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Archived questions from: 4 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I barely know this younger girl but she keeps asking me to go to her play. Should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently met a girl. I dont know her very well--in fact i barely know anything about her other than her name and im not sure she even knows my name. We havent swapped numbers or anything and ive never seen her outside of work. However she has asked me 3 or 4 times to ... (195 words)

My boyfriend will not perform oral sex and I love it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for some time now and he doesn't eat my box. He says it's not his thing what should I do???? when that is one of my favorites like almost can't live without it and it's driving me nuts...... (45 words)

Is there one person that would turn straight for, even if for just one date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This question was kinda inspired by my friend. She was telling me how this chick she saw was so attractive she would turn lesbian for her, and she is currently in a hetero relationship so obviously she didn't turn lol :) What I was wondering for lesbians and gays, is there o... (93 words)

I'm scared I'm never going to find a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Settling? Is it ok to do so? Im a almost 22 year old college student, with a job and who's saved up enough cash to buy a car! Im soooo excited! I have no kids and Im moving into my apartment this summer! :-D Im doing great for myself, well i think so. But when i think about my ... (462 words)

My boyfriend said his ex was fantastic in bed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am absolutely devastated. my boyfriend told me a while ago how fantastic one of his exs was in bed (to hurt me because of something nasty I had said). One year into our relationship i've asked him why he said it, he said 'not as fantastic as you'!!!!! I thought our sex was ... (72 words)

So many guys want to date me but I just want the guy at the gym!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? I feel so depressed:(? So I've been single for 2 years and I joined the gym and this guy that works there would always look at me and would look away when I look at him. I finally started getting to know him and he'd flirt with me and as... (225 words)

Do I go for the first guy I dated or the rebound?

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4 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im having a small predicament. So i used to have a thing, nothing official, with this guy,lets name him Bob. So me and Bob had an ongoing thing for about a month. Then things got wierd. We stopped talking and I moved on. I then got involved with a sort of "rebound", lets call ... (123 words)

Oral sex and the gag reflex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to please my boyfriend of 6 years just like he has pleased me all these years. But I have gag reflects and I've even vomit a few times. Is there anything I can do to get rid of gag reflects?... (42 words)

After 5 months he says he's not ready to be a boyfriend and would wind up cheating on me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry this is pretty long but i appreciate you reading. i need your help. i've been seeing this guy for a little over 5 months now but we're not official. when we first met, he had just broken up with his long-term girlfriend and it was still very fresh... i was hesitant to ... (773 words)

Is it worth it to stay friends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a problem with my two best friends, let's says friend A and friend B. We're all around college age, early 20's. Lately I've been having a hard time with my roommate and possibly being on the verge of being homeless, and having problems with my family at home. ... (564 words)

How many men look at women's toes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age - how many men look at womens toes? what color polish do you like?... (14 words)

Why am I always the one making the effort with my so called friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a friendship group of 5/6 girls at school and I feel like that I'm the one making all the effort with them, and that if I didn't talk to them first then we wouldn't talk at all. Like they usually don't even acknowledge me if I'm stood with them. If they're talking and ... (247 words)

A man was turned on because I had money in my bra?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age - when i went to las vegas last summer i won a large sum of money at a lucky slot machine. to keep it safe along with the money i already had with my i put it inside my bra cup. 6100 dollars to be exact. one of the men with us told me its something that looks sexy to him and it ... (139 words)

I thought we might turn into a couple but through facebook I find out he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this might be a long post but you'll have to know everything to understand. I met this guy online and we hit it off. He told me he was single and hadn't been in a relationship in a while. We met in person and there was obvious attraction. The next time we met it was at... (438 words)

If my girlfriend was fooling around with another girl should I forgive her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, really don't know what to do, so for the first time in my life am asking a message board for answers. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 and half years of bliss! I really couldn't have asked for a kinder sweeter girl, especially considering when I met her s... (388 words)

My boyfriend will not acknowledge to his family that we are a couple! How am I supposed to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the deal - I'm a man. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. We live together love each other. Have a great relationship. Except for one BIG thing that has a bunch of sub sections. And it's driving me crazy. we live in the same city as ALL of his family, and he ... (610 words)

