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Archived questions from: 26 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do girls say this and then they end up liking me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old guy, senior in high school. I don't think I'm a bad looking dude, but def not a pretty boy. When girls see me at first, there are some girls that think I'm cute, some girls that think I'm ok, and some girls that think I'm ugly (which I can't understand cause ... (204 words)

I keep pushing men away. I don't know why!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Please help me. I keep pushing men away. I don't know why.... It's stressing me out. Every guy I meet I look for reasons why they are not right. I date them but don't let myself sleep with them. I constantly look for reasons why they are not right. The problem is the l... (177 words)

He had a private lap dance at his stag and now I'm having serious doubts about marrying him!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3744 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am getting married next week and I am having serious doubts. We have been to together 8 years (since we were 18) engaged for 5 and we have 2 children. We had a pretty much perfect relationship until his stag. About a week after he returned from his stag he admitted he had a... (225 words)

Is masculine energy in a woman attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I’ve become intrigued by this term masculine energy, the more I read about it the more I feel it describes me to a T. I am having trouble attracting a partner and beginning to think that this could be why. At the same time I need my masculine energy as I am a single parent to a ... (141 words)

Does she truly love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm victor, 22yrs old and i have a gal friend 20. I love dis gal so very much and i guess she loves me too. but ma problem is dat she does'nt come close to me...since i knew her i have never hugged her or kissed her, we don't even hold hands and she has never honoured any of ma ... (79 words)

He should be more concerned with whether I'm pregnant than with getting drunk

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i leave my boyfriend?. My boyfriend told me last night that he come over today while i did a pregnancy test. He text me earlier today, asking if i was going to have the baby, and i said yes. He also said that he would come over at 1.00pm, but he didnt turn up. He sent me ... (193 words)

Any tips for dating single fathers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've started dating an older single dad; I'm 25 and he's 35. He's got 3 kids and they seem to like me so far, and they're great kids. Just really want to know if anyone has any tips for dating single dads. I really do like him and do want this to work. I've never dated an... (65 words)

Accidental phone call leads to devastating news - he's getting married and has been engaged for 6 years! Now he's ended contact! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, plz i need your advice on this becoz i am going through the worst days of my life. i m an indian muslim girl, been in a long distance relationship with a pakhtun pakistani guy since 1 yr. we met online and deeply fell in love with each other.he promised me to marry ... (215 words)

Why does he behave this way? I really like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he behave this way? I really like him:(? There's this guy that I really like. He's constantly staring at me when I'm not looking and looks away and runs off as soon as I catch him looking. Sometimes he's the sweetest thing ever and other times he acts like a... (176 words)

My ex boyfriend wants me back should I get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend were dating in 2012 we were a really sweet couple all my friends taught we were a great couple. Then I dumped him because I caught him saying:" I love you and I want you back" to another girl in my estate. I asked him why he did this. He said it was a ... (153 words)

Fiance not into me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship with his daughter, ... (919 words)

I want to give him chance but my mind keep worry about my future with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm confused now and no one can I ask for help. No one understand me. I'm sad and depressed that I'm going oto get through this problem alone. Me and my bf were in love for the past 2 years. But now things changed, and we also changed to different personality comp... (315 words)

I want to make a family with him but I don't like how our relationship is on again off again. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a asian girl who fall in love with a europeian boy that younger than me 3 years , we met each other in my country and we definitely fall in love each other , we 're in relationship until 1 yr 8 months then see each other again ..because that time we both still studying ... (1136 words)

My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed faithful to her! I am lost, ... (80 words)

How can I get over my ex? He says he still loves me but didn't want a serious relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I had been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Nothing seemed wrong to me, and then completely out of the blue, he called me and said he thought that we should just be friends. He explained to me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationshio right now, which didn't make ... (125 words)

I asked about our relationship status and it comes out that he thinks we should just call ourselves 'friends'! I'm totally heartbroken, should I just say good riddance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for a little over a year now and everything seemed to be going well and the relationship was definitely progressing. Because we're long distance however we don't see each other as much as we'd like (but up until this point we have definitely seen each ... (769 words)

Should I just ignore my judgemental family until they learn how to deal with my choices?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a decent girl. 19 years old, never skipped a day of school, never had a grade bellow B-, never drank, smoked nor did drugs, rarely go out partying. Of course, I'm a teenager girl AND a college student, so sometimes (mainly in Summer) I spend the night outside. But when I ... (399 words)

Does he really love me at all? I think I should break up with him because he is not the same person anymore...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 22yrs and my guy is 26 plus we've been dating getting to 4 years, we both love each other very much, he calls, pays me visit at my place of work, he treat me well each time i pay him visit. each time i log in my facebook now if he is online he doesnt chat with me except i ... (175 words)

We've been friends all our lives, so why the sudden hatred? He is ignoring me and has even deleted me from Facebook....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So a guy I know since childhood has come to my life and started texting me daily, we were always platonic friends or shall I say neighbors, we live in 2 different countries so we texted for 3 months and clashed twice due to his insistance on going into sexual questions which ... (253 words)

