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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he love me even though he says he doesn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Last school year my friend and I began to hook up. After he graduated he left for an internship across the country and left me in our hometown. While he was there he would say I miss you etc... When he came home before going to college we hooked up and that was it, we were off... (114 words)

Is it a good idea to allow my boyfriend to sleep with other girls while I'm away at College?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm eighteen years old and about to go to college. The problem is that my boyfriend doesn't want me to go, because he hasn't finished high school yet. I think it will take him three years to finish, and I don't want to go to a community college that's bound to shut ... (304 words)

Should I just ask him to leave my house and be civil for our son or should I try work on things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm mortified my partner has gone away for a weekend with a mate we have chatted every day like normal and made plans to go on a mini break together Except tonight he sent me a message asking me if we are meant to be together I asked him why he was asking that and he said... (269 words)

Is it hopeless or could he ever truly love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am absolutely heartbroken because I've found the person who I know is meant for me, and I know in my heart that I love him more than I'll ever love anyone. He's divorced (I know this for a fact) and has a little boy with his ex wife. I understand that his son needs him, ... (461 words)

Should I just try to play it down, make fun of it, blame it on being drunk and try to keep some of my dignity? Or should I try to be honest and say I put a little more feeling into all this than her, even if that will make things awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - On saturday I went to my best friends place, she's a very attractive woman, she's straight and has a boyfriend, but she knows I'm bisexual and single. We got drunk and I already felt like she was flirting. Then we went to a party and she started to dance towards me very closely ... (391 words)

Any advice on how to handle seeing my player hookup on this very small campus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, It's almost since a year since my ex-fiance broke up with me. I have only dated one guy since then and decided to stop it before it went too far because I couldn't get over my ex. I am a senior in college and have liked this guy on one of our sports teams for a... (411 words)

I feel like my boyfriend has double standards!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Today was Easter and my boyfriend left me alone. Though I am not religious at all, it's a holiday and we had agree to at least see each other (actually, he even got a bit sad when I said I'd spend the day with my family, instead of with him). He is MIA for 3 days. Yesterday ... (395 words)

I've just found out he has a baby son! He never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy casually for nearly a year and a half now. I am developing strong feelings for him but now I have just found out that prior to meeting me he got a girl pregnant and had a baby son. I found out from one of his friends not him personally as he has never ... (138 words)

I told her I needed space and now I find she's been having sex with the husband of one of her friends! I'm shocked!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 years and recently I told her I needed some space because I am currently in school trying to finish my degree in Respiratory therapy which has been extremely stressful. We still see each other once a week and talk everyday and continue ... (293 words)

I agree to trying for a baby, then I panic and I just don't think I can handle it! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I hope this question is going to make sense, my heads a mess and I'm struggling to make sense of it all to put to you. But basically what it is, is that me and my partner discussed having a baby about 3-4 months ago, now we are in a very stable, loving, long ter... (227 words)

Should I pursue this or drop the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Oh man this is a rough one. I hope someone can steer me in a better way of thinking! My current girlfriend, whom I have been seeing roughly 6 weeks messed up majorly. Now don't get me wrong, I really do love her. It was an instant feeling, and it scares me. She is a former ... (267 words)

Girlfriend wants space but I don't get mine.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Please be honest and tell me if I'm being unreasonable. Today my girlfriend told me that she wanted some space to spend with her friends, etc. I completely understood and said that that was absolutely fine. I left her at hers and went about my day. Later she sent me a mess... (287 words)

Why do girls stay friends with some of their ex boyfriends but not all of their ex's?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do girls stay friends with some of their ex boyfriends but other they just decide they don't want anything to do with anymore for no reason and he never did anything to deserve that?... (35 words)

Can I get my girlfriend back even though she doesn't want anything to do with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever wanted their girlfriend back when she didn't want anything to do with you and got her back? If so, how, because I really love my ex and she doesn't seem to like me at all for no reason and I would do pretty much anything to get her back? ... (60 words)

My married friend's husband keeps calling me! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone! I first wrote for help here 3 years ago with the same problem and it is still going on. My friends husband used to ring me over and over again late at night begging me to talk to him or ring him back. Sometimes he would text. This would happen around the 3 4 o... (314 words)

