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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My old sex buddy and i saw each other today , it's been a while since we've seen each other , but he messaged me on Facebook than we texted and he said if i would ever be his girl , and i replied if he would be faithful than yeah . Than he said he'd call when he was out of work and well i don't know what to do . When we stopped talking i missed him so much , we have so much chemistry i know no other girl will offer him what I once did , we would hook up but i would understand him we'd talk about everything , and well we weren't just sex buddy's because he'd take me out on dates lay next to me we'd cook for each other or help each other with homework we'd party together everything , he was just a sex buddy because i guess at the time niether of us were ready for a relationship . But this time apart not talking he crosses my mind and i know he still thinks of me . What should i do ? Talk to him ? Or just let it go ? Would it be hard to date someone who you were once not committed to ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2013):
 TREAD VERY VERY CAREFULLY OP.
I'm betting you care more for him and about him than he does about you and he's just looking to stick his wick in something again...
IF you want to DATE him (really DATE HIM and have him respect you and treat you properly and see if he cares about your or just getting laid) then make him treat you like you've never been fuck buddies.
He has to wine you, dine you, woo you, and respect you.
I would keep sex (including hand and blow jobs) totally off the table for as long as possible....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 March 2013):
 If you two try and date then just go slow. Who knows it might work out it might not, but the questions is DO YOU want to try?
Set some ground rules and go for it.
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reader, butterflymama +, writes (20 March 2013):
I say why not give it a chance? I do think its possible for a couple to move past FWB status and into a relationship ...especially if you are sure he's being faithful.
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