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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is jealousy a way of showing that you care?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is jealousy a way of showing that you care? I'm just wondering if acting jealous is really someones way of showing you that they care about you, and your well being. My bf is not jealous at all, he doesn't mind who I am friends with, who I talk to, or what I wear...or anythi... (149 words)

Why does he joke about me being with other fellas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male friend who i have been getting close to the last couple of months. We talk almost every day texting and have kissed a few times. Kind of like a slow burner which is ok. However something that is bothering me is that he keeps joking about me being with other... (152 words)

Why is he calling me to ask how I am after weeks of silence?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. I fell out with my bf around 5 weeks ago. I.'d had enough of the arguments and his silent treatment. I was upset,but sat it out,and did not ring him,and decided that was it for me. Anyway, he tried to ring me a couple of days back. I did not answer,as i'd come a long ... (159 words)

My boyfriend's pornography use makes me feel insecure

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hello I am in a relationship of a year and i love this guy we get on and everything is pretty excellent, but he is a boy of 16 years so porn is something he tends to induldge in and i hate it, the thought of him getting turned on by someone skinnier, prettier and has a better e... (168 words)

Girlfriend broke up with me when she is grieving! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have read lots of different stories on here, and I feel like id like to vent, and also be able to have some people to talk to and for you all to give me advice, I would like to keep you all updated on every stage, and will come back regularly, so that peopl... (977 words)

My girlfiriend is going to prom with another guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - We argue about this all the time because I don't want her to go with him but since I found out I might be able to go to prom she told me no that since she already made plans with him she won't go with me her BOYFRIEND and this kills me inside I don't wanna sit here and look... (280 words)

Old trust issues rising up due to weird computer file corruptions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question, more of an issue, that I need help with... any advice is greatly appreciated. My fiance and I have been together for 2 1/2 years and we have a fantastic relationship. I know he's the one for me and I know he feels the same. The start of our relation... (489 words)

I had anxiety after breaking off an abusive relationship and it's now affecting my current relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 16 I had a relationship with a boy. I took it seriously although it was just a game for him. He wrote me and saw me very rarely, although when we saw each other he behaved like a true gentleman. After 7 months of our relationship he physically abused me. I didn't ... (337 words)

Considering getting back with ex who cheated. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, this is a very sensitive issue, and well I would really like some advice, i'm in a very emotional state atm so please don't be too harsh guys :L Recently, i've been thinking that I could get back with my ex. ... (667 words)

Is she trying to get me to notice her, or just treating me as a brotherly figure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - A uni mate of mine (girl) is giving me (guy) a few weird vibes and I have grown to fancy her a lot. When she was dating her boyfriend (who's now history) she'd always say 'Aw, I think I love you' and 'I wish he was like you'. Other signals were 'do you wanna get married? You're ... (168 words)

My teacher has scary, piercing eyes and I have trouble keeping eye contact.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i really can't keep eye contact, extremely bad at it. When teachers talk to me they make eye contact, and I can't. There's just this one male teacher I suck at making eye contact with, it's just he knows im shy. This teacher has "stare" while talking and it just freaks me out. ... (200 words)

It's either arranged marriage for me or cutting ties with my family. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I come from a traditional indian family as many of you know the rules here are set on stone and you can't dream of changing it! I'm a hopeless romantic and someday want to be loved and 'in love'..I never really had a real relationship but I have dated a few whic... (236 words)

My fiance is a widower and has a daughter. Mother in law is interfering too much on child rearing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now,he has a child from his late wife who died in a very tragic accident years ago!so the family has suffered a lot! Now the late wife's mother doesn't really like me,she thinks I'm taking her daughter's place..we are going to get m... (258 words)

We break up constantly but I find it hard to walk away for good because of my young son, and bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for over four years, we have a son together who is 2 and half years old. for the last two years all we have done is split up, we have split up well over 300 times! the only reason i have stuck with this man is because of my son, and that he helps pay ... (210 words)

Broke up over a month ago from an on and off relationship but still can't move on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help. I am a 29 year old male and I was in a relationship with a 21 year old female. I met her about a month after ending a flash in the pan 3 month relationship and when I met her, I tried to go slow for both our sakes. I was her first everything, and I really t... (603 words)

I fell in love with a boy who lives faraway but only communicates on facebook.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - SO .. I'm in love with a guy .. he's not from my school and he lives near my city ..i see him about 4-5 years and now i started to have feelings for him.. those feelings are very strong it's the first time that im in love like this ..i added him on facebook before 5 or six ... (146 words)

Should I be concerned that my LDR boyfriend doesn't text or call me as much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a single mother of two. I've been single for 4 years and while i have went out on dates, I never found anyone that I thought I could have a future with. Here's the thing I met a guy about a month ago, he is really sweet a respectful to me, we have the same values in ... (195 words)

I cheated with my housemate but didn't know how to break up with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I realized that I'm unhappy about a year ago, at the beginning of this year I moved into a house with a whole bunch of students because I started college. I started falling for one of the guys I stay with,I eventually couldn't take ... (496 words)

