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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I thought we loved one another not to give up on us but now my b/f doesn't know what he wants

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i been together for almost two years. we have had our trouble, both making big mistakes. things i wish i could take back. but he told me that he has forgave me. lately there been stuff going on with him and he is pushing me away. he says that he is going th... (212 words)

On a trip I had a drunken hookup, is it time to end things with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went away on a university trip abroad and (very drunkenly) hooked up with one of my classmates. I have a boyfriend of two years, and have been having doubts about the relationship for a while but cheating just further assured me - is it worth trying to reignite my ... (58 words)

I thought she loved me but she broke up with me saying I'm too angry all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi..im 19...ive been in a relationship with this girl for one year six months...we love each other or loved each other...she always says im angry all the time but its not my fault...my parents hate me...and im constantly being targeted by my siblings...in other words my life is ... (167 words)

Is my uni mate interested in me or just joking around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am getting mixed signals from a uni mate. We are both 19 and she is in an on and off relationship with a lad I have never met. She always says 'I wish you were my boyfriend' and 'aww, you're so cute', mainly because I can be a bit shy and spluttering. Then there's other ... (163 words)

Am I asking too much of people? I want to stay the way I am but I want to be valued as myself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the most craziest question to ever find on a love advice column... Right... I’ve loved Bollywood, bindis, mendhi tattoos, especially the jewellery and fashion and I love the karma sutra and their beliefs since I was a small girl. I try to be like everyone around ... (220 words)

I have a crush on my science teacher and I think me might like me too?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a huge crush on my science teacher mr m....... because, his irish, his only 23, he has nice blue eyes and brown hair, and he is really nice to me. i think that he might have a crush on me too because everyone else who he teaches has that his a horrible teacher cuz he s... (845 words)

My parents seem to intensely dislike my wife. My wife does have some "issues". How can I make things better for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My father and mother are not showing affection on myself since my marriage. They have misunderstanding with my wife in the years since my marriage Maybe a decade. I could not feel peaceful since I feel like my parents are against me and they are not even showing aff... (958 words)

What do her actions mean? After her refusal she told me to ask her again later. Should I ask her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - We just got out of a late class, and I asked her if she wanted to go bowling; she stated that she couldn't pay for anything at the moment, and it seemed she was thinking about it, then told me she has an hour's drive and couldn't. After that she told me to ask her again la... (91 words)

Two months no contact. Did she ever really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Help please, It’s been two months now I haven’t received a call or text from my girlfriend, we were together for three months, during the first month all was fine... Two months back she started complaining about having insufficient airtime which I don’t believe to be true, ... (112 words)

Is my hesitation about online dating justified? What must I keep in mind if I try online dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

22 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I have just come from a long term relationship of two years. I got over it but ran into a old friend and his new girlfriend, who took pity and bought me a couple beers. This other women was fantastic, good looking, smart and had a good sense of humour. I asked my friend ... (158 words)

Should I leave him? I can't get the bad memories out of my head!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I should leave my boyfriend of almost 4 years over this... (This is going to be long but please bear with me!!!) When we first started dating I was struggling very much with a deep depression and self-esteem issues brought on by my controlling ex. I hated my... (1187 words)

Should I keep seeing this guy? He doesn't contact me for 4 days and then addresses me by my friend's name?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure if I should see this guy again. (Or maybe I expect too much) I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. It is very casual. He has shown interest in me. He would text every two days or so which is fine with me. This week he didn't text me for 4 days. I normally ... (409 words)

He keeps saying he'll come see me, but it hasn't happened. He only works 2 days a week, couldn't he find time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now via text/couple of phone calls. We met during Christmas break, in person and started talking in a friendly/flirty way, by the end of January/beginning of February, things got a little bit more intense and our feelings gradual... (945 words)

How do I discourage my girlfriend's personal trainer or shouldn't she be doing that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age - My Girlfriend has a male friend (15 years) that used to be her physical trainer. He wants to train her again for free and has offered to train her to ber in fitness contests.I am a little skeptical about his part of the "friendship". He seems to text her EVERYDAY and my ... (125 words)

Should I have told my girlfriend that I've been with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am an m2f crossdresser and pass well as a woman. My girlfriend of 5 years is totally fine with my crossdressing and is really in to it to a point that she prefers that I crossdress when we go out. She recently asked me if I ever wanted to or had sex with a man. She explaine... (193 words)

Wife said she needed space. That was 4 years ago! Do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This is me and my wifes 2nd marriage, we've been together 22 years. married 13. when we met i was unfaithful, a couple of times freshly out of my first marriage by 3-5 months, kept going back sex only.\ now those transgressions are here was of 5 years ag. since then shes be... (393 words)

My personal trainer embarassed me in front of everyone in the gym, why did he do this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did he behave like that? I'm so angry and ambrassed? I was working out with my personal trainer and I'm kinda shy so I couldnt look at him straight so i was looking around the gym. and alot of changes has taken place there so I was just looking. He kept saying ... (213 words)

Advice for dating a younger man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have the opportunity to date a 26 year old man. The problem is that I'm 41. I've never dated anyone that young before. He is hot, sexy and we get along really well together. I'm very attracted to him. He really wants to date me, but I'm being hesitant. The age ... (224 words)

Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me, but I didn't mind since he... (657 words)

She's starting a new job soon so I want her to pay towards the rent and bills, how do I bring this up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So been with gf for 5 years most of long distances. Back in Aug we moved in together I own the house and she was going to pay rent for $250 Month. With her not makes much money I said hold on to it and when u get better job you'll be able to help. Its been 8 months and shes ... (97 words)

I love her but I'm emotionally drained, am I wasting my time? Should I put some distance between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a woman 16year younger than me. We get along most of the time but our bad times are or feel extreme. I have trust issues with her due to her deleting texts after snding and having multiple numbers under a contact e.g. she has my number under her moms name. I let the ... (150 words)

Are online conception date calendars accurate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Conception date. Are online conception date calendars accurate? I want to be sure. Can anyone help pls. I had a dating scan and a due date of 26th Sept 2013. With this info i got a conception date of somewhere between 31 Dec - 2nd Jan 2013. Would this be accurate? I am concerne... (90 words)

How do I confess to my wife and my children that I have had countless affairs and 3 children came from these affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age - im not in the best of health and im trying to find the lord and confess my sins. just not sure how to tell my wife who im separated from that i wasnt as innocent as she thought. we got married in the military had a son and daughter and i let her have flings with a woman so she ... (177 words)

If you were in my shoes, would you stay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i've been seeing a girl for about four months now. i'm very happy with her and we have a very healthy relationship together. she tells me she definitely sees a future with me and i thought i did, too. my problem is that she told me today that she's strongly considering appl... (209 words)

What is it going to be like when I have sex? Do men get more pleasure out of it than women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel really strange asking this and a bit odd, but i dont know were else i can get the answers im looking for. so im 18 and ive never had sex. i do masterbate ( sorry if this is uncomfortable for you, you dont have to read all the way through)the only time i feel good whi... (171 words)

Should I text him? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy online, he lives about 1.5 hours away by ferry. We texted pretty much everyday quite a bit for just over a month. He made a few comments about coming up for a weekend. This scared me because what if we did not hit it off and I was kinda expected to hang out with ... (182 words)

Who do I choose, my current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now almost a year n a half so i have an ex who is currently back in town. He is demanding to be back with me nevertheless i have moved on he is telling me that he does not care wether i make him a second best just as long as ... (99 words)

I can't STAND him when he's drunk!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy pretty regularly for about six months. We're not officially dating mainly because I don't want too and still consider myself single even though I haven't really hooked up with anyone else besides him. But basically my problem is that he's such an ... (313 words)

Would you continue to date a guy who you were completely emotionally compatible with but intellectually it's not quite there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Would you continue to date a guy who you where completely emotionally compatible with but intellectually it's not quite there???? I mean I love him but sometimes he says this that Make me think he's not intelligent. What so ya'll think?Physically and emotionally its ... (55 words)

Does anyone else share my fantasy for men that are much older than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old female, and I find myself fantasizing about much, much older men. They are normally well over 60, and usually the older or uglier they look, the more the fantasy turns me on. I'm not saying elderly men are ugly by default, but this is the shape of my ... (97 words)

Why am I still hurting from getting fingered a week later

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 yr old sophomore and my senior boyfriend who is 18. We really hadn't done anything else but make out. Until this year, last week was spring break and we went to the beach and we had talked about doing more than kissing but I ha no idea it would be this quick after we ... (231 words)

I'm pregnant and just found out my boyfriend cheated. What should I do now? I'm lost and just need to talk.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Today has been a bad day for me. I found out that my boyfriend is in jail again. I looked up his record because I was wondering why I have not heard from him in 2 days and that's how I found out. Its not like him to not talk to me for two days.Then his baby's mom emailed me ... (368 words)

Do you think the man I'm cheating on my husband is in love with me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having sex with him for three months. I'm married, he's single.I fell hard for him and he knows it. Despite knowing my feelings, he still wanted to meet me and have contact with me. He told me he'll never become attached to a married woman, and he'll never admitted it ... (163 words)

I've been texting with a guy I met online for a couple months...Is he just wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just getting back in to the dating game, and decided to sign up for an online dating site to meet new men. A couple months ago, this guy (I'll call him "Brad") emailed me and we started chatting. Then a week later, we exchanged numbers and started texting. The first week, ... (540 words)

Should I ask her out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - We just got out of a late class, and I asked her if she wanted to go bowling; she stated that she couldn't pay for anything at the moment, and it seemed she was thinking about it then told me she has an hour's drive and couldn't. after that she told me to ask her again later. ... (87 words)

My boyfriend told me he isn't himself around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is long, but please take the time to read! :) My boyfriend of 3 years and I are both 18. We both put everything into our relationship and have always had respect for each other. Anyways, he hasn't been getting very good sleep lately, so I don't know if he said ... (329 words)

I'd like to return his parents' kindness but he's telling me not to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend informed me a couple days ago that his mother is planning on giving me a basket for Easter. This will be the first time in ages since I got anything for Easter. My boyfriend doesn't get along with parents, especially his dad. Anyway, I mentioned that I wanted to ... (269 words)