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Archived questions from: 17 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need to protect my child from the stranger that is her father. Advice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Had a one night stand with complete stranger five years ago. That night resulted in a baby. I informed the guy i was pregnant but he cut all contact with me. Now i knew his name, address, where he worked and stuff about his life because there was a courtship to our relations. ... (392 words)

How can I learn how to control my anger that turns in to grudges !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid. I have five siblings I am the second oldest girl my mom had three girls,two boys.For some apparent reason the youngest girl and I just never could meet eye to eye even when we were kids I was older and she was the baby. I truly hated her I wished my mom and dad ... (262 words)

How do you tell your boyfriend you don't really like his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently spent time with my boyfriends family and realised they're sexist, racist, ignorant and rude, and it's very hard to bare now, my boyfriend on the contrary is caring, loving and understanding and we've been together years. I plan on marrying him and having children and ... (123 words)

What is the appeal of threesomes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of over a year (who I am very close to) suggested that we have a threesome and I declined immediately. We have wonderful sexual experience together. The thought of another guy even touching and kissing her in the bedroom physically makes me sick in the stomach and ... (128 words)

How do you fix your sexual life when you're not the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm new to this but I'm going crazy with my boyfriend and have no one to ask advice from. So here it goes. I think my boyfriend is either a selfish lover or just treats me like a prostitute. He's very sweet and giving in all other areas of our relationship except sex. ... (236 words)

Guys, would it be selfish to get in touch with him to apologize for the things I'm sorry I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really be interested if any guys could answer this one, I was seeing a man on and off for a few months, and he made it clear he was unable to commit any further than a casual relationship. I have children, he does not, and he continually said I should find someone ... (206 words)

Did he behave this way because there was someone else? And why would he say he regrets what we did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this boy I met on holiday and through the holiday we got close and things started going somewhere, then on the final day he started getting touchy feely, an he told me he really liked me so that night one thing led to another and we did everything bar sex. After ... (204 words)

Why don't my relationships last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 and started dating when i was 16. Its funny but sad anytime i think about my current relationship as the 8th relationship im in now. And worst still i dnt see it survivin next one mouth. I dont really know what my problem is, all i hope since i was little is for a perfect ... (173 words)

My best friend, who has a long history of mental health problems and low self-esteem/anorexia, is claiming to be in love with a guy in his 40s who she hardly knows (who has a girlfriend) although she can't explain what she likes about him when I ask

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend, who has a long history of mental health problems and low self-esteem/anorexia, is claiming to be in love with a guy in his 40s who she hardly knows (who has a girlfriend) although she can't explain what she likes about him when I ask her. He looks young and is ... (178 words)

Is it ok to for me to kiss her goodbye? Is that going too far?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am in love with my best friend. She knows this, but she can't let herself like me because she has a BF that goes to a different college. I've told her that before we get out for summer break (Which is a full 4 months) I will kiss her goodbye. Our homes are 700 miles away ... (251 words)

How do we motivate the crowd when we rap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - How do I go with this?? Well am a rapper and me and my friend rap a lot, single I rap in my school with my school friends and peeps scream he also does that in his school too. Well lately we have both been rapping together and we got crowd in a small church close to our place, ... (105 words)

I broke up with him in the hopes that he would realize he still loved me if he felt he was losing me, should I have been more patient?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm unsure if I made a huge mistake or if it is just my mind playing games with me. I had been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. I moved to Florida a year ago so one out of those two years and a half were long distance. At first it was great, I felt as if the long d... (622 words)

I confessed my feelings, but he just wants to be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with my co-worker for about a year and a half and in that time, we've hung out, drank, taken the train home, whatever... I see him almost all day at work as we cross paths from office to office.. I think he is beautiful, funny, charming in every way (flaws ... (426 words)

I love him and can see him in my future but he can't?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Those who aren't a Chrisitan please dont reply! I met my bf at a christmas party at church. We are both christian but he is a bit more christian then I am (which isnt an issue). His family did everything together at church and mine really didnt.- I wasnt planning on havi... (517 words)

