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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel betrayed and hurt because he got a lap dance for his birthday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for one year now and the day before our one year anniversary he went out for his 21st birthday and went to a strip club with his friends. They also paid for him to have a private lap dance. He said nothing else happened and I don't doubt that at ... (297 words)

Should I say something to her about how we seem to be drifting apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My best friend of 10 years is drifting away from me. We've lived in different countries for the last 5 years but had loads of phone contact and it's always back to normal when we see each other. We know the intimate details of each others' lives, and we've always been there for ... (132 words)

Boyfriend kissed a friend who likes him. I know he might let this happen again. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I know a lot of people don't believe that kissing someone else is cheating but i do. Anyways, my boyfriend and I have been dating since June 2011, I didn't know at the time we began dating that one of his friends had feelings for him. He told me after we got together and i felt ... (355 words)

How do I get out of my prom date to take another girl that is nicer to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a senior prom problem. I'm a senior in High School, and there is a girl who I am "best friends" with, who I had feelings for, that I asked to prom, and she said yes. The girl doesn't go to my school, and seeing her is a problem. Lately, she has been blowing me off ... (171 words)

"The one"???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if someone is "the One"? Just generally.... (11 words)

Do guys think experienced girls are hotter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Do boys think girls are hotter when they find out that they have 'done stuff' with another boy ?... (19 words)

My best friend's sister likes me. Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i think one of my best friends twin sister likes me and i've started to like her I'm 19 and shes 16 also I turn 20 before she hits 17 what should I do about telling him?... (44 words)

My daughter was bullied into sending a nude photo to a boy. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my 13 year old daughter comes to me in the middle of the night crying because she did something really bad. She said she was pressured into sending a photo of herself nude to a boy in her class. He was being really mean and bullying towards her. I didn't know what to do, ... (172 words)

How do I get things back on track with my guy friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30yr old female who has been separated for about a year. Last April I met a guy I worked with who is now 22yrs old. Even though he's younger than I am he is actually very mature for his age. We started off as friends but as the months progressed we became closer. We would ... (271 words)

I'm wondering about us getting back together, the problem is my friends and family will be shocked!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend many many times, he always come after me and convinced me get back together. I tell him he don't listen to me and I want the space, but he don't leave me alone. Now he say he understand and can listen more, want to hear everything about what I feel ... (515 words)

How do I deal with my mother's anxiety about money, she'll essentially throw away money yet say spending it on my education is a problem, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question, but I hope someone on here can give me some advice. My mom works like 24/7, no joke. She's always put work ahead of everything else in life. When she'd come home she'd spend hours paying bills, and saying how expensive everything is, and that... (252 words)

Is he playing with my emotions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy from a friend of mine a year ago, and I started developing feeling for him. He initiated the first meeting, and took me to the "City" and everything was fine for a couple of dates. One day he started being really obnoxious, telling me I was selfish, because as ... (780 words)

Is "no contact" really the best way to get over a breakup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I went "no contact" for the first 2 weeks but it was too difficult for me...I missed him so much, to the point of physical pain. Is this typical? We've been talking since then, which is much easier than no con... (166 words)

My boyfriend found out I lied and he posted naked pics of himself online to retaliate!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone want to give advice on whether I should stay with my bf or not? Here's my story. I hooked up with a guy a couple years ago. We still talk here and there. Current bf asks me if I ever hooked up with him. I lie and say no. A few other times he asks and I say no but ... (249 words)

Men: Why is my husband watching porn that involves fat women over 60?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm married woman in my 30s and have a small son. Me and my husband watch porn together, but recently I found out that he is watching a different type of porn when I'm not around, it involves the opposite of me, women that are over 60 and fat. Does this means that he ... (78 words)

My body doesn't even get ready for sex anymore, I can't orgasm!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, hes wonderful and i love him very much, we live together and we plan to get engaged soon. We lost our virginity to eachother and for the first few times we had sex i orgasmed (both clitorus and internal) it was great. ... (351 words)

I cheated with a married family friend and now feel crushed that he has ended things

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I made the bad decision to cheat on my husband but I don't know what makes me feel worse... The fact that I cheated or that the other guy broke it off because he doesn't want to hurt his wife. We are all very close and have been friends for years. I have known him longer than ... (122 words)

Long distance guy doesn't like phone calls. I need more than just texting?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20, talking to a guy that's 21. We live just over 100 miles away. (I still find that LD if you can't see the person spontaneously) I'm in university and he graduated from university last year, and is now taking a gap year whilst working a weekend job, before he starts... (867 words)

My mother knew my b/f before we got together, and hates him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been seeing a guy for 2 months! He's quite a bit older but ages isn't my issue, he's separated from his wife but not a lot of people know and I've posted on here bout me not wanting to be slagged off at work for being a "home wrecker" even tho they split up 4 months ... (144 words)

