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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Need advice after having sex with my co-worker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My co-worker and I have known each other for a couple of years and been flirting since. He has a long term girlfriend but I didn't know this till a year later cause he never mentions her, so a long time after I developed strong feelings for him. He is always hot and cold with ... (437 words)

Should I write to my ex or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I left a 5 year on-off relationship about 20 months ago. He was seeing other women. I said I will stay friends but I read few articles about 'no contact rules' to heal myself so I followed it and have been fine. I am fine as I had closure. However, in the past... (278 words)

Shouldn't watching porn boost his sexual drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and i have only been dating for about 5 months, when we first got together, we had a very healthy and consistent sexual relationship as well, it hasnt really been that way, lately we've had sex maybe 3 times a month, and its not romantic at all, no foreplay, and ... (169 words)

Should I try to work things out and see if my feelings come back for him or should I just cut all ties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice as i'm still a year and a half later struggling to move on from my ex, i don't know whether this means i should be with him still or not. So me and my ex have been on and off for 11 years now i love him and think about him all the time i love spending ti... (319 words)

I don't know which guy I like more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy for about 5 months now and i'm beginning to really like him, we flirt every time we see each other, he has a great personality and he's been coming round every other weekend, and we would end up kissing and cuddling. However, my friend introduced ... (162 words)

I always thought I was straight but recently I've been having sexual thoughts about a guy I know. Am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I always thought i was straight but recently i've been having sexual thoughts about a guy i know. What do I do? Tell him? Ignore it? Am i gay? Also, i know this guy because he is one of my best friends' brother. What do i do?... (48 words)

How long do I give him this 'break' for? Should I get in touch to clarify this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really confused - my fiance had been blowing hot and cold since February this year basically since I lost my job and things were financially hard for us. We got engaged on New Year's Eve and I thought it was a new beginning for us - we have had issues with his ex in t... (519 words)

I have a live-in mother-in-law who criticizes everything I do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This is my first post. please be kind to me and excuse me for long boring passage. I have a mother in law who criticizes everything I do or say. It goes from a simple recipe to how to take care of my baby. She lives in with us. My husband does not tell anything a... (625 words)

He has a nickname for me and fights to sit near me, but we don't talk much. Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4219 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend 7th grade. (Lets say person A)Now i am in10 th grade and we are classmates. We weren't actually talking to eachother since this year. In school at breaktine everyone was stressed bec. we had an exam in few minutes and a close friend of A in a loud voice said to ... (189 words)

I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Recently I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls. He apologized and is extremely upset so he promises never to do it again. He deleted all the girls phone numbers that were in his phone.I want to trust him but I'm having a hard time ... (68 words)

How do you tell if a guy would make a good boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Say you're already friends with him, or even it's someone you don't know so well - when you get to know someone better, what are signs to watch out for and signs someone is a genuinely decent person? The reason I'm asking this question is because of my family background; I wa... (179 words)

I am a fake person online and I don't know how to come clean

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a fake person online. I fell in love with an Airforce man. I don't know how to tell him, cause I know he won't love me, after he sees the real me. I am trying my best to figure out a way to tell him, I don't know how and I don't want him to leave. help, please. I've lied ... (75 words)

Is it normal to feel this confused after a break up you were sure you wanted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I have just come out of a relationship which lasted over a year and a half. The relationship began quickly. We were effectively in a relationship together after just a few dates. We had a lot in common, it seemed. We shared similar interests and this created... (988 words)

My boyfriend originally thought I would be his one night stand! This bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had a very wierd start to our relationship,he thought I would be his one night stand but we never had sex,we eventually started hanging out more and became exclusive! I never met him with an intention of sleeping but he did and this thing keeps haunting... (86 words)

My gf is never interested in sex and I am starting to miss my ex. How should I deal with this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend seems to never be interested in sex. We've been together for eight months now and only had sex TWICE, two months ago. It's getting to the point where I can't handle the frustration anymore. I take her out, I buy her gifts, flowers, etc. I'm romantic and she says ... (348 words)

We've been together for 8 years, passion is wearing thin and I miss romance. Please advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am really confused and desperate for answers. I have been with my partner for 8 years. I am 24 and he is 27. We are engaged to be married. Obviously we are very young but this is not unusual where we are from. We moved from home and emigrated to Australia nearly... (415 words)

My ex's gf is driving a wedge between my kids and their dad. How should I deal with this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Dear Cupid Im writing this through rage and tears... Me and my ex broke up 3 years ago, we have two amazing children together, He has moved on and has a child with another girl, their relationship is rocky most of the time, My ex has a bad Alcohol addiction and sh... (739 words)

How can I deal with my husband's need for sex when my sex drive is low due to pregnancy. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so stressed out at the moment me and my husband split in November last year I had a couple of one night stands and ended up pregnant. Time has gone on and my husband wants to try again I have decided as I am almost 7 months pregnant I want to live separately until the baby ... (173 words)

My bf is cold and hurtful after I had a miscarriage. Any advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was just wondering are these the actions of a man who loves me. My boyfriend said he needed space after i had a miscarriage. The next day after this i was very upset as i could not understand how he could turn so cold towards me. He came back home told me to pack my things ... (129 words)

I broke up with my bf of 7 years but I miss him so much. Please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi .i recently posted about my bf not speaking to me 2-3 months at a stretch after a fight. I broke up with him. But im not able to forget about him. I miss him every single moment. I have not eaten for a week and a half. I feel like calling him and asking what i did to deserve ... (73 words)

LDR but he is not opening his world to me. I am scared to be used. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm back again after obsessing about my LDR. And more questions to ask. The relationship is going rather well, we talk everyday, our phone conversations are great. I have visited him four times now and had an ok time. He is supposed to visit me here to but seems to always have ... (299 words)

The men I date always talk about their ex's is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I just want an honest opinion on this one. Im an attractive, pretty cool young woman who is independent. I wonder why men that I date always tell me or talk about other women? When I say other women I mean ex girlfriends or some women in general. Usually they will just ... (154 words)

Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herpes:( I'm no Angel but not p... (230 words)

I'm trying to take care of my children and my brothers and sisters because my father is an alcoholic. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am losing my mind. I am taking care of my two small children by myself as a single mother and on top of that I am also taking care of my Dad's kids. My brother and sisters. They are driving me absolutely crazy. They have no parental supervision up at their house, m... (529 words)

I want this older man but his wife is fighting tooth and nail to keep him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just want to know what you all think i should do about this situation. im 23 and i met a guy at work, we have been talking alot, and he watches me when i work, i work in the office on the second floor and he works at the desk on the first floor and glass surrounds me so he ... (297 words)

I'm married so why am I seeking validation from other men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a married woman in my twenties who still seeks validation from every man I see or meet. Meaning, I want them to find me attractive. What does that mean? Am I screwed up in the head, or are a lot of women like this? How do you get past something like this? I don't like being ... (314 words)

I thought I was gay but now I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi:) i'm 16 and I'm extremely unsure about my sexuality. Ive been certain since I was 13 that I was 110% gay. But recently I've been questioning it. I've never had a full on crush on a guy before and I have these weird dreams that indicate that I am somewhat attracted to ... (184 words)