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Archived questions from: 21 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I reading the signals right? Or am I in the friendzone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there boys and girls! I need your help, anyway here it goes. There's this girl I meet at work just a month ago. I'm starting to like / have a crush on her. She's so beautiful that like in some ways, I haven't felt this way before. But the problem is, she has a boyfriend ... (408 words)

Should parents knock before they enter a kid's room?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a question to all parents I want to know what do u think of the concept of a) knocking on you kids door before entering their room? 2)How do you get them to open up to you more,what if they are constantly texting,do u check their phones? 3)And according to you wh... (93 words)

Is it normal to want anal sex with my wife?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it normal to want anal sex with my wife, she's got a lovely arse and she's the only person I want it with, we have been together for 20 + years and have a fantastic sex life, I'm just wondering if my penis would be too big for her, it's 6 ins but quite thick... (56 words)

I am possessive of my friends to a point of doing bad things to ruin a friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, at first I thought its just a 'phase' that I would get over eventually but sadly no! I'm very possesive of my friends(girlfriends), I don't mind them being friends with others but the minute I feel they are getting close and maybe I would be replaced I get ti... (179 words)

How to know if a friend I like is dropping sexual hints or just being flirty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, I've been getting close to this girl, she's in some of my AS classes and I think that she might be dropping sexual hints. I laugh and go along with them because she's my friend and we've became close really quickly, so I don't know whether she's getting the wrong idea. I ... (168 words)

My fiance did nothing inappropriate at the bachelor party, but I am still upset that he felt horny nonetheless.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Im in a relationship since 5 years and we are now engaged, hope to be married in start of next year. Trust and girls have never been an issue in my relationship as my guy is not the sort who is a flirt. He visits foreign countries a lot but has never tried to have a ... (377 words)

I want to ask someone out, without using those specific words.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I've recently became friends with this boy, he's in some of my classes and because he is I feel that he is constantly looking at me. I caught him looking at me the other day in class and it was sensual stare. I like the fact that he is doing this. He's doing it that often ... (172 words)

Not sure that either of us still wants to be in this relationship, but how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm having relationship problems. And honestly everyone telling me to stick with it and see where it goes. But I don't want to. I think I like someone else. And I know that sounds bad but its the guy I have known for over 10 years I believe. And I only have been with my ... (166 words)

Don't want a serious relationship, but is casual so bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Over my last break up but no longer want anything serious as its not the right time in my life. Is wanting something casual a bad thing? Like a sort of friends with benefit thing? ... (35 words)

Pre-occupied with the fear that I might have HPV

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Hmm I don’t know how to start this off it is probably going to sound crazy, but anyway when I was younger I went off of the rails I suppose and was incredibly naïve, so much so I ended up having unprotected sex with two rather questionable fellows (although I’m no... (267 words)

Never had a girlfriend and don't know how to make a move

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to make a move on a girl. I was alone with a girl who might like me but I didn't know what to do and ran out of things to say and then there was a long spate of terrible awkward silence. The problem is that I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl so... (148 words)

Most of the relationship is great, but ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi folks. I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and half. She's the best girlfriend I've ever had. She's above average in her looks, career, spirituality, fitness... you name it. But I've got a few concerns: 1) Sex. I've had sex with 3 other women before her. She's th... (337 words)

I'm just not interested in guys or sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I not interested in guys or sex? I've been single for 2years now and I don't feel like being with anyone. I signed up on a dating site cause I felt like I wanted to meet a nice guy and fall in love and hold hands and so all the cute things lovers do. I ... (185 words)

How would you react to a $20 engagement ring from a well-off guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, My boyfriend proposed with a ring that he paid 20 dollars. If he was earning a low income, I would not be asking for advice. However, he drives an expensive car, has about 50 pairs of shoes, good job, etc. should I be upset? Am I being greedy for asking if I ... (117 words)

What qualifies as "successful" emotional abuse, and what can I do to get continuous abuse, "failed" or otherwise, to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am having a huge problem, or at least, a huge thought process about a decently large problem. So, uh, it'll be a bit of a detailed story. Sorry... Last year I started going to a small private school, many of the students and teachers I had met that summer. I developed a cr... (795 words)

I am very hurt and angry that my husband is looking at porn. Why does everyone think porn is ok?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 4 months and moved across the country leaving my family and everything behind to be with my husband. I have no one out here but him and his family. I miss my family so much and cry quite a bit. My mother was molested by her father and cheated on by... (982 words)

My boyfriend says if I'm tired of him I should just give up on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my story, I have a 3 year old daughter and I'm 6 months pregnant with my second child. Lately my boyfriend(the father of my children) has been having health problems, and he is having self pity. He told me that if I'm tired of him, I could just give up on him (this hurt ... (108 words)

I can't accept that my husband was in prison for a sex crime but the families all give me a hard time!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married 20 years, my husband has been a troubled person for the majority of those years, we now have 2 adult children. 6 years ago my husband was sentenced to 6 years in jail shortly after his conviction, I learned that he was doing time for sexual assult against a ... (298 words)

What if you can't forgive your partner for cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. My name's Luan and I'm writing from Brazil. I'm not going to bother you with the whole story of my life and my relation, so I'll go straight to the point, asking you this. What to do.. If you are not able to forgive your partner after he/she cheated, even if you BOTH... (118 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend his lateness is driving me mad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all I think my bf has issues with time management. He's a lovely guy and he tries his best to spend time with me despite his busy schedule. Sometimes when he says he would call at a certain time, he ends up calling an hour later. I wish he could just tell me he was busy ... (117 words)