My ex-wife is trying to turn our daughter against my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex wife has crossed her line,and for some reason blames everything on my girlfriend whose been nothing but nice to my child and my wife!and my child(amelia)she loves my girlfriend and has accepted her,she calls her to take her shopping,to discuss 'boys', 'dates' etc! But now ... (192 words)

His kid saw us having sex! How do we handle this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I cannot even think straight right now,my head is spinning..I'm dating my boyfriend for 3 years now,he is a divorcee and has a child..so the child visits the father on weekends but this weekend the mother called my boyfriend and said the kid won't make it,so we... (174 words)

Do I tell her? And what do I say?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I'm in abit of a dilemma and really need some advice.... I have seen a girl around, I dont really know her that well but I've spoken to her a few times when I've seen her out. She's an artist like me and when we've spoken, there seems to be a strange bond somehow.. I... (206 words)

I found out I am his mistress and cannot let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am a newly divorced lady and I'm in a relationship with a man who is 8 years younger than me. Its a fairly new relationshi (3 months) and when I got involved with the man,he gave me the impression that his relationship with the baby mama is a thing of the past. Aft... (478 words)

How can I forget my ex boyfriend if I still hate him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How can i forget my ex bf,if still i hate him for lying to me many times?Im trying to forgive him many times but still he deny the truth i was hurt why he did to me like this i was honest to me him,he promise many things but i know all of that is just only promises not coming ... (112 words)

I don't want a divorce , so how do I stop my Husband from divorcing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 23 from South Africa and currently seperated from my husband. He wants to get a divorce and I dont want to. Is there any way I can get him to go to counceling with me. We have a 1 year old baby and im 16 weeks pregnant. I love him and want us to sort out our problems. He got ... (93 words)

I want sex but my partner only wants sex when she is in the mood!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - It's common for women to refuse sex when they don't want to do it themselves even if their partner is desperate. Some will refuse time after time. Surely if relationships are about compromise, they should look to find a compromise on sex too, but many will just point blank... (93 words)

Why does he reel me in and then pull back? What is even going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess the only way this would make sense is if i start from the beginning....it seems almost unreal, like something you would only read in a book but its happened, and it still is... SO back in october 2012 I had a random friend request on FB from this guy in my hometown... (500 words)

My Wife Talking about sex toys with a collegue!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age - Had a bit of a barney with my wife (of 5 months) last night. She said that she had a conversation with a male collegue about his business selling Sex Toys - I thought this was innapropriate and got the proverbial hump. Anway, thats not so much the issue. The problem is that ... (211 words)

I really like this girl. Should I try to interest her again? We broke up earlier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've known this girl for several years, we dated when we first met, but it didn’t work out because we were in school. We've been friends since then; we've fought and been there for each other through a lot. We hang out a lot, once I even asked her out again and she said she... (268 words)

My Boyfriend didn't support me in ways I needed. Is it wrong of me to be mad at him? I feel betrayed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years, he has a sister who is my age who I really dislike due to many things she did to me in the past. She seemed to be jealous of my relationship with her brother (things such as making fun of me at school, making up rumors, film... (468 words)

Shall I give into guilt and tell my beloved? That I kissed a few times with a boy when I was younger? Or how can I deal with my feelings on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relation for 3 years with a guy, and i thought i loved him.. True love type of love, but I was too young and went with the flow did wrong things like inviting him home when no one was around. We kissed a couple of times.. But eventually he turned out to be a suff... (162 words)

Is feeling unsure, after taking back a cheater, a normal response? Could he still be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. In the last year he asked me twice to marry him, after I said yes, he asked me 2 time to run off and get married in December last year and last month. However this month I found out he was cheating on me for a month and a half... (191 words)

I can't wait till sex is over!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Our sex life is great.. Maybe a little too great. We have sex everyday. Sometines more than once. T first it was great but now sometimes I can't wait till it's over. We've even stopped doing it so often and now I love it more so ... (119 words)

Boyfriend is really disconnected in our relationship. I don't know what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the 6 months and in the past month he has pretty much lost all interest in me sexually. He will cuddle with me on the couch and will kiss me (peck) goodbye but that is about it. He makes comments about having sex with and will ... (337 words)

We have grown apart in our marriage. Should I leave? Have others done it and came out ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 38. I have been married for 14 years together 17. I have 3 children. I love my husband, I care for him but I'm not in love with him like I should be. I feel no attraction to him, have no desire and cannot give him affection. He is a good husband, provider and great father. ... (343 words)

Girlfriend seeing her ex and it makes me uneasy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - so my girlfriend has never been with a woman before me. we've been together for about four months now and i feel very confident that she loves and cares a lot for me. we seem to be a phenominal couple and have no real issues in our relationship at all. that being said, she'... (194 words)

