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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do I hurt people that love me unconditionally? How do I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - i control my wife with passive-aggressive words, i challenge my kids about stupid things, stupid things that if my parents had said the same to me, i would have gone nuts about i try to control our finances so i can bye cannabis, spend to much of our money doing so. i really ... (108 words)

Do I want my ex back? I can't let go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - i have no idea what to do now, im currently with a girl that i love and love everything about her but cant seem to let my ex go, i broke up with her as i didnt feel the same way, but now she is seeing someone new i hate it. Please help me am i just annoyed that she has also mov... (73 words)

Each of us is too shy to reveal our feelings, so how do I find out how he really feels?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a genuinely lovely guy ( before you ask, I know him well ) who is a bit shy and awkward about his feelings. According to his best friend, he knows that I like him, and his sister (one of my best friends) thinks he likes me. But because he is so shy and closed off about ... (355 words)

My husband the serial flirt goes after younger women! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is the situation, my husband of just under a year is a serial flirt! We have been together now for a few years and have a couple of kids so we decided to tie the knot. However before we got married I knew he was a flirt and I have always though he had had relations wi... (389 words)

Sleep deprived boyfriend has money for everything except an engagement ring. Should I cut my losses?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is sleep deprived. He gets about 4 hours of sleep per night. It's almost like a badge of honor for him that he works nights. He often talks about "day" people who get up in the morning, go to work and come home and eat dinner like they are inferior to him and ... (723 words)

My boyfriend wants to move away and wants me to come but I'm not sure I want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now and we have such a good relationship; we're always together and doing family things together...we havent yet moved in but he is always at my place like we do...in the past few months or so hes been saying that he wants ... (170 words)

Is it normal to NEVER have fantasies about your partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question for all the people who are either in a serious relationship, or married. Is it normal to NEVER have sexual fantasies about your partner? The reason I ask is because while I am attracted to my husband, I find myself fantasizing about other men I fi... (349 words)

Are we just friends with benefits, or something more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was casually seeing this guy for a month when he ended it saying that something had happened with another girl. We ended amicably, no feelings hurt. A week later a group of us went out and luckily it wasn't awkward between us. In fact we spent the majority of the night ... (211 words)

It's time to move on, but I can't get over my lousy ex! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (?) age 36-40 - It's been three months since I broke up with my boyfriend. He wasn't good for me at all- was in to drugs, ladies man, lied alot, had no morals, no motivation, and was super sneaky. But I can't stop thinking about the good times. I miss the company and him caring. I had bee... (365 words)

I don't get why we're not seeing more of each other, does he want me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice from a male and female perspective. About a month ago, I started dating a guy from work. We get on very well, have same sense of humour and he's the first guy I've wanted to date since a bad break up 18 months ago. My issue is, that I ... (228 words)

How can I marry a man who will lie to his wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My fianace and I have been dating 3 years and we have a 1/2 year old son. When I was about 4 months pregnant he cheated on me and slept with his X girlfriend. I found this out only because she send me a facebook message informing me of what happened and etc. He first denied it ... (178 words)

My boyfriend tried to cheat, so I left. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well..Basically i broke up with my current boyfriend sometime last week. It was hard because I had faith that he was different, but I guess not. I've had two serious relationships since being a teen and they both have gone to shi... (831 words)

We can't wait but it hurts her too much!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, my girlfriend and I are both 16 and have been going out for 3 months. We've both decided were ready for intercourse but we have an issue. When we first got together I could only fit one finger inside of her, now I can fit two most of the time but sometimes it hur... (144 words)

Arrogant and cliquey young manager at work who thinks I'm beneath her! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I work in a hospital and one of the girls I work with is 23, she is very good at her job, super confident and talented,and 3 months ago has been made one of the assistant managers, which is great for a girl so young.(Im in my 30s an have NO issue with young managers, again NO... (724 words)

Why am I such a mess after we went from a relationship, to casual dating to her breaking it off with me to be with a new man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age - So my gf broke up with me after 7 months and I don't know why I am so upset? We told each other we loved each other but I could never bring myself to seeing her 2-3 times a week. I enjoy my alone time so I tend to spend it with myself. A few weeks ago she told me lets go back ... (293 words)