Surely actions speak louder than words? Is there any hope for this relationship or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age - i have been with a man for 10 years. about 4 years ago I kicked him out because of problems with my mom. she died in 2010. We talk of getting back together but he uses this as a excuse of why we have not. we went on vacation together in 2012. he came to see me on valentines day ... (131 words)

He has become 'best friends' with a female co-worker, they text all the time and go to lunch together. If I get upset about it he calls me insecure, but don't I have a right to be in this situation?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for six years and he has always had the same job.. Well recently he has started talking about a coworker all the time telling me how great she is. He goes to lunches with her alone and they text back and forth periodically. He got mad at me ... (304 words)

How do you know if a guy likes you, or if he just wants sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to anyone who can help me figure this out. Male agony "uncles", your views are wanted the most. What I wonder is, when do you know if a guy actually likes you, or if he's just after sex? I have this kinda complecated "thing" with a friend of mine. Two years ago, he st... (330 words)

Why won't my partner give me blowjobs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 8 years and she has never giving me a proper blowjob, and by proper I mean that she has never gotten me off while doing it. She rarely goes down on me, and I mean rarely, I'm taking once every year or two. And as sad it that may be, this ... (229 words)

I cant move on.....I want him back no matter what it takes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I had been in a relationship since 13 months. The past three months, we had started fighting a lot. And the week before he broke up with me, I had brought up break up since he would fight on everything. But the fights never lasted more than a day or two. We ... (348 words)

Am I her last option? Am I making a wise decision to marry her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is going to be a long one. Please take time to read and help me. I recently started dating my best friend's sister. She had two past relationship, I was a virgin and she is my first. She told most of her past, hearing it all made me cringe and developed a sort of ... (376 words)

So why did he visit my workplace at the end of the day, then not speak? Yet then message me at home later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy who liked me at work (he's not there anymore) turned up at work just as all the kids are leaving (I work in a school) Something went on between him and two members of female staff, so they didn't want to see him, and people generally weren't happy to see him, as ... (207 words)

She worshipped me and I treated her like dirt. I want to contact her. Should I try to do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Some time ago I met a girl on a dating site and ended up hurting real bad and now she hates me. I can't very much blame her because she was always sincere with me and went out of her way to show a concern for me and interest in me. I was the exact opposite and basicall... (396 words)

Caught Him in the act. Now what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age - About 2 years ago I came home early and found my husband making out with her in my car in the driveway (we have a long country drive) He seemed devastated and vowed to go to therapy and never ever do that again. Found out at counseling it had been going on since 2009. The ... (177 words)

He left, and I am desperate to know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So, for the past few months my husband and I have been having alot of problems. He has become very angry, to the point of verbal abuse and in his mind I am his enemy and at least every week he would blow up at me for some thing or another. Really scary rages. Horrible put ... (368 words)

Ex-boyfriend vs. Current Boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so lost on what to do..my ex-boyfriend and I were together for 3 years but closer to the end of our relationship he became distant and barely texted me (a lot had to do with work since he had started a full time job that involved shift work, but also he would always be ... (432 words)

He cheated. I told the girl, but she went back to him and he forgot about me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I Really need help with this one... So I have been doing a long distance relationship with this guy since last january of 2012 I was going to school in vegas and he lives in huntington beach 3 hour drive not bad. We actually saw eachother alot in the beginning valentines day he ... (702 words)

I'm uncomfortable with people looking at me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do they keep looking at me? I don't understand? So I signed up for the gym a few months ago and diet to help with my self confidence and I've lost a lot weight, toned. Uk size 10 but still curvy with big boobs. I've noticed that the guys that work there look at me ... (212 words)

How can I speak to somebody who wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a "girl crush" on a former lecturer of mine, it has almost been 2 years and the feelings do not subside. I honestly do not know what to do, she has not spoken to me once I confessed my feelings(I do not blame her) but I cannot for the life of me, stop thinking about her ... (190 words)

I want this creepy man in my art class to back off, but I don't know how to tell him how. Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello nice people of this site! I take drawing lessons weekly with a group of people. They are fun and I really enjoy it, but recently a new guy has joined the class and he's the problem. He doesn't talk to me, he doesn't talk to no one at all, he's a socially awkward guy; ... (338 words)

Long distance guy is refusing to let me follow him on Twitter or add him on Facebook?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Going to try and keep things brief. There's a guy im talking to, we are long distance, he lives about 2 hours away. We originally met in person, we have been speaking for 3 months and have not met since but we are planning a visit sometime within the next few weeks. So, I ... (702 words)

I'd like a strictly FWB situation, he say's he doesn't want to hurt me. He said he wants to have sex, but doesn't want to hurt me. What does he want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this boy I like who is in one of my university classes. I want to be FWB for now as we are both about to start a new program that is going to last almost two years and will be very busy for a real relationship. I'd love to be something more in the future ... (151 words)

Is my old sex buddy trying to make it official?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) age 30-35 - My old sex buddy and i saw each other today , it's been a while since we've seen each other , but he messaged me on Facebook than we texted and he said if i would ever be his girl , and i replied if he would be faithful than yeah . Than he said he'd call when he was out of work ... (219 words)

He broke up with me -- and is laying a guilt trip too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my boyfriend of over 2 years just broke up with me. I'm not sure how I feel... part of me wants to bawl my eyes out. But part of me feels calm and sort of relieved. I love him. But he's crazy. He's massively stressed out. He works too much and doesn't sleep en... (919 words)

I believe my best friend's boyfriend fancies me...what should I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

21 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my best friend's boyfriend fancy's me and I think I like him a little too. He always talks every opportunity to grab some part of me whether it be playfully hit or tickle or flirt a little for example today at lunch I felt someone's leg rest against mine, thinking it ... (201 words)