My former married lover is also my boss and he is trying to get me transferred to another city!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's my story. A rough one. Sorry its long, but I would really appreciate your help. I had an affair with a married man which lasted for 2 years. He is 25 years elder to me. I had just gotten out of a relationship where I was cheated on, when I met the MM. We work together... (1367 words)

Is he just using a line to finish things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing someone very casually for a month, I was not looking for a relationship when we first met (coming out of a bad breakup) so suggested not getting too involved which he was ok with. We have slept together a few times but now he says he doesn't want to see me ... (104 words)

My wife cheated and I want to keep our family together but how do I get over the images in my head?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age - Hello. I write to you today because I recently found out that my lovely wife, best friend, and mother of my 3 lovely children has had an ongoing sexual relationship for the last 10 years. I found emails from the two of them on her laptop and they featured emails about ... (1063 words)

Why does my boyfriend need a male sex partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, you think I am crazy? My instinct is telling me that my boyfriend I am with for 7 month has a guy sex partner. The only proof I have is txt messages: "I really I like to see you this week"... "8 am tomorrow morning?" "K, your place or my place?" "My place..." And this ... (114 words)

I Don't Know if my ex is Serious or Just Trying to Make Me Jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm having a really hard time with a recent breakup. I dated my ex for three years, and we really loved and cared about each other. He was my everything. About eight months ago, I had to move a few states away to go to college. I really didn't want to move and... (666 words)

My life long friend has become a burden to me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Friendship problem. I m friends with my girlfriend for many many years in fact we went to grade school together, and since then were inseparable. Our lives turned out to be very different. We are both 37. We both equally pretty, we both graduated from college. But that's... (756 words)

She wants a nick name but I'm not sure which one to use?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello i,m a male aged 51 and going on a date soon, the woman calls me hun ( short for honey i presume ) she said , she wants me to call her something nice, i,ve got a list of nice nicknames to call her, but not sure which one to use in case she doesnt like it. Also ... (109 words)

Ex-boyfriend breaks NC after 2 weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I broke up and I've been NC for 2 weeks. He's 34 and I'm 30. I broke it off with him after 2.5 years together because I felt like he wasn't giving me enough attention and because he had to go away for work in another state and after being told it was only 2 weeks, he ... (274 words)

As the "other" woman in the affair, how to deal with his revengeful wife

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a weird situation and need your advice. I (happily married and want to stay in that marriage) had an affair a couple of years ago with another married man, whose wife found out. Their relationship is going down the drain and he told me she's getting more and more vio... (189 words)

How much fighting is normal between parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents fight about 4 times a week. Two out of those four times will involve yelling/ insults. Is this normal? My parents are both great people. However, my dad treats my mom like a child and makes decisions without her. They don't understand each other emotionally, alt... (143 words)

Haven't heard from girlfriend in 12 hours, am I overreacting or is this logical and legitimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being ridiculous or do I have a reason to be worried and sick over this? My girlfriend called me last night after work and we talked a while. Everything was perfectly normal and great. She told me she was going to take some adderall (I'm not a fan of this) and pull an all ... (160 words)

Does anyone have experiences of social anxiety disorder they could share?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i would like to help me in a sensitive case, well.. i think i have "social anxiety disorer", 'cuz i got some syndrome of it and if anyone of you have axperienced the same or if you've been diagnosted with social anxiety disorder, then ,what have u done, how you have recoveri... (56 words)

Was I dumped on Valentine's Day and I just didn't realize it?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a woman since Nov 2012 and we are intimate. I sent her a Valentine's day card where I refer to her as my girlfriend and tell her how I appreciate her. She never responded to my Valentine's day card even though she did receive it. A week later I send her a ... (145 words)

We're best friends but our partners don't seem too thrilled with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My bestfriend happens to be this guy I'v known since I was 8 years old,I'm 24 now and we still remain that close,he's 24 too..I'v dated men,so has he but the both of us never had a relationship ever! Let's call him mark,now mark has stood by me thru thick and thin,he ... (177 words)

I am turned off by my girlfriends vagina aroma, How do I talk about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a gay female and I have currently been seeing a woman for the past 4 months. We have been taking it slow, and recently have begun to get more comfortable with one another. Anyways, we were playing a sexy lovers board game to get closer, and loosen up, as both of us ar... (316 words)