How can someone walk over you and leave like you don't exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Why does someone think that it is ok to just walk into someones life, make him love you, and then just leave and not want anything to do with you for no reason?... (33 words)

Does a teacher know when a student has a crush on them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know????? No biggie, my friend does... (38 words)

I don't know how to play the game of being chased

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with being pursued by men/boys. I don't know what is wrong with me but I don't know how to let a man/boy pursue me and work for me and my attention. It causes problems because I always drive away the boys that I like because of my impatience and the lack of the ... (82 words)

I think I made a mistake by judging his past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell head over heels in love with a man.He was 10 years younger than me. He was a serial cheater. Cheated on his exwife cheated on his ex girlfirends and cheated on his last girlfriend to be with me. It was perfect for 8 months. I knew he was going to ask me to marry him. ... (557 words)

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at college and sat next to each other. ... (488 words)

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed with it. I see him all the ... (203 words)

He said "I love you" after only 2 weeks and it has really freaked me out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend told me he loved me when he was drunk after 2 weeks...? It really freaked me out and I said nothing back. Should I confront him about it and tell him I don't think love is possible until about the 6 month mark and that it made me feel uncomfortable; o... (66 words)

What are the chances he'll come back home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Need advice please..sorry it's a bit long but l prefer to explain fully..... my husband and l have been married 14 years this year, back in 2007 he had an emotional affair with a woman who was supposed to be my best friend..(all 3 of us worked together at the same company,... (668 words)

Me and my best guy friend almost kissed last week!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my guy bestfriend almost kissed last week. I don't know what to do. Im starting to fall for him and idk what to do. He askked me who do i like. I tolod him i like you a little bit nd then i asked him who do u like? and he said no1. Im confused i dont know if he was just ... (87 words)

I love him , he loves her, she doesn't love him . Can he love me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I love my friend for One year i know him, he's so shy and a very good person he is kind to everyone ,i never met a person like this . So i told him that i love him more than anyone else , he keep silent . After one month i discovered that he's falling in love with our... (229 words)

Why would he buy a packet of condoms (when sober!) and suggest sex after telling me he wanted me to respect him more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So yesterday I was kissing my boyfriend with tounges in a public place and kissing on his neck and he was like "please don't put your tounge in" so I apologized and he cornered me and told me how I was going too fast and he wanted me to slow down because I'm his first ... (202 words)

I know there's plenty of fish in the sea but I want this cold fish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) age 30-35 - So there's a (busy) guy, we met at university; we're in student council and other organizations. I know him for 5 months, and after 3 months, I got feelings for him. I told him I liked him (which he already knew as we flirt). He told me he had feelings too, but does n... (410 words)

I think I set my standards too high for girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, I feel like I have a very odd problem. Now, I've never been great with girls, the only time I've ever slept with people is when it pretty much falls right into my lap, like I've never done a huge graft for it, so I feel like I lack confidence in that respect. B... (278 words)

What is vanilla sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi What does people consider "vanilla sex"? How does mostly practise it and do you find it unattractive or not excited?... (22 words)

I want to see him again but things got awkward. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - last night i met a boy who i have mutual friends with at a club. it was a big group of us and we got off. but he was really sweet holding my hand and talking as well for most of the night. the thing is despite hinting he wanted to meet again, things got awkward at the end when ... (87 words)

How do I tell my partner nicely that I don't like what he does without even asking me if its alright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a difficult situation so please bear with me and read it all. My partner and I have been together 4 years, we have gone through alot together, his mum passed away and we took on her home/debts/ money etc. We have only just started to get Our lives back on track, ... (610 words)

Who do I chose? My g/f or my best female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months. and she gave me promise ring but I havent seen her for almost 3 weeks cause her car broke down and then got sick from her a bff female and the kids. But I have a bff female that we have been for each other for nine mon... (161 words)

My man's mega spend on liquor. How can I address this casually while still voicing my concerns?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband enjoys drinking beer and will have 3 cans most nights and more on the weekend. I have just discovered the supermarket has an offer on and he has went and bulk bought spending almost £350 on beer. I'm quite alarmed to the point of sick with worry. Im sure it will... (86 words)

My deployed Bf does not trust me anymore. How can I make things better between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey , I have been with my deployed boyfriend one year and half . We had a great time sure it were a lot up and downs like everyone else. I do love him so much and want to work out things . It just he seems still hurt from his past... And he doesn't trust me please help... (62 words)