Why is he ignoring me? Has he lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a married woman. I am unhappy and have told my husband so. I met another man through work, I work in a doctor's office; he is a drug rep. We have exchanged flirtatious text messages and even met up once. We both admitted that something was different between us and we ... (355 words)

She's not the romantic type and doesn't show her affections very often

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Friends for two years with my now long distance girlfriend, we have been in a relationship for about five months with a view to have our first meeting in person this year (she's in Thailand, I'm in the UK). The problem is, she's not the romantic type and doesn't show her ... (192 words)

My boyfriend wants to rent the living room at a female friend's and I don't trust her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have almost been together 3 years. We've had our ups and downs numerous times but we love each other very much. I will do anything to be with him for the rest of my life. But now, we have yet another problem that I'm having an extremely hard time dealing ... (569 words)

Our relationship went downhill after my boyfriend heard that his ex had cheated on him before.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating a month at first things were great but one night he got told that his ex cheated on him he was devastated about it he said they broke up in December. After that night he found out things have gotten not so good. Before we started dating he ... (370 words)

How to deal with being completely alone...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - That's basically my situation. I feel like I pretty much have nobody. I'm sure it's partly my fault, but there are other factors that make it difficult for me to really get out there and socialize. For one, I don't even have a car right now (and probably won't any time soon, as ... (539 words)

After birth complications and a c section, my wife has problems enjoying sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 24 and my wife is 26 we have a baby 5 months ago ( Tried normal delivery but she had to have a c section). She had a few complications with pregnancy like high blood pressure, high blood sugar and several uti but the baby was. Healthy. He was about a month early but she ... (305 words)

My boyfriend is a 38 year old virgin and won't finger me or go down on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 38 and a virgin. I'm 35 and we've been dating for almost three years. I've been married once before and have 2 children. I don't expect my boyfriend to have sex with me but he won't finger me or go down on me. I pleasure him in every way except normal sex. ... (118 words)

I was told my coworker was married but he adamantly says he's been single for 6 months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I recently started a new job and instantly became attracted to one of my co workers, we spoke he said he was single and asked me out. I got speaking to one of the girls and she told me he was married. I then told him I wasn't interested as he has a wife, he told me again... (188 words)

I should marry him, yes? or marry him not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I marry my boyfriend? Reasons for I love him and know he loves me He is willing to take on my thirteen year old daughter He loves my family He cooks well, haha He loves my cooking He is warm and loving in his ways generally Reasons against He is ignorant at time... (164 words)

My boyfriend sexualises women and makes dirty comments!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf Of 4 years has a bad habbit of commenting when an attracive woman walks by us if we are out. He knows i dont like it but tells me he cant help it ( which i dont buy). He will make sounds, his draw may drop or goes "whoa" and even turn around to watch her walk away. ... (269 words)

Three days or three months, as soon as we have sex, they dump me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm always used for sex. I could be with a fella 3 days or a could be with a fella for 3 months but as soon as I have sex with them they say " its not working out ". This has happened me 5 times now!!! My last fella asked me out the day after we had sex but then a week later he ... (106 words)

I have needs too, and they are not being met!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - BACKGROUND: I have been with my BF for over a year now. We don't live together yet, but we see each other at least 3 times a week. Every time we see each other, I give him at least 1 blow-job, some times even 2. A quadruple amputee could count how many times he has gone dow... (265 words)

We don't have any mutual friends, and I don't want to come across as a stalker!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl last night at a party i kept looking at her and she was looking at me everytime i looked at her. when I made a lets face it rubbish joke she laugheed a lot at it. but it took me a while to have the balls to talk to her and we spoke for a few mins then my friend ... (180 words)

