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reader, Serpico  +, writes (21 March 2013):
Guys think girls who are experienced are easier to gain another "experience" with.
For long term prospects, absolutely not, in fact, often quite the opposite.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 March 2013):
 I think it depends on what they WANT from said girl/woman. If they JUST want sex, then yes a girl with a lot of experience is seen as an easier "target". But GF-material, no.
Do go out and sex things up in hopes that boys will find you hotter or like you more.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 March 2013):
 I don't think so. Hopefully you are not doing things with boys just to do them or get a reputation.
Personally, IMO there is nothing wrong with waiting for a boy you really like to start experimenting with the physical side of relationships. IMO the longer you wait in high school the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2013): You have this backwards. Women usually find men's sexual experience more attractive. But the reverse is not true, men don't usually find more sexual experience attractive when it comes to women.
Sometimes it seems like men want experienced girls because they go after them a lot. But all most men really want with experienced girls is to give them more experience. When it comes time for a serious relationship that might have a future, the typical man will show a much different opinion about it. Especially once he is over his teen years.
Here is one thing you can bet on: In men's eyes, its always better for you to have erred on the side of too little previous experience than too much.
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reader, anonymus2012  +, writes (21 March 2013):
no, you will be labeled as easy or as a w**** be careful. guys usually dont like too much of experienced girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2013): You are very young and have alot to learn about life. However, I believe that you are wise enough to discern what is good and bad not just for you but what reality confirms in your personal human experience. I will leave you with this thought: It is always better for us to cut our own share of the cake ourselves than to let others cut our share for us.
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reader, LivingWithBadDecisions +, writes (21 March 2013):
 NOOOOOOOO!!!! sure the fantasy is a girl that knows what shes doing but i wouldnt want a girl to feel pressured into doing stuff just to make a guy like her. take your time sweety dont rush things because a guy wont respect a girl who gives it up easily and never stay with a guy who makes you feel like sexual inexperience is that important. it isnt that important because you can learn as you get older. its not something you need to know now.Cooper
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (21 March 2013):
No, far from it, especially at you age. Boys will talk and exagerate and the reputation you would get is not hot. Hot is when you look good, act confidently, yet let no one touch you.
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