New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2013, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (32), 2 (27), 3 (43), 4 (47), 5 (43), 6 (36), 7 (24), 8 (36), 9 (46), 10 (40),
11 (57), 12 (45), 13 (24), 14 (39), 15 (26), 16 (33), 17 (41), 18 (49), 19 (40), 20 (54),
21 (42), 22 (37), 23 (26), 24 (52), 25 (53), 26 (37), 27 (52), 28 (23), 29 (38), 30 (38),
31 (45),

Archived questions from: 30 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

(More questions from March, 2013)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Whenever he sighs 'I love you' I think of him saying that to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, whenever i'm with my 10 month boyfriend having sex and he sighs "i love you" i instantley remember a situation that happened between him and a girl he once slept with before me, in which he sighed to her "i love you" and she said that's a lie, so he said: "yes it ... (231 words)

I just want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so I'm almost sixteen, the only serious relationships I've been in have had to be secrets cuz the guys were older than me. I've done everything but have sex. Now I seriously want a real boyfriend! Problem is is that I can't find anyone I like. My standards are not even... (106 words)

My partner says I'm too heavy for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - We cannot have sexual intercouse because my female partner has told me that I am too heavy for her. What is the best way to lose weight? Is it a good idea for me to go to the gym? Has this been a common problem for other couples when having sex?... (57 words)

What is the best way to handle our rude friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in an awkward position with a family that we have known for quite a bit. Recently we started doing more outings together as their little boy grew up, and they are more free with their time. Both husband and son act very strange when we invite them over or when we go o... (1103 words)

Should I keep that little place in my heart for him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to date O years ago he was sweet and we had known each other since we were just 6. We lost contact and I met M who messed me about constantly but I was young and in love. He dumped me for someone else. O asked me out again I said yes but at the time was heartbroken ... (288 words)

I've broken up with my boyfriend but I'm feeling uncertain because I miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've broken up with my boyfriend and I'm feeling uncertain because I miss him. There were so many things we had in common, so on many levels we 'got' each other. Mainly surrounding our love of nature. However, I felt he was controlling and manipulative, and I wanted to br... (647 words)

Can you die of heartbreak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I need help me and my girl broke up were together like a year...we were in love love or so I thought:( she seems fine though and I'm heartbroken:'( like for real guys I know everyone's been hurt including me but I've been depressed since the break up (3 days) have cried non ... (143 words)

What are the best options for me, if I don't want more children? I do want to get back to dating and put my life back together. What if my soul mate wanted children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I thought about getting back into the dating scene but I might meet the guy of my dreams my soul mate but I don't want to have anymore children. I have three and I have experienced a hard time with their fathers. My oldest daughter and son share the same dad and he was horr... (219 words)

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other because they have a kid together... (810 words)

He makes me feel uptight. Should I stay with him? I can't relax with him as he gives me "grades" on basic domestic skills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is probably going to seem like a really bizarre question but I want an outside opinion on whether this is weird or I'm just being uptight or something. So I find that my boyfriend makes quite a few corrections about my messy habits around the house. E.g. saying I ne... (436 words)

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest with him about my feelings but ... (195 words)

Would it be wrong to date my cousin's ex boyfriend?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to date your cousins ex boyfriend? They have 2 children together. I dont feel like its wrong but i am worried about what my family will think... My cousin's ex is doing really good for himself now has a good job and takes really good care of their daughter..... (106 words)

I am in love with my good friend and he knows this. But he is not yet available. How can I deal with the despair I feel over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advice I am so in love with my good friend and he knows this Last year he confided he was having issues with his girlfriend of 5 years. He said he was really unhappy we got a bit close and kissed twice I was so happy Then he said he could leave as she had e... (283 words)

Says he changed his mind and it's not such a big deal! Can I trust him? Was I wrong to get mad at him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me he couldn't come with me to see a friend's band play last night because he has decided not to drink/go out at the moment (he is training for a half marathon), but I have just found out he went out drinking with a friend instead! He said he changed his mind... (88 words)

Should I text the guy I had first date sex with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I asked a question last week after I (stupidly) had first-date sex and I am still not sure what to do. This is my original post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sex-on-the-first-date-how-can-i34.html OK the thing is, we had sex and it was friendly afterwards, h... (381 words)

My manipulative friend is trying to split us up....what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with this amazing guy. we were set up through my friend and his cousin. This thing is His cousin went out with my friend but the friend was always unfaithful. She's manipulative, she wrecks peoples lives and she hurts peoples emotions. I've only started ... (163 words)

Is this guy not hugging me yet another sign he is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, myself and this guy are very close. We speak everyday, either face to face or text. We tend to have dinner a lot. I like him and think he feels the same way, but obviously unless he actually does something about it, I continue to guess. We have just got closer and closer ... (502 words)

What could my fwb want to 'discuss'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

30 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Friends with 'some' benefits situation: here goes: Nov 2012: approached him, started to hang out with him, told him I liked him, he told me he liked me too. Started to send flirty text messages daily. Saw him 2wice a week. Very sexually attracted to each other. Dec 20... (1091 words)

