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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Men: Would you date a woman who won't give oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I do not like giving blow jobs at all. I could live my life quite happily never having to do it again because for me its not really a pleasant thing even if my partner enjoys it. I'd rather him miss out than endure my gag reflex telling me how horrorifying i find it. But with ... (131 words)

Why doesn't this guy just step up to the plate if he's interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been speaking to a guy for over a year now online. We met up once last year. We live in different states and are not committed to one another. However, we have spoken of a life together with no specific date set for anything moving forward. We are nlth single. He ... (266 words)

Should I settle down with my boyfriend even though I am not physically attracted to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He loves me a lot and wants to be with me forever. I'm not sure if i want to stay with him though. His character is great, loving, caring, clever, honest etc but i don't feel that sexually attracted to him. Firstly, O... (191 words)

Sex was bad with my ex. So why am I still fantasizing about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Sex with my ex boyfriend was horrible…we had no chemistry…I was shy to tell hm what I wanted and he was also shy. Since our break up, I still fantasize about having sex with him every single day and imagine this to be good sex whilst i know he kills me sex drive… and I am ... (73 words)

My fiance masturbates every morning and I just found out. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - we don't have sex alot, and i would like to but he always says no. but this morning i walked in on him masturbating and saw he does it every morning. He says he loves it when we have sex, but yet he still does this every morning... im really hurt and he is embarressed and i ... (88 words)

Met ex at a beach and received flowers. Are we meant to be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex saw me driving along as i was on my way to the beach. Then he turned around and found me at the beach and asked if I wanted to go for a walk. It was really nice, and I was going surfing, so he went back home and got his board and we were both surfing together like we used ... (359 words)

I can't keep up with the beauty regime and am afraid no one will like the real me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound ridiculous but basically, I can't keep a boyfriend because I'm too fake, because I'm so insecure. I've never had a long term partner, no one for more than about 4 months. People often call me attractive and everyone says i ooze confidence but t... (278 words)

My partner won't say he was breaking up with me but told his friend I was stalking him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner just upped and left and I don't know how to deal with it. We never lived together and the last few months had been hard as he had to move away for work - only 150 miles away though so we went from seeing eachother 4 or 5 times a week to once or twice a fortnight. I ... (260 words)

For mothers -- would you appreciate this sort of heartfelt message?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is more of a personal question than relationship wise. If there are any mothers on this website, this question would be for you! It's mothers day this sunday coming and I wont be home for it because of university, so instead I want to send something home to my mum. The t... (248 words)

Does this hug mean she likes me or is she playing games with my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So long story short (because this story is really long), 2 years ago we liked eachother a lot but she stopped liking me cuz I was ypung and really immature. So recently I tried to talk to her because I'm way more mature now, and I really like her. Idk how it was going but itt ... (218 words)

Is it normal to feel THAT miserable after ending a very bad relationship? What if the misery taints our own relationship? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - The situation is this: I got close with a female friend who at the time had a boyfriend. She wanted to make our relationship physical; we had very strong feelings for each other. At first I declined but, upon her insistance that her current relationship was practically over and ... (191 words)

What does it mean if a guy most of the time doesn`t answer but started texting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i like a guy, he went for a semster abroad, we was ill and I couldn`t tell him I like him so I texted him well I texted him a few times before on Facebook but he doesn`t keep the conversation going it was like I texted him, he texted back, I texted something, he didn`t reply ... (148 words)

I love two guys, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so, hey there :) Well... I have a boyfriend, and he's two years older than me and i really love him. The thing is, i love another guy too. I really love my bf but then when i'm with him, i think of the other guy that's not my bf. I know it's wrong but i don't want... (112 words)

You'll say "leave him" but it isn't that easy! I need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - History on my relationship. I've been with this guy for over 2 yrs now. At the beig inning of our relationship he was controlling and made me change how I dress until I put my foot down. He didnt trust me or anything and his excuse was cause his girl friend he had before be ... (759 words)

Am I gay now, if I had sex with my friend once?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod note: OP is a male. I'm a young man. Some time ago I broke up with my girlfriend, it was very hard and painful, because we had a long relationship, but I had to end it because she lied to me, cheated on me and did other nasty things. That evening I was feeling really down... (345 words)