Dating 2 guys at the same time and I don't want to hurt either of them! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well am 19 stil with my 1st boyfriend (from 16 and he was 19) we had our ups and down..he was cheating on me while i was loyal to him...we broke up after a year then i met another guy we fell in love ......then my ex came back to me and we dated till today so currently am ... (128 words)

Is it too much to expect that he at least acknowledge the gift?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I bought a really expensive gift for my bf and sent it to him. He received his gift today and i called him to check whether he liked it or not, even sent him a message. No response for anything. I called again and he yelled at me for calling him numerous time (i... (137 words)

Does the depth of a woman reveal if she was sleeping with another person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been having sex with my lady friend for over 15 years and I used to be able to hit the back wall of her vagina because she used to say it hurt when I went to deep we had broken up for a little while she said that she did not sleep with nobody but now when we have sex now ... (92 words)

Where was his chivalry? I was so disappointed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out on a date with a guy I met online..he is insanely hot,the pictures don't do justice,anywys when I saw him first I wasn't disappointed but I was really disappointed with his actions! Where is the chivalry these days?it seems dead to me! He dint open the car door for... (196 words)

I think we broke up yet it's not really bothering me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I texted my girlfriend/ex a few days ago to ask how everything was, no answer. I called, it went straight to voice mail. I called again a few hours later and it went to voicemail again. At first it distressed me that she was ignoring my calling but then as the time went by, I ... (339 words)

Is it right to trust your gut instinct about dating someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so some people are gonna think I'm mad for this post.. But is it right to trust your gut instinct? Basically about 3 months ago this man I was seeing just stopped speaking to me, no reason, no nothing, just didn't turn up one might when we were meant to meet and has avoided ... (215 words)

Working on things with my Ex but she goes round to another guys house

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes... Im not going to just show one side of the story here because this is all my fault... I split up with my girlfriend of 3 years in december 2012 because i thought i didnt love her anymore. I started hanging around with another girl 2-3 weeks after we broke u... (524 words)

Can a man tell me what a lady needs to do for some steamy sex from her husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need direct, honest answers, preferably from men. I love my husband and don't plan to cheat or divorce. I find him extremely attractive and he shows me love via copious amounts of affection and support. Our sex life on the other hand, is lacking. I know I have a ... (268 words)

I think he might have been the one. He's dating someone else now. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!! Should I tell him how I feel? 9 months ago I finished dating a guy I had been seeing for 14 months. I hadn't slept with him because I have always wanted to wait for the 'right one' also I was going away travelling for two months so didn't want to get into anything se... (209 words)

Nothing below the belt - My belt not his!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 28 year old female and I am a virgin (Vaginally and Anally), Although I have given a few (2 to count them) blowjobs I have never had the desire to have full intercourse and when the option has come up I would start to shake or even cry and had to ask my partner to ... (264 words)

Help! I want to break it off but it doesn't work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, i need help. ive been in an on and off again relationship with this man that tells me that he does love and honor me. i do see some truth in that but as our relationship went on he became controlling and very insecure. the whole dynamic of our relationship cha... (138 words)

How do I handle an annoying older co worker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, So I have a co-worker who is rather annoying and I'm not quite sure how to handle it. He is an older gentlemen (50s) who sits in the cubicle across from me. He is a nice enough person but will always walk over to my cubicle, ask what im working on (in a condescending ... (298 words)

Had a steamy text conversation with my ex-boyfriend's brother. Should I let my guilt win? Or could I take this further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently had very steamy text phone calls with my ex boyfriend's brother. We have liked each other forever. I want to act on it. But guilt makes us stop. I truly believe he could be everything I've been looking for. Should I move on? Stop dreaming? And just let it go?... (55 words)

Drunken one night stand with the friend of the girl I like. How do I discourage this girl nicely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, Firstly, I'm a 22 year old guy currently studying at University. Recently, over the past 2 months of so, I started chatting to and hanging out with a girl I'll call Rita on my course. We'd just do stuff like get coffee and talk, which would usually go on for hours ... (321 words)

Should I ask her again, go for it and make a move, or just give up on her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Not really looking for an answer, mainly here to vent, but any input would be nice. So I’m 21 and I met this girl, she’s 23 if that matters, from a mutual friend a few months back. I won’t lie, the moment I laid eyes on her, I was attracted to her. Since then, we became ... (575 words)

Crush on a Friend. What Do I Do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4257 days ago

26 March 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - Recently I've randomly developed a crush on my good friend. Now I want to see if she likes me too, but I don't know how to tell her I like her that way without making a fool of myself and ending our friendship altogether. What do I do?... (48 words)

How do I to stop feeling humiliated after being rejected by a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A year ago I had a thing for a friend. Everybody in our big circle of friends knew. People kept pushing us towards each other and a few people thought we were actually dating because we spent a lot of time together. For the longest time I thought he was giving me mixed signals, ... (424 words)

How is it I enjoy having sex with him, but when ever he tries anything else, I can't seem to enjoy it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

26 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - The first time my boyfriend tried pleasuring me, it was amazing, and I even had an orgasm. He continued after that point, and we both figured the irritation / discomfort I was feeling as he continued was because of over-stimulation. Ever since, whenever he tries to do it again, ... (119 words)