How is this for a profile on an online dating website?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a member of a dating site, however I never know what different things to say in a reply that is mentioned in my profile. Here is my profile (is this too bland?): I am a happy-go-lucky guy with one life motto: Live life to the max! My friends and family mean everythi... (155 words)

I'm cheating on my partner of six years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - HiI`m asking for some advice. five months ago I started an affair with a woman 20 years younger than me.I`m in a 6 year relationship with another woman who has constantly accussed me of having affairs.I have never had an affair until now. It started with just meeting up and g... (233 words)

Husband is in love with younger woman but want's to work on us.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! My husband (22 years together, married for 18) recently confessed he had been having an affair for 18 months with a younger mutual friend. He says he thinks he had been suffering from depression for 2-3 years as he was unhappy with our relationship which basically ... (390 words)

I can't trust my boyfriend because of his cheating in the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm writing this letter as I'm deeply. depressed and confused and would like to hear some feedback with what I'm about to write..the problem is I'm having trust issues with my boyfriend not just minor trust issues they actually bordering ridiculous and its beginning to cause me ... (640 words)

I'm hot but he is not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a divorced mother with 3 wonderful children. I am independent, financially secure, the only thing missing is a good man in my life... Then 7 month ago, I met this amazing man: handsome, sweet, loving, caring, committed, patient, kind, intelligent, successful... And most of ... (179 words)

I've never even kissed a girl because of my insecurity about my size

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 21 yrs old guy who never had sex or even kissed a girl, this happen mostly because i'm so insecure with my size down there, i've been reading a lot about this topic and i saw a lot of advices like 'it's how you use it"; "size does not matter" etc... but this hasn't h... (131 words)

How can I find a way to bring my true love to my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age - hello I;m a 48 years old woman I have this friend we are very very very close with each other we tell each other everything. We have known each other since we was little girls but now we are in our 40s. i was in a long term relationship with this guy and i reallty did love... (564 words)

I don't think my friend wants to be friends anymore he doesn't seem to care about me now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a friendship problem. recently ther were many difrerences and problems with my best friend followed by a big quarrel but everything was sorted out by a mutual friend. but still thing are not the same, recently i had been in two accidents and he didnt even asked me... (167 words)

All my boyfriend does is sleep, and I'm getting upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I'm a senior and he's a college freshman. We spend time together, but most of that time is spent sleeping. For example, we'll be skyping at 10pm usually, but he'll go to bed around 11-12. He'll wake up around 6 to g... (343 words)

When I lost weight I lost the good parts of my body! I don't want to work out every day so what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles this isn't much of a relationship problem but more of a self esteem/ body imagine problem. When i got with my bf of 3 years now i first weighed 175. I had noticed his father and sister didnt liked me and I asked him why , his response was because I was fat. ... (337 words)

How do tell my mother that I'm dating a man 18 years older than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 39. We've been dating for almost two months and very few people in my life know about him. Just my sisters and a few coworkers from my job. (they know him because he stops by every once in a while) My mother has no idea. I usually tell her that I'... (224 words)

Is caring for people and getting hurt stopping me from opening up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It's like every guy I let into my life hurt me. The very first guy I ever dated kept going back and forth between me and his ex. It was like me and him dated for two years then he met her but we never quit talking. Then, after seven years I was tired but still cared for him ... (343 words)

No one seems to believe me because of how my other family members act!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship,dating,love, or sex question. See my family look at me all wrong because of my parent's background and how my sister is,excuse me, hoeing around. My daddy is a thief so they think I still from him. My daddy lies a lot so every word I say is a lie. My ... (255 words)

We liked each other as kids, but years later I have trust issues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone :) I recently reunited with a guy that I have know for about 7 years now (I'm 20 by the way). We used to live in the same apartment complex for 3 years and we would play at the tennis courts, go swimming, and just hang out pretty much everyday. We went to the same... (502 words)

My girlfriend doesn't like to talk about the future. Is she thinking of leaving me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

4 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and we always a talk about getting a flat or something together and how great it would be to spend even more time together. However, when I bring up the idea of getting engaged in the near future (say in a couple of years) ... (252 words)

I want to talk to my guy about sex but I don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

4 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi y'all, I'm in need of some advice. I'm about to marry a very nice, caring, intelligent man. Trouble is... there's nothing going on in the sex department. I've known him for 6 years, and for three of those years, he was in and out of a relationship with another girl. We ... (412 words)