How can I control my jealousy? He flirts with other girls.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - ok ill try to summarize my problem, i fell in love with my high school classmate he was kind of shy person and i had a complete trust in him but when high school was finished and we went to college every thing changed one day he took me to a very romantic place and told me that ... (242 words)

My guardian wants me to lie in my driver ed's log

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody I'm 17 turning 18 in June, I have a problem with my guardian, she doesn't take things seriously like I do. Ok so I'm almost 18 and still don't know how to drive, I take drivers Ed class but the teacher wants us to drive with an adult for 15 hours first th... (210 words)

I like this guy but think he has a girlfriend. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How could I have been so stupid:( I actually thought he liked me.? He'd watch me all the time and look away as soon as I look at him. Always friendly and chatty to everyone else but me. He'd stare into my eyes and I actually thought there was something between us. ... (305 words)

I made a mistake by cheating and boyfriend met someone. How do I get him back?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. Two years ago today I was dumped by my ex. We both did things to each other. I accept I made him insecure by constantly flirting with attractive guys when we went out, and by flirting on dating sites (which he always found out about). I did cheat on him, but I am not ... (204 words)

Suddenly he's started drinking and he's not like the Bf I know. How can I stop him drinking and getting out of control?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need help with my boyfriend. Let me please explain Few days ago he went to the club with his friends and he texted me that time and spammed me with kisses. He told me he got drunk with his friends that some girls gave him alcohol and his friends. So of course I let ... (242 words)

Can you please suggest some advice on productive and positive things I can do to deal with how I'm feeling about this betrayal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I posted a few months ago when I found out that the girl I'd spent three years talking to on the phone had sent me photos of someone who wasn't her. In the end, I kept digging, and found that things went a lot deeper. I ended things, but things were a little difficult a ... (258 words)

Is my friend's way of dealing with a break up the right way? Or could she be making things worse for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's an odd thing to ask, but my friend is trying to deal with a really bad break up and she's going about it in a really unusual way! She said instead of thinking what she did wrong, or wondering what happened and missing him and thinking about all their happy memories... (225 words)

Why is my husband playing games? I feel like crying when he does these things to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is very manipulative. If I'm listening to my music, and I walk out of the room to do something (like the washing). I'll come back in and find my music has been turned off. The lights are off. I ask him, what are you doing? His reply is, "I don't know what your tal... (98 words)

What does she mean by, "her feelings are just futile to me"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - 2 months ago I broke up with this girl, it's a complicated story of why we broke up and what happened. It didn't end well to say the least, but that's because of bad consideration on my part. Well, last night my friend saw her out and spoke to her and he asked if she stil... (145 words)

I do not know how to handle my wife's request. My wife wants to experience sex on a one on one basis with various partners.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Just want some opinions on an issue! I have been married for 20 years and love my wife very dearly; we have also been enjoying a swinging lifestyle for a couple of years now with no hang-ups. My problem is that my wife now wants us to have an open marriage as sh... (349 words)

Should I just leave him alone or tell him the truth? Because I do like him, even though I would not let him kiss me earlier.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently a man at work and I have been flirting, he bought me flowers and we went out for lunch with another work colleague. He went in for a kiss and I pulled away as we work together, but ever since I can't get him out of my head. But since I said no to kissing him, he isn'... (133 words)

What could I say to her to make her see sense? That not every guy is out to cause her hurt like her last boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend won’t give any guy a chance now, she's so afraid of getting hurt that she won’t let herself open up to another guy She was dating this guy for a long time and he did lead her on, he gave her false hope and expectation that she didn't know she didn't have. What's w... (836 words)

My Girlfriend and I just split up. She does have a lot on her mind. But how can I cope with this distressing break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Thanks for reading this, I really need some advice. My girlfriend of 1 year and a half has just split up with me. We have an amazing relationship, before christmas everything was perfect. One night before christmas, we were at her house and we got broken into as a man... (441 words)

How can I make new single friends? Everyone I work with or know is either married or engaged