Is she scared or leading me on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - We love each other very much....we have known each other for 9 years ....the first time I was not aware she liked me but finally I got to like her .....I left for university, though she was still in high school she is the one who tried the most to stay in touch ....my boyfriend ... (222 words)

How do I encourage my friend to tell her crush she likes him or just move on already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4301 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - HI!! Okzay this is on behalf of my friend who is driving me crazy!! so me and this girl have become really close in the past few weeks and we have become really close mates, she is so kind, caring, trustworthy and we have started talking about boys and stuff...I have a ... (566 words)

We broke up, but recently started casually meeting plus sex. How can I deal with this? I want more than what's happening now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. We split up because we are still young and we had different interests in life. Recently we have been meeting up and sleeping together, I was ok at first and thought it would be easy but now my heads all ov... (111 words)

Really Stressed or she dosn't love me anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - HI! Been with my girlfriend now for nearly a year (11 months to be exact)like any couple we have our ups and downs but latley im having trouble trying to work out if she still loves me or just really stressed out. she has become difficult to talk too the last couple of weeks ... (364 words)

I love a married woman who wont leave her life to be with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a married woman. I love her so much and she also. She is married about 9 year and have daughter of 8 year. But now i want to quit from this situation because i have got so much pain in this relation. She love me but not want to be with me because of her daug... (101 words)

My girlfriend goes into "no contact" mode with me when she's angry...why is that?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this girl for about a year and everything is good for the most part, except for when she gets angry or upset about something. We are both in our forties so it shouldn't be attributed to immaturity, but it sure seems that way. For the record, we don't live ... (365 words)

My girlfriend is too innocent and it is causing problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone :) I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and things are going alright. i have a slight dilemma though. My girlfriend is really innocent and she says she prefers being innocent than anything else. The thing is, i love being physically close to her ... (514 words)

My boyfriend can't stop looking at younger girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance can't stop looking at other girls. we have a great sex life and we are really happy but he cannot keep his eyes off of girls. especially high school ones. he's 22 and I'm 20 and most people think I look younger but he doesn't and these girls are like 13-16. what ... (57 words)

Looking for advice ... am I bisexual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm a bit confused would you say I'm bi or not. My close girl mate told me the other week that she fancied me I've been friends with her for ages. I didn't know how to take this as I thought she was straight. Anyway she took my hand and took me into the bedroom we star... (84 words)

Boyfriend says four is too many guys to have been intimate with. He broke up with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. Few hours later we decided to make it a short break of 2 days or so just to take some time off. The reason why that happened? I told him that I have been intimate with four guys before we met(We are in a long distance relationship and... (254 words)

Husband paid for entire bill on a big night out. How to ask the others to pay their share?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have A little awkward situation and need your advice on it. We went out with with 2 couples and a single friend out to a club on Friday nite for women's day. We live in US but everyone came originally from Eastern Europe so we still celebrate. First we went to one club and... (1014 words)

Due to get married in May but how can I trust my fiancé?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

12 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Im going crazy. I dont know what to do anymore. I have been with my fiance for seven mostly great years. But the past few months, I have found out a few things. He was texting some girl he met at a job he was doing and called her beautiful. And on New year's eve was hitti... (191 words)

My own GF won't give me a blowjob and I feel she's not really in to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this is a touchy subject when it comes to women. I've read previous questions about this issue and I've witnessed how the female answerers pounce on the male poster as if he was asking something so vile and disgusting. Let me start by saying, I love oral play. ... (464 words)

Ever since I lost the baby he has lost his sex drive. He will not tell me why he's feeling this way. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i am going through a really bad time and need some advice me and my boyfriend decided to try for a baby i fell pregnant but miscarried at 10 weeks 2 days. Later my partner started arguing with me and wouldn't tell me how he feels. How can i support him through this? A... (83 words)

After this, can I still trust my best friend? She's been so mean. We're meant to be getting a flat together for uni!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! I don't know who to trust, they've both got bad sides! :( Me and my ex (L) have been friends for a year, and everything is fine, but my best friend (A) at this college hates him and is constantly trying to stop me from being friends with L. I still love L to... (428 words)

My Gf over-reacts. How can I calm things down? And how to get her to give ME attention, she starts to lose perspective?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I want to know how to deal with my girlfriend when she overreacts to the little things I say or do. Usually she's in a good mood but every now and then, she gets pretty irritable and is bothered by the most trivial of things, and when this happens, she gets my attentio... (249 words)

