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writes:My ex wife has crossed her line,and for some reason blames everything on my girlfriend whose been nothing but nice to my child and my wife!and my child(amelia)she loves my girlfriend and has accepted her,she calls her to take her shopping,to discuss 'boys', 'dates' etc! But now ex my wife is trying to turn amelia against my girlfriend which has left my girlfriend hurt cuz she genuinely loves amelia..I spoke to my ex wife and she said that my girlfriend shouldn't be playing any role raising her child but that's 'my' child too,and I'm serious about my girlfriend and I'm going to marry her in 5 months and its important for her and me that my child spends time with my girlfriend!when amelia fell sick it was my girlfriend who took amelia to the doctor she got an infection for which she was in the hospital for 3 days and my ex wife dropped in on the last day cuz she was busy fixing some financial issues!what I don't understand is as per her convenience she leaves ameila with my bf and then turns her against my gf!how do I handle this?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 March 2013):
 Listen to SVC.... and take her advice. The view is SO MUCH BETTER from the high road!!!!!!
Good luck.....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 March 2013):
 TOUGH one...
I feel bad for Ameila.
your ex is jealous. and there is nothing you or your fiancée (if you are getting married in 5 months she's NOT a girlfriend honey) can do to stop her from saying or doing things to try to turn her.
The best thing to do is take the high road. NEVER say a bad thing about your ex if there is ANY chance Ameila will hear it.
IN fact, I would talk her up.. how much mommy loves you and misses you and wants what's best for you.
This will backfire on the ex eventually... let her dig her own grave over time.
Contact an attorney if you think custody or visitation will be affected as it should not be.
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