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writes:How can you be in love with someone and barely know them after 2 months of dating all you really do is talk on the phone you. You dont know nothing about this person I would think that first get to know a person before calling them your trophy or you baby. Why is it that aman would rather leave a classy woman for a trashy ass woman somebody that does not having anything going for there self besides being at home all the damn time? Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (20 March 2013):
 Hi
Your clearly hurting and lashing out.
After 2 months you shouldn't really know or care what your Ex does or says to any woman,your only making the hurt last longer for yourself.
You and he are over,done with,he's history.Wise women move on quietly,let the men go.
Don't worry what he's doing, worry about yourself and what's next in your life
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2013):
 OH I LOVE CERBERUS! “any woman who calls herself classy is just self important trash.” A rose by any other name…
I was going to ask you myself OP… I assume you see yourself as the classy woman?
What about this young lady that you were left for makes her trash in your eyes. I was a SAHM for many years... since you said "being at home all the damn time?" I guess that would have made me a "trashy woman"
Perhaps he left the “classy” woman for the “trashy ass” woman because the “trashy” woman is not judgmental or demanding? Perhaps she is secure and happy with herself and her life while the “classy” woman is not happy inherently and it becomes wearing and demanding on the man.
I am sure that you would find me trashy... I'm on my fourth husband...
BTW for the fun of it... go to youtube and find the song "trashy women" by confederate railroad... maybe that will explain it to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2013): It is simple: sex. The trashy woman is better in bed and fulfills the man's carnal needs better than the 'classy' woman who plays hard to getz
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2013): OP any woman who calls herself classy is just self important trash. No woman is better than any other just because they expect doors to be held for them, don't fart out loud and hold their knife in the right hand. Real class is not judging others negatively for having something you want but can't have. Jealousy is the opposite of class.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2013): I'm guessing because the man is not interested in anything long term or wants to be in a committed relationship at this time in his life. There are right now girls and girls, at some point, to "take home to Mom". These kind of guys will say anything to get a girl to have sex with them and that's about all the real effort they will put into it...they are just playing around, nothing else. If they have to work too hard, they move on to something that's easier. When they are really interested in one women and really want a relationship with that person, they will go to great lengths to get to know them, respect them, and they are no longer looking at anyone else or thinking they will find something better.I would not take it personally and obviously this is not the right guy for you. Don't chase him or think you are going to bring him back to you because you are "classy". It has nothing to do with you, but it has everything to do with his lack of maturity, where he is at in terms of the kind of relationship he wants to be in and what he's attracted to...this isn't a bad thing, it's just a different place than you are. Let it go, move on and eventually someone who is right for you and right for him will come into your life.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (20 March 2013):
You are probably over simplifying this a little bit. You're situation and life in general.
Not to mention, to many guys, "classy" is a word only used by women that think they're better than other people.
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