My boyfriend doesn't know how to kiss and is not interested in any form of intimacy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Though the relationship is only new, me and my boyfriend get on really well. However, there is one problem. He really can't kiss and I'm his first. I got out of an 8 month relationship about 2 months before I started dating him, however. But the new guy just can't kiss! It... (139 words)

My husband lies a lot and I need help before it ruins our marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 5. About 2 years ago he told a really stupid lie and it took me a while to trust him. If a friend lies to me I completely cut them off but marriage is a life time commitment so obviously very big learning curve for ... (834 words)

I have a FWB, he has a girlfriend but still tries things on me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have this guy friend back home. I used to be crazy about him, but when i found a bf i stopped. Lets call the guy L( the one back home). L broke up with his gf when i did with my bf. Both of us cheated on our bf/gf with each other. We became FWB. Everything was c... (477 words)

Am I her rebound? Is there anything I can do to improve the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a woman about two months ago. After a couple of dates, it was obvious that I was attracted to her and she was attracted to me. We talked, kissed, got physical after a few more dates, saw each other almost every day, started doing full day things, etc. We spent the night a ... (672 words)

Perfect LDR Relationship suddenly falling apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am from Toronto and currently in a online relationship with an absolutely amazing man from Florida. We met at a dating site and we clicked immediately after talking for 3days. He told me "I love you" on the third day. i was a bit confused because it is very early to tell ... (597 words)

My boyfriend pressured me into sexual things and I don't know why I always gave in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I dated this guy last year, and I had only known him for 2 months when we started dating. I was completely innocent when we started dating, and he had a lot of sexual experience with girls before me. At first the relationship started steadily, but then he started rushing ... (220 words)

How should I go about initiating a conversation about sexual intimacy with a fairly recent virgin boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How should I go about initiating a conversation about sexual intimacy with a fairly recent virgin boyfriend? I want to know how he feels but I don't want him to feel awkward from the beginning of the conversation as that may have an effect on how he feels about sexual intimacy... (90 words)

Why does he treat me like this? He keeps going back and forth.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and met this guy a year ago. He wanted to hang out and I said ok. We got to know each other and I thought we had a lot in common. I have never fallen so hard for a guy...ever. He kissed me on the third time we hung out. When I had to leave he didnt want me ... (709 words)

Boyfriend grounded. Guardian won't let me visit him or hang out with friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everybody I'm really sick and tired of my so called guardian... She makes my life a living hell, I'm 17 Turing 18 in 3 months and my boyfriend is 16 turning 17... She doesn't let me do nothing, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and I've been to his house ... (240 words)

I have no experience -- help me read the signs that might tell me she wants me to make a move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i have met this girl through a mate and we are kind of getting with each other privately just to see how it goes, we allways get off with each other, snog and stuff, but i would like some advice on taking it further... im still a virgin so obviously have no experience, she ... (233 words)

How do I shut off my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I find myself getting attached to a girl. I've never felt this way, literally. She is so unique and different from any other girl or person I've ever met. She is so kind and makes me curious to know more about her. She is the most wonderful person in my life. She has shown me a ... (150 words)

Married man was flirting with me but now he tries to ignore me. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1402 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Please don't judge because of what I am going to tell you. I have been flirting with an older married man and he has been flirting back. Long eye contact, a lot of smiling back and forth and all kinds of other things. He is always watching me and starting ... (284 words)

Are women put off by skinny guys?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a skinny lad and I was wondering is this a turn-off? I mean I know some girls like guys to be teddy bears but is there really any market for us skinny guys? I'm 5'11"/180 cm and 143 pounds/64 kg and feel as though I'm not bulky enough for women to have enough faith in me to ... (85 words)

Should I leave my alcoholic boyfriend? At times he blacked out and acted evil.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age - My boyfriend Max and I have dated for seven months. I thought he was the "one." He was always very attentive, we have wonderful fun together and we spend lots of itme together. As the relationship progressed I noticed that each time we went out to party, it usually ended in ... (269 words)

We have two young kids and my husband is hiding and deleting texts to a 17 year old girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I recently got in a fight. Hes a 26 year old man texting and messaging a 17 year old girl about our marriage problems, but that's not all. He was deleting their messages as if they were never even talking. I questioned him on it one night and he replied "I talk ... (189 words)

How to deal with younger sister snooping through my intimate texts to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a nineteen year old girl, i live with my parent(my sister and my mom). I have always been a responsible girl, i dont even get a proper allowance, yet i do not ask for too much. I do not go out after dark and I am a diligent college student, so I study hard, and get ... (287 words)

Is it reasonable for me to tell my wife to stop kissing other men on the lips?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I really do not like it when other men kiss my wife on the lips. These are friends - just 2 or so. They do it as a greeting, when, for example, we first meet up for the night, and then again when we say good bye. I am fairly certain it has nothing to do with their wanting my ... (265 words)

