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*ennyboyca
writes:Hi guys, I'm in abit of a dilemma and really need some advice....I have seen a girl around, I dont really know her that well but I've spoken to her a few times when I've seen her out. She's an artist like me and when we've spoken, there seems to be a strange bond somehow.. I saw her out on Sunday night and we were talking about an exhibition that I've been asked to do in the USA, she was telling me how much she likes my work, and was telling me about a local one that she's got coming up next month.I keep thinking about her and earlier on, I was listening to the song 'Something' by The Beatles, the words really remind me of her, and so I posted a link to the song on my Facebook wall and she 'liked' it....The thing is, she's kind of dating someone (not for that long) but I'd like to tell her that I like her, what do I do???? And if I do say something, what should I say?Thanks in advance for your advice.Ben.
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reader, bennyboyca +, writes (21 March 2013):
bennyboyca is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :) x
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reader, Rosy2011 +, writes (21 March 2013):
Do it. It could turn out to be an amazing relationship. If not - what have you lost? It's an experience anyway.
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reader, malvern +, writes (21 March 2013):
 What you do is this - you continue to chat to her, as you have been doing already, about art and songs and anything else you care to chat about. Build up a friendship with her. A lot of good romances blossom from friendships. If she's interested she'll start interacting with you more and more. She'll probably start thinking about you a lot and she may come to a point where she decides that actually she'd much rather be with you than with her current boyfriend. You can't rush it, you'll have to be patient. Not everything in life is instant and often the best things are worth waiting for.
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reader, bennyboyca +, writes (20 March 2013):
bennyboyca is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo what do I do? What do I say??
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reader, oldbag +, writes (20 March 2013):
Yes
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 March 2013):
 It's your call.
so here's the deal if she's dating him and she dates you and does not tell him... you do realize she could do the same to you.
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reader, bennyboyca +, writes (20 March 2013):
bennyboyca is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf I was dating, it wouldnt be 'love' and if the person wanted to be with someone else, I wouldnt want to stand in their way.
My question is, do I say something or not?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (20 March 2013):
Hi
She's dating.
However, you could turn up at her exhibition next month..she has told you about it after all.....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2013):
Ben,
if you were kind of dating her and someone who really liked her came along and said they liked her the way you do what would you want her to do?
how would you feel?
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