn't expressing his feelings as well as he used to. Our second anniversary is coming up, and I don't even feel like he likes me, because he never... (290 words)

Should I trust my instinct regarding this Medium and let it give me comfort, or am I being ripped off?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm hoping all you good people can help me. I was very close to my nan who dies last year and I haven't really gotten over her loss yet. As a result i've been seeing a medium for the last few week who charges around £30 per sitting. My Boyfriend is a skeptic and tells me i'm... (273 words)

Has anyone heard of a man being impotent with no known cause?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age - I have a serious dilemma about my marriage. My husband suddenly went impotent 8 years ago, and lost his sex drive 100%. Since than he went to numerous doctors,but they didn't find anything wrong with his health. They said, it is likely psychological, but they are unable to ... (186 words)

Is it worth it to have friends? I don't feel like I have any true friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I know this is a stupid question to ask but is it worth it to have friends? Maybe someone can help me out here. I feel like throughout my teenage years I have been mistreated by a lot of people I considered my friends. I'm always a nice person and I try to be ... (327 words)

How do I forgive the man that raped my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife was drugged and raped when she was 15 years old at a party - she relived the story to me when we first met and I knew that I may need to be there for her to work through any issues that arose from that incident. However she is a very resilient and strong minded girl and ... (264 words)

Why does the girlfriend of my boyfriend's friend act this way? It makes me very uncomfortable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My boyfriend and his friends are like most guys these days. They're young, horny, flirty, like to play xbox and pc games, party, etc. One of my boyfriend's friends has a new girlfriend now and she is really beautiful. I don't wanna sound arrogant but she is kind of out o... (303 words)

I'm committed to my boyfriend so why do I dream about other guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having these re-occuring dreams about men. Either they're these cute little dreams.of us together or it sexual. It's always about someone who I've either found attractive at one point, or have liked, and all these men in some way I still have contact with. I've been with ... (89 words)

New girl seems to be displacing me from my circle of friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never been popular but I do have a small group of friends, probably about 7 or 8 people, and we are all really close. For a while now, they have all been becoming friends with this other girl. This girl is really gorgeous and gets a ton of attention, especially from the ... (263 words)

The mother of my unborn child wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - She's 13 weeks pregnant and I swear she hates me and told me not to call or sms actually she dumped me...must I leave her? I really love her but seems like nothings gets fixed when I apologise and ask for secoind chance...yes its my child please help... (48 words)

My parents want me to go to the prom but I don't want to go!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My class senior prom is coming up. My parents are trying to pressure me to go but I just do not want to go since none of my friends are going. My friends and I are having a pool party at one of my friends house instead (cheaper and don't have to deal with the headach... (162 words)

I wonder if my boyfriend is more interested in games than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm unsure what to and could please use some help. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 months although not the first time we've been together. we were together but not a couple in the past a few years back but then he got back together with his ex. we have bee... (511 words)

What are the consequences I'm going to be facing being a single mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, This question is for all the single mothers out there, please encourage. I have decided to keep my baby because he/she can't suffer for my mistakes but I want to know how does it feel when the father denies the pregnanacy and you now have to tell your family you ... (185 words)

Is my ex thinking of me? She broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age - Hello, I get block phone calls, cell phone, ever since my ex broke up with me, I have not bother her , she broke my heart, but I walk away, am back with my ex before her, I think she must of look into my cell phone, when I took a shower at her place, cause the women am back ... (90 words)

They stare at me! Does it mean they are interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy and used to look at him. He got to know about it and started giving me the same attention. Now, he always looks confidently into my eyes with a smile and never misses to look if I'm around. When I look back, he holds the eye contact until I look away! Two of his ... (86 words)

Do you think I'm making a mistake? Is it stupid to marry a twice divorced man?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am nearly 30 and I want to marry a man who is 46. My parents are opposed to the match because he is much older than I am, belongs to a different country and race and primarily because he is twice divorced and is a train driver in the UK. On the other hand, I've never been ... (132 words)

Is time really a healer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a long term relationship end about 4 years ago, it ended bad for me as she messed me about and I was a sap ha.. but I've had one brief relationship since and felt bad because I didn't like her as much as she did me. If I'm interested in a girl now I either loose ... (153 words)

