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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I moved in with him after one month, realized it's a mistake then moved out. . .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my bf for 5 months. He is 31 and I'm 30. I am his first gf. We have lived together for the last 4 months. I know we rushed and moved in too soon. During this time he lost his job and i only work part time... So we ended up spending all our days ... (226 words)

Are we sexually incompatible or do opposites really attract?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm in a relationship with a guy(19) that I have known for 5 years(I'm 20). We started dating about a month ago and everything has been great. Well , last night we had sex for about 20 minutes. He came after 10 minutes and continued to have sex with me until I ... (311 words)

My boyfriend called me a hypocrite for watching porn

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm a horn dog. I like sex and enjoy masturbation. My boyfriend is the opposite from me. He enjoys pleasure however does not want to do it often. I tell him I don't want him watching porn, However I watched it yesterday night and he caught me. He is very angry and called me ... (191 words)

My friend is not talking after he got fired. Is he embarrassed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend from work got fired an I miss him. We would talk everyday at lunch and got on really well, then he got sacked I didn't hear about it straight away as I was on holiday but a week later a friend said he sent him a message asking him to pass his details on to me. He g... (155 words)

Is he no longer interested after the last awkward phone call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What has happened? I'm in medical school and it's really difficult to find guys that i'm interested in and that are also interested in me, not just for sex. I met this guy online and we were talking for a while and then I met him in person. The first time I met him, he was r... (356 words)

She says she's not interested in him, but I don't trust the guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age - I have been dating my current girlfriend for 4 months! Mostly terrific except one thing. She has a male personal trainer/ friend she has known for 15 years. They seem to communicate frequently but never in front of me. She has other male friends and her relationship with them ... (189 words)

My parents do not want me to see my little sister and she forgot who I was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been around my sister everyday since she was born in 2008, when I was 9. But when my dad came back into my life when I was 13 and got custody of me after 4 months I moved in with him. I visited my sister a couple of times a week and some weekends. But then in April of ... (204 words)

Should I move to be with him in a culture that will stifle me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I was living abroad the last 5 years and only this year i came back to UK, when i was abroad I met an Arabic guy and we developed a friendship, he is unlike the majority or Arabs he is kind of wild, out going and he loves a party as much as i do add to that he is ... (1046 words)

Will love ever find me with the fear of being abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am a single young woman raised three children on my own fell in deep depression after losing my first born daughter to natural causes I made it through by GOD's Grace. My second daughter has graduated and is now working. My son is the last one to leave he is ... (218 words)

It took him 14 months to tell me he loves me! Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) age 41-50 - Hi All, Its taken by boyfriend 14 months to fall in love and tell me. Is this normal and should I be concerned that its taken him so long? Thank you x... (38 words)

My husband's female friend is a bad influence on him and my family.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is my story. I hate my husbands best female friend. I dont know what to do i need advise since he refuses to get rid of either one. How do i accept this or do i just let go of him? she use to be my friend when we were kids. But when i was 17 and got pregnant I desided ... (298 words)

Which label do I apply to myself? Am I bi or lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - In the past, I've identified as bisexual. The thing is though, I don't like to date guys. (I mean maybe that will change, but he'd have to be pretty amazing.)I only find them attractive physically. When I've done things with guys, I picture a girl. And I won't give ... (116 words)

Is it natural to feel insecure about my girlfriend masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I recently discovered that my girlfriend masturbates and I asked her today, and she denied doing it... I've always felt a little uncofortable about my girlfriend doing it, because I always pleasure her first during sex, sometimes twice, and 80% of the time we stop rig... (196 words)

Do I tell my friend his wife is a pro?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age - How do I deal with my friend, his wife offered to prostitute herself to me. She said for $200. I can do anything I want to her. Should I tell my friend what she said to me? I'd bet this isn't her first time she's prostituting herself. No I didn't take her up on it and I feel ... (76 words)