How can I get this boring clingy guy to leave me alone? I'm not interested in him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. This friend of mine will not leave me alone. I think he's obsessed with me. He asked me out but I turned him down because he is just not my type and to be honest he's boring and clingy. Since then everything I have said that I'm doing he asks if he can come wit... (250 words)

I'm shy and have a big crush on a guy at the store. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a big crush on this guy at the store I want to ask him to lunch but I'm so shy I told him he was really funny after never spoke to him again and ever since he stares at me when I walk by I turn so red and he talks t everyone but me I'm lost ... (61 words)

Does eye contact mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - What does it mean when a guy gives you eye contact when he walks past you? Does it generally mean that he finds you attractive (Do guys normally give girls eye contact when they find a girl attractive)?... (38 words)

Fear of rejection keeps me from asking him out to lunch

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a guy who works at the market I only spoke to him once an basically said he was really funny ever since never spoke to him since now everytime I walk by he stares at me an I turn red an look away also he talks to everyone but me I like him he's funny an I want to ask ... (93 words)

What is really going on with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4281 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a few months back through mutual friends. We after a couple of times hanging out, he asked for my phone number. Now he has become one of my good guy friends. We text pretty much everyday. When we go out he always checks to see if I got home okay. I have al... (264 words)

Why does she play this game of drawing my attention and then ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone so here it goes, 6 Months ago I fell in love with this girl to this day I am still in love with her, I used to obsess about her and when I finally became friends with her things started to get better but then I told her I liked her she avoided eye contact smiled w... (168 words)

When should I tell my therapist of my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been to my college's counseling services for about 2 and 1/2 years now, and have developed a strong attachment to my therapist. It took a long time for me to trust her, but now I know that she truly cares and won't judge me. Part of the reason that I started seeing her ... (347 words)

Nothing seems to make her cum, she won't tell me what she wants, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

31 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so my sex techniques aren't good enough for my girlfreind . Before you over look this as me not going down on her or lacking basic no how, let me explain in detail. I have been with 8 women and made 3 of them cum (squirt, and p***y clench). My first girlfreind left me ... (337 words)

How can I get out of this rut? And How can you like someone when you don't really know him, and when you can't speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya Im not really sure what answers Im looking for but Ill try and make some sense! Im nearly 21 and Ive never had a boyfriend, kissed a boy etc. I'm also overweight but am in the progress of losing weight :) I feel constantly like I'm not good enough for anyone ... (315 words)

Should I be worried that he's still not over his ex yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sexually attracted to each other al... (391 words)

We've shared kisses on a regular basis. What do the "looks" she gives him, when he flirts with me, mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It started around 4 months ago. I went to my best friends house for a few drinks as it was Christmas Day and it's tradition, only this year her friend came and we started talking straight away. He is the same age as my best friend (20) two years younger than myself. Nothing ... (296 words)

Whenever he sighs 'I love you' I think of him saying that to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, whenever i'm with my 10 month boyfriend having sex and he sighs "i love you" i instantley remember a situation that happened between him and a girl he once slept with before me, in which he sighed to her "i love you" and she said that's a lie, so he said: "yes it ... (231 words)

I just want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so I'm almost sixteen, the only serious relationships I've been in have had to be secrets cuz the guys were older than me. I've done everything but have sex. Now I seriously want a real boyfriend! Problem is is that I can't find anyone I like. My standards are not even... (106 words)

My partner says I'm too heavy for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - We cannot have sexual intercouse because my female partner has told me that I am too heavy for her. What is the best way to lose weight? Is it a good idea for me to go to the gym? Has this been a common problem for other couples when having sex?... (57 words)

What is the best way to handle our rude friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in an awkward position with a family that we have known for quite a bit. Recently we started doing more outings together as their little boy grew up, and they are more free with their time. Both husband and son act very strange when we invite them over or when we go o... (1103 words)

Should I keep that little place in my heart for him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to date O years ago he was sweet and we had known each other since we were just 6. We lost contact and I met M who messed me about constantly but I was young and in love. He dumped me for someone else. O asked me out again I said yes but at the time was heartbroken ... (288 words)