Help! I'm confused - have I done the right thing? If I call him again what should I say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently met a guy from a dating site, we hit it off straight away. He lived in another state but was moving home to my state within a week. We spoke in the phone for about 9 hours in the first 3 days and the day he came home we caught up that night. We were both instan... (459 words)

No sex, because he's disinterested? My husband regularly masturbates but our sex life is non existent. What are my options?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband regularly masturbates and our sex life is non existent. His explanation is that he is not at all interested in sex, but masturbates when he has a bodily pain and can't concentrate anymore on anything else. We spoke several times about it and I expressed that s... (363 words)

My Bf claims a supportive girlfriend would stay awake with him everytime he can't sleep, How can I best support him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, my problem is simple I need to know how to stay awake even when I'm really tired. My boyfriend has trouble sleeping and I really don't understand it because he says he can never sleep but by the time I wake up he's swaying back and forth and his eyes can barely stay ... (195 words)

His interest in me has waned. Why is he avoiding giving me a clear answer? How do I get an answer from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I need a lot of help: I was dating this guy for about 4 months. During our relationship he was great, except he would never compliment me much. However I was really happy with him and started to fall for him badly. He broke off our relationship after 4 months... (271 words)

I am facing some major lifestyle decisions. How do I decide what will be the right direction and actions to help me go forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, I need help please. I need to make a decision about my home soon but I'm worried that it will have a knock on effect onto any potential relationship. I live in London in an area that I've been in for 15 years now. Eleven years ago I bought a wreck ... (1276 words)

I have a crush on the car mechanic. But is he over me? I thought things were going well, but now he seems to prefer to speak to my mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I do. I'm in love with my mechanic and I need help, I'm in my late 20s and never been in a serious relationship. I have fancied a few boys but never one like this, everyday I think about him, I crave there to be something wrong with my car just so I can go and see h... (301 words)

Do I put up with her behaviour? I don't know what to do as I've never experienced such behaviour before.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a guy in a 1 year 2 month relationship with a woman with 2 kids 15 and 18. My GF is 42 yo. We are in love and have talked about getting married and having a child although recently she shared that she wont be able to have child after being tested. We have travelled... (514 words)

Am I A Shoulder To Cry On? Or does this employee have a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an employee who I think may have more than a crush on me. He is going through a divorce and I have helped him to seek professional help, including family and friends. We have known each other for 3 years prior to me becoming a boss. We have a lot in common in mov... (297 words)

What can I say when boyfriend jokes that I should get pregnant? I feel pressured by his words.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend sometimes makes jokes that I should get pregnant. Eg rub my stomach or put his ear to my stomach. Even though I'm not pregnant. He also days things like " if you got pregnant then I'll have to take this new job. I'll support you no matter what". But then he takes ... (75 words)

Help! I need some support and advice about the actions and behaviour my boyfriend's sister. Is something going on or am I too suspicious?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my boyfriend (age 21) around 5 months ago. At this point, his sister (age 24), lived with his parents and he lived out of home. Within the first months of dating, his sister's behaviour was a litle questionable, and quite frankly, made me feel totally unc... (325 words)

Is it really worth it to have friendships and relationships? Something chaotic is always happening to someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupid... is having friends/ and or relationships really worth it in your opinion? I ask this because from my personal experience, there is a lot of drama and immature people all over the place. It seems as if a lot of my friendships end, even a couple of romantic relat... (230 words)

Am I over-reacting? What are the tips to help me become more positive about my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nearing my twenties and have been single all my life. Anyone I have liked haven't liked me back, anyone who does like me either want me for one night only or 'just as a friend'. I'm starting to feel very lonely and unwanted. Maybe i'm over reacting? I just need help to feel... (66 words)

I'm turning down other boys because I'm so in to this teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am 17 and I like a teacher that is about 26 (I think.) I think he is really cute and just wonderful. However, I do not think that I fell in love with him because of his exterior beauty but because he has a beautiful personality. In a sophomore year I was selected to go to ... (215 words)

He seemed more interested in his ex than in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

12 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for nine months now. We broke up around the second month because he was still thinking about his ex and wanted to figure things out. I started to move on with my life when he came back and said he wanted to be with me, not his ex. We agreed to try ... (460 words)