Sister in law friendship dilemma

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma regarding my sister in law. We used to be best friends and when her abusive boyfriend dumped her, I let her move in with me and my husband. I looked after her, helped her get back on her feet etc....like you would for a friend. She was my maid of honour a... (432 words)

I really like my best friend's male friend. How do I tell her? him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - This is an urgent problem and I, in advance, honestly and deeply thank you for your help. So, basically, the problem is - I'm in love with a guy I've practically never met and he happens to be my best friend's best friend ( my best friend's a girl). Okay, so the story goes som... (401 words)

I am crushing on my coach/teacher. Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) age 26-29 - Hi there. I have a crush on my soccer coach, who is also a relief teacher at my school. He took quite a few of my classes last year, and i knew the first time i saw him that i liked him. Now, Im 16, and he is about 24. (i asked him last year). I know that i shouldn't act on a... (161 words)

How do I ask him in a nonchalant way what he expects from our next date?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on 3 dates with this guy and things are going smooth,he suggested our next date should be at his 'apartment'..we haven't had sex or made out yet we r just in 'getting to know each other' phase..he sent me a text earlier today saying 'so when am I going to see your ... (113 words)

Is it wrong that I'm falling for my step uncle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I think im falling for my step uncle. Is it wrong? and his uncle is my step dad. Its complicated. But no blood whatsoever.... (26 words)

My boyfriend still texts his ex. I don't like it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my man and I haven't been together long. Hes a sweet man and takes care if me (we both work) but I mean he does things for me no other man has done. My issue is, when he first moved in with me he was on the phone with his ex (apparently we weren't official at that time) and ... (211 words)

Can a serial monogamist finally really commit?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been a serial monogamist - so how do I know I'm just not another woman he commits to for a short period of time ?! He says all the right things - and he's open to having children. He has told me he's "invested" ... We've been dating 6 months - serious for 4. ... (57 words)

I can't get over that he doesn't want to be with me now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4246 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've known this guy for 3 years now. We live a few states away from each other. I started talking to him online with no intention of feeling the way that I do about him. He was upset about a girl he wanted to be with, and I was upset about a boyfriend I was with at the ... (488 words)

Why did I do this if I love my fiance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance' for over 4 years now. About 1 year ago, I had this guy friend and him and I shared the same problems we were going through and he was on the computer late at night like me. I feel like I may have started to develop feelings for him. I did used to ... (405 words)

My crush says he's not the relationship type. How do I make him like me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - so ive done it again... ive fallin in love and once again the guy dosnt want to love me... i just told him that i was crushing on him... and he knew for a while. he said hes not the relationship type of guy... and he dosnt know why.. and i can kinda tell since hes flirty with ... (125 words)

A girl told me that my hair was man pretty. What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - A few days ago, a girl who I've never met before told me that she liked my hair (I have long hair and it was tied in a ponytail on this day). I thanked her for the kind words, and then she followed up by saying something I've never heard before: "It's very man-pretty". ... (115 words)

I kissed her too soon, and she still has feelings for her ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hello, im soooo confused right now. ive known this girl for years, and ive worked with her the past 8months or so and i really devloped a liking for her, so i waited for her to come out of her current relationship and i made my move slow which we both agreed we wanted to do. we ... (357 words)

I thought we were getting into a relationship, but she sees it as 'just friends'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys I wonder if you can offer me some advice regarding this matter. I have known this woman for quite a few years and we use to work together. In this time we were nothing more than friends. In the past year we have become close and have slept together a few times. I adm... (230 words)

Her mother is encouraging her to put the brakes on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have a great relationship and after about 3 months we introduced each other to our own kids. One issue we have is that her mom doesn't feel she should be dating anyone right now due to the last relationship she was in. ... (208 words)

I still haven't talked to him about us being in a relationship, it's just like we chill and have sex. So my question for you guys, should I talk to him about how I feel?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for a few months now. And the first time we officially chilled was on Christmas day. When we chilled, we did have sex. But before we chilled, it wasn't established what either of us were looking foe (like a relationship, or just a sex buddy, ... (199 words)

Could I fall in love with someone who is always abroad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

1 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started doing online dating. I was just quite tired of trying to meet nice guys in clubs because it doesn't seem to be happening for me. A lot of guys were just plain sleazy and boring on the website, but I have started talking to this guy about a week ago. We ... (386 words)