He cannot keep an erection, what do we do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age - My husband is suffering from erectile dysfunction. He has been to many doctors, including a urologist, neurologist, , you name it. After many diagnostic tests, it seems that nothing physical can be found. He used to have full erections almost daily. Now nothing. Although he can ... (61 words)

A question of freedom, I like spending most of my time with my boyfriend and he always needs his space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What should you do when u like spending most of ur time with ur bf and he always needs his space? I m almost 4 years with my bf on distance relationship and we re planning on moving together this year. But what is concerning me lately is that even though i m much younger tha... (445 words)

What does this staring married man want from me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this married guy at the gym, now if he is happily married he really should not be interested in me or constantly staring at me. I try ignoring him it just does not work. I refuse to change gyms. What does he want from me?... (47 words)

Have you ever regretted your first time?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear aunts and uncles. Have you ever regretted your 'first time'? I'm a 17, soon to be 18, year old dude that is thinking about losing his virginity. When I hit puberty i never virginity or sex in particular was ever going to be a concern for me. I thought that I w... (169 words)

IS this modeling agency on the up and up? They asked me do do some rather risque things?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im really stuck! i need help. i have been contacted by a modeling agency asking if im interested in modeling. i am and i always have been i would love to be a model. The only thing is she told me i had to do my audition on skype on a web cam in order to filter through ... (248 words)

Should I interfer in the way my boyfriend and his ex wife handle their daughter? She's a spoiled brat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a 17 year old daughter from his ex wife,he has introduced me to her and now that I know her I feel she's quite the brat!she has a very expensive taste just like her father!at the age of 17 she has been gifted a mercedes,an iphone 5,a dior bag,a chanel ... (222 words)

6 months ago my friend admitted that she likes my boyfriend. I think she still does. Do you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) age 30-35 - When me and my new boyfriend starting going out, I was optimistic and promised myself i won't fall for any lies and get hurt again like I did in the past with other guys. But another girl also liked him, (an old friend of mine), and she openly admitted it to himeven though she ... (245 words)

How do I impress a man who is 10 years older than I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I need some advice. I'm 21 years old, law student, and mature for my age, I've always been. Like a few years ago, a young litigator move into house next to mine and since then, I've got a huge crush on him. He works with my father who is a lawyer so I see him in... (176 words)

How to accept my gay boyfriend's son

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My "100% gay" boyfriend used to be in a relationship with a woman and had a son with her. How can i accept this child? It's testing me apart that now WE can never have that first child experience. What do i do? And please don't say "get over it" -- that type of advice ... (66 words)

How to test my gf for being a sociopath

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I can't really tell if my girlfriend is a sociopath or not, I know all the symptoms and read ALOT about the subject but I can't tell if in emotionally in denial or maybe she just had a bunch of bad boyfriends in her passed and has always been a bit of a spoiled brat who ... (199 words)

I found out that my ex slept with his ex while we were apart and he lied to me about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I already made a research on this topic, tried some of the advices that other people post on random forums, blogs, etc, but non of this actually helped. So, here's the thing, and I'm hoping You have something clever to say, or some tips if you have been in similar/... (510 words)

I'm worried about what will happen to our relationship if my b/f is prescribed anti depressants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted something a few days ago, asking how to help my boyfriend who's been going back and forth with the choice of majors at his Uni. I said I was worried about his attitude toward it rather than the choice itself and today I had a confirmation of my suspects. His mother ... (371 words)

Is this girl shy or just ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - There's this girl at my school who i can't understand if is shy or just ignoring me. About a month ago we started chatting on FB and in the beginning we chatted a lot and got to know each other. I was starting the conversations every time. Slowly the conversations became more ... (248 words)

Girlfriend won't have sex with me and now won't see me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (M) age 36-40 - I'm 26 plus n my girl friend is 22plus we 've dating getting to 4 years now,each time she pays me visit she refuse me to touch her breast,boob,kiss she prefer hug. The last time she visited me i tried all i could to get her to have sex wit me she refused. I asked why she ... (133 words)