My ex wants to get married but I cant forget about her past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age - I was in a 5 year relationship with my ex.We have been broken up for 2 years.I ran into her at a restaurant and we began talking about getting back together.We started back dating and having fun together.After about 2 weeks she told me during our 2 year break up she began ... (92 words)

I like this man and I'm scared he'll find out about my past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been sexually active with a few guys in my neighborhood and ive fell in love with someone who lives close who doesent know about my past and im afraid of him finding out. what should i do?... (38 words)

I found out my husband is using porn and I don't like it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found out that my husband views internet porn a lot. I am so hurt by this. I work hard to stay attractive and am always ready to make love or be adventurous in bed w/him. He says It's no big deal, and It's the same as me using a vibrator. The problems I have is that if ... (100 words)

I think my ex got married on a short term relationship, I want to contact her, but should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age - Ok, this will probably be a little complicated. Both my girlfriend and I are middle aged, so, a little older than many of the people who post here. But, I could use some advice on a tricky issue. We had been dating for 1.5 years. I was going through the final stages o... (1556 words)

Old FWB wants to make it official. Is it risky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My old sex buddy and i saw each other today , it's been a while since we've seen each other , but he messaged me on Facebook than we texted and he said if i would ever be his girl , and i replied if he would be faithful than yeah . Than he said he'd call when he was out of work ... (220 words)

Why would a man leave a classy woman for a piece of trash?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you be in love with someone and barely know them after 2 months of dating all you really do is talk on the phone you. You dont know nothing about this person I would think that first get to know a person before calling them your trophy or you baby. Why is it that aman ... (86 words)

How can someone have such strong feelings about you and make serious promises then switch them off so suddenly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all..So I need some advice about my current ex-boyfriend. I'm not sure, but looking back I think he had bipolar disorder. He has never been diagnosed, not that i know of, but some of his behavior drove me crazy. When we first started sating he was a dream.. polite, a ... (181 words)

How is this romantic and not creepy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My roommate just got a date with a girl for being a creep and messaging her on facebook when he didn't even know her. He sent a message to her on an account he newly made that said I quote "I don't know you very well but one of my friends knows you and I think you are ... (146 words)

I still have bursts of anger and wish that bad things would happen to my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked many questions about my ex girlfriend cheating on me and leaving me for another guy after our 8 year relationship. Now looking back i can see how pathetic and broken i was when i look at my previous questions. It has been a year and four months since the split and i ... (225 words)

I found my girlfriend flirting with another girl through texts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4264 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Found gf flirting with another girl via text. When I confronted her she confirmed that she was an old friend who started by saying hi and got inappropriate, she didn't like it and she asked her to stop. But I read the texts and there was not stopping from my gf. My gf didn't ... (179 words)

I wish my boyfriend would chose me over his mother for a change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 22 I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years I moved in with him at his parents house 3 years ago. And I don't have much to do with my family. Well we work at the same place but we drive buses and we dont interact at work . Well he works all the time 12 hours a day and I se... (426 words)

How long do I wait? Do I reach out? Or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been dating this guy for 1.5 years. He has two kids from a previous marriage. We were trying and got recently pregnant. We were planning to move in together, and he even proposed. Unfortunately I miscarried at 9 weeks. We got into a small disagreement the day before w... (364 words)

Does my crush like me and is he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so I need to know if my crush is jelouse and if he likes me. Ok so everyday I see him staring at me and twirling his little hairs and staring at me he is ALLWAYS making me laugh and is ALLWAYS wanting to be around me. My friends have asked if he likes me and he ALLWAYS ... (187 words)

Should I contact my ex to apologize for my behavior in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex were friends for five years before entering into a relationship and shared many of the same friends. She broke up with me once, we got back together, then our relationship started going poorly again. I preemptively broke up with her but immediately regr... (327 words)

I cut this online guy off, should I apologize?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I started talking to this guy who I met online over the phone who I really like and have great chemistry with. But because of his situation(him being separated) I abruptly cut him off through text message, which left me feeling really bad. I didn't want to end up ... (105 words)

Husband has been texting another woman 7 times a day then deleting them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi is it normal for my husband to be texting a woman in the cafe where he goes? he is a lorry driver and stops in the cafe most but not everyday. i found out he has been texting her 7 times a day starting as early as 7am just after he leaves the house then 6 more times during ... (426 words)

I met my online long distance guy but is it worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in a small city in Canada grew up here all my life and have struggled meeting guys I like. I recently tried match.com and met a guy who lives 90 minutes by ferry away. We had chatted very often for about a month and then we met this past weekend. It was a good first date ... (176 words)

He wants to be with me but won't admit it, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

20 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My situation is a long story but I'll try to keep it as short and sweet as possible. I was dating my boyfriend since my junior year in high school. We are crazy about each other and we fell so in love! There was a period in our relationship when we had to break up because of a ... (844 words)