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Archived questions from: 8 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Been getting to know a long distance guy, but he doesn't seem to ask me any questions about me on a deeper level?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Before I start, this question is related to a long-distance relationship, and I know that there are many people out there that criticize it and are not open to saying anything good about it, so I would appreciate logical answers or answers from aunts and uncles... (1111 words)

Why do I feel like my personal trainer doesn't care?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel like my personal trainer doesn't care? Is been a month now with my personal trainer and he's not given me my dietary plan or how much weight I meant to be losing each month. I texted him my email and he said he'd send it but is been a week now. I'm so f... (129 words)

I'm not attracted to bad people who treat me poorly. So why do I keep on attracting women who cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there such a thing as ever actually being honest in relationships anymore!?!? Do people actually know what it even means? I stayed friends with my ex after we broke up a few months ago because despite not working out she seemed like a good, honest person. Well just toda... (228 words)

I love him. So why accuse me of cheating? Is he cheating? He has become controlling. Gave me no sympathy when I lost our baby.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my boyfriend and I started dating last June 2012. He was in California and I was from Maryland so like a long distance relationship. I already saw him though back when were 12 years old. I took a vacation in the Philippines, and since then he got clingy to me. I did not... (532 words)

My Bf tried to make love to me for the first time. How can I help him relax better next time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Two nights ago, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever having sex, but it wasn't his. Prior to the other night, we talked about having sex before and we basically decided that it will happen when it happens. Fast forward to the other nig... (204 words)

Is this a normal amount of communication for a busy guy in the early stages of dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started dating a lovely guy but I'm really not used to dating so would like some advice! He's a few years older than me, got a really good job which I know comes with long hours and a very big workload so I know he's obviously busy a lot. We went out for the firs... (516 words)

How can I just get him to knock it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex (first boyfriend that I ever had) has decided to contact me periodically. Basically, he'll just decide every few months to contact me non-stop and try to get me to go to coffee or lunch or whatever with him. The thing is that I really don't care to associate with h... (1229 words)

It's added to my anxiety. My favourite teacher has changed. He's ignoring me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - My favourite teacher is not himself anymore, he used to favour me but now it's getting weird, he used to let me off with things; he still lets me off some things about no as much anymore. But it's weird how one week he's nice to me then the next week he's ignoring me and just... (322 words)

Is our relationship in trouble? After he returned from a trip away he was a changed man. Now he's distant and hardly talks to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost a year now. We shared a great relationship until he went for this trip with his girl friends. After coming back he has started acting really weird. He doesn't have anything to talk about with me. He is not even both... (148 words)

Can I trust my Bf? He goes onto online dating sites daily.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend online, and neither of us closed the online accounts after we "got together". For my part, I hadn't entered very often at all... Just to try and make myself feel better or show him how i feel when he continued to log on almost daily! When he'd come home f... (192 words)

My fiance is a compulsive liar and it's getting worse. I just don't know what to do about his undermining behaviour. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I am dealing with a compulsive liar and I dont know what to do. I have been with my fiance for almost three years now and things just seem to be getting worse. When we first met he had told me all of these things. Lies. That his roomate was kicking him out.(nev... (719 words)

Housemates being horrible. Should I confront them about the way they are behaving towards me? What would be the best way to deal with their continual disrespect towards me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my third year at university and this year I moved in with a new group of people as my female flatmates from last year went on years abroad. One of my friends from a sports club was looking for one last person to fill a really nice house he'd found and since I knew him... (781 words)

He's younger and a playboy. He flirts with me. And disrespects me. He has a Gf. And maybe he has made another girl pregnant. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and this young Guy work together and he is 21 and I am over 10 yrs older than him. I really like him but he sends me mix signals sometimes. I checked out his girlfriend who oworks at the same place we work, but different sections. Everyone knows I like him at work and I... (214 words)

I'm inexperienced. How can I know if she reaches orgasm or not? What are the signs that will tell me if she has orgasmed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I’m inexperienced guy when it comes to sex, so can you help me please, with some tips of female orgasms? How do I know if she reaches it or not? What are some signs of female orgasms? What are the best ways to ask a girl? Chances are she will say, she’s fine just to make me... (74 words)

He tried to guilt trip me. I'm angry about him. How can I learn to get over an annoying passive agressive ex bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for 3 months and broke up with him because I felt things were going too fast and he was starting to get on my nerves. We had different interests, different humour, he would always be complaining, I wasn't sexually attracted to him anymore, he always thought ... (632 words)

I've always had low self esteem. Do I need counselling to deal with my decision to sleep with a married man 18 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I already feel bad enough already, without enduring being called nasty names. I slept with a married man who is 18 years older than me. We met on the internet and went out, had drinks and slept together the first time we met. Before we actually slept together we were cuddling... (197 words)

My wife has been revealed as a prostitute. Should I forgive my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has been revealed as a prostitute. Should I forgive her? We have been married for five years and have six children (blended family). I have felt our family to have been very happy, loving open and honest. We spend lots of time together, all school holidays with the ki... (394 words)