Moved cross country to live with her, to find out she has no time and is withdrawn.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl from a different country half a year ago and we decided to move in together. I'm currently living in her apartment. Coming here I knew things were going to be hard since I have no friends, etc. I have a lot of free time compared to her during the week because ... (432 words)

I'm worried that my partner may have ADHD so how can I address this? Should I ask him or get him to see a Doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - modnote: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_deficit_hyperactivity_disorder Hi there, I hope you can help!! My boyfriend and I have only been together a few months, but I have noticed a few things which are already starting to put pressure on me and make me wary. I susp... (251 words)

He's a virgin and I am not. Seems I only want sex from him and it's only been two weeks. He wants cute dates. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I seem to only want sex from my boyfriend of two weeks? He's really shy and he's a virgin but I'm not - and I feel terrible! He keeps asking me out on walks and cute little dates, and then there's me; just trying to initiate more. How can I stop this? I'm coming off w... (62 words)

My Mom only wanted to help. Now my Dad has been diagnosed with sleep apnoea she feels she's ruined his life. What can be done to make this better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help my dad has been diagnosed with border line sleep apnoea. My mom made him get checked out as he would stop breathing in the night. Now he has to wear a mask in bed for the rest of his life. My mom is upset and feels my dad hates her for it. She thinks she's ruined his ... (125 words)

I am his Gf yet he treats me like the other woman. Should I end this relationship? Worse, he's also started being mean to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some sort of advice, i been driving myself crazy going over and over this issue in my head. I am single no kids never been married. I been dating this man for 3 years things were great as any relationship it has its up and downs. Some of his friends knew about u... (435 words)

Two questions: Why is my ex still messaging me? And why is my current Bf so controlling about me going to Hen's nights and clubbing with my Bfs? Should I put up with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - First: I started dating my now fiancé in 2011, I cheated first two weeks of our relationship, which I am not proud of, we have gotten through all this though, got engaged in 2012. I haven't cheated since 2011. I love him, he loves me (almost 2 years) but: He's met my best fri... (233 words)

What's the difference between your "one true love" and your "first love"? Does everyone have a "one true love"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Everyone talks about their one true love and things like that, so is it common that most people? Will most people have a true love and a first love? What's the difference? Is it like (not the best simile I know) your first car say? You remember the colour and the ... (201 words)

He never told me had a Gf, but I found out. Then he claimed he broke up with her. Based on his actions has he returned to his Gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m a varsity student and sometime last year I met this guy who is about four years older than me. I found him very nice and funny. We went out on a few dates and he came to visit me a lot. When we went back to school he told me that he had a girlfriend, I was really shock... (354 words)

My step sister is falling for me. How can I tell her I only like her as a step sister? I have a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents at separated and my mom has a bf with a daughter. That daughter (my step sister) doesn't live with us,she lives with her Mom who is a lesbian. Her Mom lives with a Gf. My step sister is a month older than me . She has had becom a bisexual. She only told me and ... (205 words)

Why am I stalling about moving to his country? Could it be that I have some resentment about the fact he gave me three STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in limbo and need your help. I've been dating my man for almost 2 years and we have an incredible connection, love each other deeply and have developed an open and trusting relationship. However, it wasn't always that way... Early on, he lied to m... (525 words)

What can I do? I Slept with BF's best friend, broke up with BF, but still can't stop thinking about his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I've now found myself in this awkward predicament, please give me some advice. Three months ago I made a huge mistake. I cheated on my now ex-boyfriend with our mutual male best friend. The friend and I have always had a close relationship as we went to Unive... (470 words)

I want a healthy relationship, so why am I attracted to unattainable or unavailable older or married men? How can I stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem and I have no idea how to fix this. I am only attracted to older men I can't have. For example, people in authority or married men. I don't express this to them and I end up beating myself up about it. I haven't been in a real relationship because I've... (144 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, just curious what it means of what my husband said; we have been married 15 years - last few years a bit shaky; suggests to me on a holiday when chilling out at a nude beach where we both went together that we should try a threesome and get another girl to sleep with us. I ... (122 words)

Will you let go of your cat you love if your mate has a terrifying phobia?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am interested in pursuing a relationship with a good friend of mine. We were once in a romantic relationship that ended because of the distance but now we realize we can't do without each other. He is planning to move down here with me so we can start afresh. The only... (271 words)

Please, can you tell me a way to forget her? She's moved on. I have not. And Still I do love her so much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am finding I am experiencing a very hard time in forgetting a girl who I loved. We were very good friends and I had told her about my feelings. She was not sure that time. However after sometime we had an affair. I had initially thought she loved me so she had that affair.... (230 words)

Does my crush really like me, or not? I haven't told him how much I really like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so as I have asked before I wanted to see if my old crush likes me. I have been told that he does because he is jealous and stuff. So I ask my friends to see if he likes me and he always says no. They ask stuff like “do u like A" and "do you think she's pretty" He ... (152 words)

I loved the first brother, but he disappeared and has just now returned. Meanwhile I fell in love with his brother. Should I walk away from both of them?

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24 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance himself. Being in depression, ... (368 words)