Desperate to get help for my son who hates me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - HI Cupid friends and aunts/uncles I don't know what else to do I am so afraid for my son because of his behaviour towards me and his life in general. I have seeked help with councilors, social services, the police just about everyone, and it all just seems like it's a wast... (730 words)

We can't get time alone and its causing a strain on our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i've been with my gf for 6 months. Getting time alone (i.e) when parents are out is near impossible, the past few times have not been ideal (period, illness etc etc on both our behalfs). this has led to no sex for either of us for 2 months. Its really affecting the ... (87 words)

We've been together for 5 years but I'm getting urges to date other guys

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together for 5 years and I love him with all my heart but lately I've been feeling like I want to date other guys. I feel really guilty and it's been eating at me for the past few days. He noticed that I've been acting ... (150 words)

How do I change my ways and become more social with my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - What do I do, I feel so confused depressed, guilty, sad. I hate this. My dad always criticizes everyone so I go upstairs and go on the laptop to avoid any arguments. Iv gotten so used to this that I subconsciously do it. It's made me become very unsocial, and realise that I ... (615 words)

How should we handle this rude and nosy neighbour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone please off me any advice on how to deal with my competitive and rude neighbour? Basically my husband and i moved to our house about 2 years ago and we get on with all our neighbours but we have 1 particular neighbour who is very competitive and nosey and ... (421 words)

How do I approach my girlfriend about losing weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - In the 3 years we have been together my GF has been slowly letting herself go physically to the point where I no longer find her attractive. When we met in college, she was more physically active on a daily basis but now she has an office job where she just sits around all... (299 words)

My wife wants to be alone with another man before I join them for a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 4 years, we have 2 kids together. A couple of months ago she wanted to try a threesome (mmf) with one of our friends (a 23 year old guy). it was not that bad, but its like it has been going on every month. Today she asked me if I would mind that ... (145 words)

I think my husband might be cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I just want to hear other thoughts to my husbands actions. Ok in december 2012 my husband was supposed to be at a certain place getting fencing post for a friends farm. ok so when he got home i noticed he didnt look dirty and i just had that feeling somethings up (my husband ... (406 words)

Despite my boyfriend's assurances, I'm afraid he will leave me and the baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I would like some advice pls. I've been dating a wonderful guy for 15months whom im due to have a baby with. Hes 18 and me - 19. We began dating in our last year of secondary school.. had our ups and downs but I do feel like hes the one. Anywho, when I... (214 words)

The love and passion seem to have waned. He's always at the gym. What are my options for the future, and what would be best for my son and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice and help! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, we have a little three year old boy- as you can figure this happened soon after we met and we decided to do this together. He is a great father. We lived in south afri... (357 words)

Could his attitudes potentially drive a wedge between him and me, and affect me because of my own pet loving family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I am so desperately looking for help So there's this guy I really like. And he expressed he likes me a lot. And everything is leading up to the possibility of us dating, except today he said one thing that makes me worried about our future. He told me, unlike all... (183 words)

If he refuses to give it up his drinking and his abuse, then would I be right to leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend drinks of a weekend...not a problem but when he has a drink he either turns nasty and sometimes violent or the complete opposite...he stinks of beer and i hate it! we are arguing about this issue constantly, his reply to me 'nagging' is ''i am not giving up havin... (94 words)

He asked me out. I don't know how to answer him, and what will he expect of me?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

30 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 13 years old, and there is a boy in most of my classes who keeps on flirting with me. He asked me out once ages ago, but I said no because I was to shy. He asked me out yesterday, but the teacher called on him before I could awnser, then the bell went. I know he wil... (103 words)

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tells me she loves me I don't... (456 words)

He is a wonderful man. But I'm not sure if he's the one. Should I wait a couple more years to see if things changes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We started dating our junior year of high school. We are both the same age now. I've been out of college for two years and he still has a year left. I guess now that I'm done with school and found a good job, I'm starting to thin... (171 words)

Why is my friend reaching out to my enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I "broke up" with my former best friend Margo three years ago. There's no love lost and I am very happy to have her out of my life. Not getting into the details, I truly believe that I was completely in the right to permanently cut off all contact with Margo. She was a ... (356 words)

Who makes the move? How do I know when is the right time to kiss my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi do I wanna know if it is the right time that I should kiss my boyfriend. So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for a year and I want to finnaly kiss him. I am afraid that he'll tell someone cuz he usually tells people a lot of crap but yea. I'm also afraid that ... (115 words)

How can I get over my insecurities regarding my body weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get over my self-consciousness? I'm 20 years old, have dated a few guys in the past, but things didn't work for various reasons, most being that I just didn't "click" with them. Now, I'm overweight. In person, I have thick thighs and a big bum (which I'm not too... (349 words)

I'm crushing on my older trainer. Could he like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im realizing that I'm starting to really like older men. I'm 16, however i fall for guys in their 20's-30's.. I'm falling in love with a personal trainer at the gym i go to. I try and go everyday, and when hes not there i become upset. I love seeing him, and i feel great when i ... (301 words)

Am I with the wrong sign?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a Scorpio and in a relationship with a Virgo. We have been dating for about 5 months now and it’s been fun and kind of romantic. We've known each other since childhood but he decided to tell me he was in love with me during my 17th birthday weekend, he was so shy and cute I ... (287 words)