Dating a gynecologist is bothering me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've met this guy recently through friends I like him very much. We've been on couple of dates but my problem is that he is a gynecologist! I can't seem to see through that. I cannot imagine what that is like for a young man. It bothers me to think that someone I'm involved... (115 words)

Why all the bickering in my relationship, when things in the rest of my life are getting better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently gone through a very diffcult stage in my life with my mother's illness and several bereavements over the past 2 years. i became quite depressed over this period however with counselling and my mother's improving health i am finally feeling much more like me. ... (182 words)

I complain about getting guys that aren't interested in me, then I get a good guy and I feel so overwhelmed by it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I REALLY need advice right now. :( The situation is: I live in a residential college, with 2 of my exs (just really bad coincidence) and a new ex, who treated me less than brilliantly, and my boyfriend. So my boyfriend is a guy that had been my best mate for 7 mont... (379 words)

I overhear people saying 'why is she with him' because I'm just an average guy whereas she is beautiful inside and out, should I ask my girlfriend what she saw in me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this beautiful girl for abt a year now!she's nice,kinda,a well educated woman she's working at a hospital..she's beautiful not only on the outside but also the inside and that's what attracted me to her! But the only thing that bothers me or as our friends ... (161 words)

I've made my mind up to change my name, but I feel awful because I'm hurting my mom's feelings

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm getting a name change in a couple of months. Problem is, my mom is against the idea. But I know, I'm positive, 110% sure that this will be a good thing for me. My past has been filled with so many troubles (abuse, bullying, depression, horrors, etc)that I couldn't handle ... (201 words)

Should I Tell my boyfriend what goes on in my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have low self esteem. Its really bad to where I'd call out of work and miss school so i can stay home and hide under my blankets and cry. I am my worst enemy and for years Ive been trying to get better. But i cant help it when i have my moments. Ive dating my bf for 4mths ... (297 words)

Do men get anxious about heterosexual anal sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am wondering if it is common for men to get anxiety about heterosexual anal sex. I recently had it with my girlfriend for the third time and she was the one who became quite forceful about it. It freaked me out a little at the time. I thought maybe she had been lying to me ... (76 words)

I don't want to have sex anymore or be touched by my boyfriend! How do I tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm stuck on how to tell my boyfriend I want to stop having sex for good. The thing is.. he grosses me out so much. And, I've also recently finally realized (through therapy) I have never enjoyed sex. I am very uncomfortable, I think about other things during it, I've never go... (363 words)

Should I not say anything when I see my boyfriend looking at other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has really upset me and I think I've said things a bit hastily trying to upset him back. I bought him a few presents yesterday beacause he's moving in, took him for a drink because he's only just started a new job and hasn't got much money at the moment. So he ... (180 words)

I want to get a tattoo but I know my mother won't understand. How can I explain to her how important it is to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at this point in life where I have a lot of things on my heart and mind. In spite of that I really need advice about one of the ''little'' things. I want very badly to get a tattoo, even though I am well above the age of consent I am upset because my mother won't giv... (510 words)

What do I do with my ex girlfriend's paintings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I just went through somewhat of a nasty break up with a girl who I exchanged the "I love you"s with. And now I feel hollow inside and used, because of the way she broke up with me and kept me close until she found a new boyfriend two weeks later. What I ask you is this: she ... (142 words)

Straight female with lesbian tendencies? Wtf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Good evening everyone, Thank you for stopping by to read my post. I am having a hard time explaining my sexuality. I classify myself as a straight woman, as in if I were to marry I would choose a man. I don't care about labels, but if you do then you would probably say I a... (345 words)

My bf of 3 years said that he doesn't see us as a couple and he just wants to have fun until he meets "the one"!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years never talks about our future together, whenever i brought it up, he chnages the topic or says future is never certain. Yesterday i made him talk about our future, now he says he doesnt see us as a couple and he just wants to have fun until he mee... (104 words)

Is this why people say to be yourself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

8 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There was this girl that liked me and thought i was funny. The thing is, I would copy funny phrases from one of my friends and repeat them to her to make her laugh. She liked me a lot until I started to run out of those things to say. Then the real quiet me came out and started ... (199 words)

Girls, how do you deal with flirty women around your boyfriend or spouse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

8 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I guess this question is more directed towards women. Have you ever dealt with those really flirty, skanky women who will not leave your partner alone? Do they not have morals? I was at a party with my fiancee and a couple of his friends last weekend and he ran into a girl him ... (194 words)

I feel so bad when we have disagreements and nothing seems to help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

8 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Please help. My boyfriend and I are basically perfect except when we have relationship problems. We rarely have disagreements but when we do I feel so alone and lower than I've ever felt. I've tried explaining to him that I do not want to live in fear of issues b... (98 words)

My boyfriend smokes a lot of weed...should I be bothered by this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

8 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half now. Ever since I met my boyfriend about 2 years ago, I have known about his marijuana use. He is high pretty much all of the time, and he smokes it through out the entire day, everyday. I do not notice it ... (147 words)

This girl is a manizer and is mean to me. How to deal with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have never really talked with anyone about this so I thought I would give this website a try, so please bare with me. I guess females would understand this situation the best. I think a lot of women have this sort of problem, but it is not something i have ever ... (429 words)