Why? Why did he not react? Does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did he not react? Does he not like me? So this cute, shy guy has been staring at me for months. We got talking and we hang out now and he’s like the cutest sexy thing ever. OMG him and his friends are always staring at me. He makes me so shy and he’s so quiet and ... (193 words)

I know I have to move on, alone with my child. Because I stayed with him before and my child was taken away. How Do I find the strength to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years and I have had more hurtful situation occur than any one couple ever should. At 2 months our daughter was removed from our custody. It was caused from him drinking and my choosing to stay with him. We together tried to get her back but unsuccessful... (222 words)

Is it me or him? I am sick of begging for sex. How can he be 23 and have such a low sex drive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m older than him. He is 23 and I am older. So if you are the kind of person who doesn’t understand the older woman, younger man relationship doesn't respond I’m looking for help and information. Not “advice” that’s not going to help me, at all. When I wake in the morni... (348 words)

How can I show my ex that I am not needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - In January my girlfriend broke up with me after almost six years together. She said she just doesn't feel that spark and is not sure if she ever has. Six years is a long time to figure that out. Recently, I found a letter she had written to someone she works with and has beco... (220 words)

I like one of my brother's friends/room mates. Should I act on it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I like one of my brother's friends. Problem is he's not only one of my brother's very close friends, they are also roommates, and it complicated everything. When I first met him, he texted me daily, he was always calling me cute and things like that, and we hung out at his ... (439 words)

Should we be friends and see what happens later on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4264 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is my situation: We dated for 6 months, then had to move to different countries. Tried long distance but broke up after 2 months because of it. She went back to her ex, we didn't speak for 2 months until she came back and I thought we were getting back together. She wa... (313 words)

Should I make a move on my history teacher?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help. I really have feelings for my history teacher. He gives me all the right signs showing that he likes me back but I don't know. I am 17 and in high school and he is 24. He smiles at me all the time and compliments me. I think of him all the time. When giving me ... (135 words)

I've moved on, my ex has married. Why is still contacting me? Doesn't he love his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My exboyfriend said he doesn't want a relationship with me because he said we were different people. I accepted it and later after two months he contacted me and said he wanted to see me. the break up was on september and he contacted me on november. I was so in love with him ... (502 words)

I know it's weird to have your tongue in someone's ear, but is it weird when you're making out with your gf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So this girl and I have been dating for about 4 months now. One day after spending the whole day together, we went back to her dorm. We were alone, so we talked for a bit and then started making out on her bed. I guess I just wanted to try something new, so I started kissing ... (214 words)

Does this mean that he's commitment phobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

17 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We haven't had sex yet, but the other night we both really wanted to. I was assuming that I'll stay at his place for the night, but he told me that he can't have me over. We go to the same college and live in different ... (243 words)

Does my girlfriend need to get a life? Or do I? Not sure I can continue to support my disabled Bf

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well thanks for take the time to read this,, Ok, so I've been with this girl for over 2 years now, and I feel like I'm being held back,,, like I have to watch all opportunities pass by, I work Monday - Friday and occasional put in 2-3 hours of overtime, only when ... (1277 words)

In private he is affectionate towards me. But in front of others he pushes me away. How do I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So, this is going to be a little long so bear with me. + I have been talking about this on a forum anonymously for over 3 years now, and it hasn't gotten any better. I even turned to y! answers one other time to ask about this, but I am in a difficult to understand situatio... (927 words)

Need help identifying new 21st dating lingo? Where does a virgin fit in all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

17 March 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Can somebody explain what these new terms mean because I have heard them thrown around and want some closure 1. what is friends with benefits male edition? 2. what is friends with benefits female edition? 3. what is a female jigalo ? 4. what is a male jiglo? Excuse my st... (97 words)

I love my best female friend but she has a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

17 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this girl and I met at the start of the school year (we're college freshmen). Shortly after we met, I realized that I liked her, but it wasn't much more than a crush. Around the same time, I realized that she has a boyfriend who goes to a different college. That bugged ... (495 words)