Any home remedies for my skin irritation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is not relationship related,but I would love to here agony aunts remedy to my skin problem My skin has been very irritated lately,its become really dry and I have these red boils.and none of these market beaUty products help,my skin reacts better to natural home mad... (60 words)

Would you marry a guy who never went to college?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Currently less than 40% of men will graduate from college, that's 140 women with college degrees for ever 100 men with a degree. at best its expected to get worse, on top of that jobs traditionally held predominantly by men are evaporating at an alarming rate so that means ... (82 words)

She says she can tell lies about other guys as she is not my wife!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been dating since 2 years. my girlfriend wants us to be engaged and then married. i have found her to be on dating sites many times and text messenging guys on different phone numbers. she always told lies about it, but now said that it is true that she did. she has said ... (100 words)

I am wondering if I should give up or take a risk and chase her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this one girl lately since for the last two months, and she and I have been having fun a lot of fun. We started off with coffee, and went toward sharing a pizza in the park, to getting movie tickets on Valentine's Day... and also getting tickets to a Live ... (422 words)

I'm worried about my boyfriend and our future he's cheated and I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both 24. He's caring and patience. I've been thinking for long time about our relationship as things doesn't go right lately. He cheated on me twice in the first year when we were on long distance relationship ( n... (387 words)

Boyfriend constantly belittles me during arguments!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating off and on for two years but he seems to belittle me in every arguement we have. I think when Im right in the arguements he feels like thats what he can do to make me feel bad. I love him so much but its getting a little frustrating and to ... (84 words)

I don't want to be his rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Rebound or what? I started dating this guy 3 weeks ago and he seems to really care about me he's been with me almost everyday for 2 weeks. Today he got highly pissed because he found out his ex cheated on him and never told him he talked to me about it but I feel kind of awkwa... (99 words)

Is there a way to know if you're ready for marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was best friends with my boyfriend for 4 years before we started dating. We've been together for a little over a year now and I'm due with our first child in about a month. My boyfriend wants us to get married but I'm worried about being ready. I'm not scared to commit m... (145 words)

My father won't approve of my white boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dearcupid, I am a black 15 year old girl and I have a 16 year old boyfriend who is white. My mom and dad said that I am not allowed to date until age 16 but my b-day is only a few months away so that's not a problem. The real problem is the fact that we are from two diff. e... (206 words)

I'm worried that this girl might start flirting with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone I apologize in advance for this being long but I need some serious advice. I'll just start off by saying I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two years with a really amazing person. We are both around the same age and he means a whole lot to ... (605 words)

I've been fantasizing about my boyfriend's brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now and recently had a baby 5 months ago. I love him so much and he means everything to me. Like all couples we have our ups and downs but lately its been on the rocky side. Just problems with his family being too ... (347 words)

Is there more to this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I made friends with this girl last year, and everyone in the school thinks that we like each other. And a part of me thinks we do to. The two of us will bicker on and on, we will insult each other to no end, but all in good fun. We never try and hurt each others feelings, ... (244 words)

How can I diplomatically distance myself from my overbearing mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice about my overbearing mother. I'm 23 years old and have always been controlled by my mum to a certain degree. Through out my childhood, I was held back from doing the things other children were doing for fear of me getting hurt. As a teenager, if I went o... (971 words)

Should I warn this friend what my ex is like or just stay out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

5 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating a guy he bad mouthed everyone including me. talked about himself all the time he had narcissistic personality disorder. - be cruel to me at times i had to suffer through a lot emotionally he never would change. right now ia m in therapy it's hard- he was ... (292 words)

Would it be alright to date my father's much younger ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My question: is it okay for me (male) to sleep with my father's ex girlfriend? How would look on my side and her side to other people? How can we (me and my dad ex ) get pass this and move on with are lives together? Background: my dad is in his late 50s divorced from m... (522 words)