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I make new single friends to go out with? I am 27 and got out of a 4 year relationship about 3 months ago. I now feel ready to get back out there and start living again, but all of my friends are in long term relationships and don't feel like going out dancing with me ... (211 words)

Will my married lover leave his wife? Or just keep me holding on to hopelessness?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen in love with a married man. He has not divorced her. Our relationship has been 3 yrs. I want to end the relationship but things keep getting better between us. She was in an accident last year and still in recovery. I am unsure if he is really going to leave ... (68 words)

Friday night? My Boyfriend of seven years has asked another woman to join us on our Friday night outring. Do I have a right to be miffed? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I being spoilt and a pain? My Boyfriend of 7 years has asked a fellow dog walker to join us on our regular and special Fri nights out. I am sure their relationship is platonic but one can never be sure . I have met her on a few occasions and she is OK but to me Fri is f... (137 words)

Out of control crush on my teacher is leaving me depressed. How can I deal with that and the jealousy I feel about anouther girl in the class?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been deeply in love with my history teacher ever since he joined my school last fall. He's in his late 20s I think and he's gorgeous with his cute long hair. This seems to be the problem. I have a huge crush on him and it's hurting me. I get super jealous when he ... (315 words)

With friends like this?? After I heard what my friends had said to him I don't feel comfortable continuing to see him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who has always been aggressive with guys and it worked out for her. I have done it as well but I have a lot of issues with trust so I don't do it anymore. Well, my friend who was tired of seeing me upset decided to help me. When we were out for a bacheloret... (190 words)

Since this girl arrived my friend and her only talk to each other. I feel left out. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a serious friendship problem. In our group another guy and I are best friends. And later a girl joined group and we became good friends with her too. Now all three of us all hang out together. But whenever they are together they just talk between themselves. The... (123 words)

Everybody knew about my boyfriend's pregnant girlfriend but me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and I just recently found out that not only has he been cheating on me for years but the girl is now pregnant. The reason I found out was because a friend of the family told me. When I asked him about it he denied it and got ... (143 words)

She keeps calling me by her ex's name.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has called me her ex boyfriends name four times now....why??? She was with him for a few years but was cheating with me almost the entire time. She meant me first but i wasnt ready to date yet and she chased me the entire time. SOMEONE HELP ME OUT!... (51 words)

Two years ago I was a jerk, and I still miss her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i had made a big mistake. there was a girl. we were good friends. i mean best friend until she went on to study to another city but we remain in contact and always texted and talked on phone.due to some issue we stopped talking.she said she have a boyfriend now and its not good ... (212 words)

He left me standing mid date, with no explaination.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my 30yo boyfriend were hanging out with friends at a coffee shop. He got a phone call (didn't see who it was), went outside to answer it. He never came back. We got there at 9:40pm, he got the call around 10:20. I waited, but my friends wanted to leave and I wouldn't s... (174 words)

On average, will a guy 55 or older find it harder to ejaculate a second time, during the same session?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

3 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm curious to know whether on average, an older guy, 55 years or so, will find it a lot more difficult to ejaculate again, after he's come once? He does get hard very quickly again, but he says there's not much feeling, so even with stimulation, he just doesn't come. But he ... (114 words)

My crazy ex claimed she was pregnant the day after we broke up!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I feel like I'm falling apart and desperately need some help and advice from others to help me piece everything together in my own head. So about 2 months ago I was introduced to a girl through a mutual friend who thought we might be good together. She seemed nice enou... (1453 words)

My partner is unable to maintain an erection.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - im 30 and got wit a man who is 36 and hes a virgin. everytime we try to have sex he just doesnt get hard enough to do anything and this has happened about 5 times now so need help thankyou.... (41 words)

Second-cousins dating -- we're afraid the family will have a problem with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

3 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing my second cousin for a little while now and we both have very stong feelings for each other but we are scard what are family and other people will think of us being together, its driving us both crazy and we dont know what to do.... Can you help?... (53 words)

What's my sexual orientation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

3 March 2013 (F) age 26-29 - Ok, so I've almost always identified as being bisexual (at one point freshman year i thought I was gay and for a few months in eighth grade I thought I was straight) But over the course of the last few months I realized something: I only like guys for their body/sex. I think ... (148 words)