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Archived questions from: 6 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does she see me as a gay friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a confusing situation: I've been talking to some girl for quite some time now and I've developed a huge crush on her. We've been hanging out a little as of late, and we flirt, I tease her, I make her laugh, we connect on different levels, etc. I got a friend of mine who ... (190 words)

Boyfriend wants a break because he thinks I don't value his opinons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year now, and before this we were friends for a long time. I'd noticed he'd been acting strange for the past couple of days, so I asked him what was wrong. He told me that he felt like I didn't value his opinion on anyth... (352 words)

What am I doing wrong? I seem to easily make my fiance irritable with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age - Just the other day my fiance snapped at me. It was regarding the current political climate. He said to me did you hear that the White House tours were cancelled due to the sequesterian? He was sitting at his computer looking at the news. Curious mind that I have almost li... (338 words)

Am I a Lesbian or Bisexual? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm confused. I am emotionally and physically attracted to girls but when I'm really turned on, I like to think about having sex with a man, rough sex. Nothing emotional, I don't want to kiss him. Just the sex, the thrusting. I once had a fantasy of having a threesome with t... (156 words)

Money isssues between my partner and me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I are having issues over finance.The circumstances are as follows: I run my own business, which has suffered a lot in the recession.I still make a profit, but not vast amounts.I probably earn just above the national average wage. My girlfriend is di... (362 words)

All my boyfriend does is play video games. Is he just not into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month and a half ago I moved in with my boyfriend, and so far things really aren't going well. I am 26 and he is 23. We don't argue really at all, and when we are actually interacting we have a pretty good time. I'm fairly independent, and we both do our own thing for ... (440 words)

Is it always presumed that a man is not interested if he doesn't initiate contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal. I have been dating a guy whom I met on a dating site for a month now, he actually stated that he wants a relationship and so do I. We see each other every week, but only about once a week, usually on the weekends. He is a really nice guy but he's a little quiet ... (280 words)

I know he knows how to kiss, so why just a peck?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Had my first kiss with someone who I've been flirting with for weeks, but it was a peck! He had tried to kiss me on a previous occasion, but I didn't realise and it was awkward, and we didn't kiss, so I told him that I liked him and wanted to kiss him, so for a while it was ... (170 words)

He seemed concerned about my illness but stood me up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I caught one of those 48 hours viruses. Yesterday, I got a nasty headache (I rarely get headaches so when I have one I can't even see straight) and horrible muscle pain. So yesterday I got home at 5pm and went to bed. I eventually texted my 29yo boyfriend, and he told me h... (320 words)

I'm feeling disrespected by my boyfriend, am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Guys, I need your advices, so hopefully you'll be able to help me out. I have been in a relationship for the past eight months. Up to last night, it has been, despite some difficult times, a relationship full of promises, dedication and love. From the be... (490 words)

Is it fair for him to leave without paying his fair share of the bills and rent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't so much as a relationship question as it's a family one. My cousin and I have been living together for the last two years. We've split every bill down the middle since we first moved in. Even the deposit for the apartment. The problem is that he's moving out at th... (379 words)

How do I end the relationship with a woman who has nothing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with this girl for 14 years I use to love her but now it's gone. When I met her she was basically homeless living in a shelter. She has always been mentally unstable at times and I have found someone i think i love. How do i put her out with no job Id or car and no ... (101 words)

He abandoned me in a strange city!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I could do with some wisdom/isight/davice/thoughts on this...thanks Last weekend it was arranged that myself and a man I having been casually seeing on and off (he lives in another country) would meet in Milan. This involved me flying over from the Uk to meet him. It had b... (1411 words)

No contact now for 8 days -- is he ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - hey everyone.. i will try to make this short as possible... and i am not tryin to make this a big deal but i want to know what you guys think..ive been talking to this boy for a while.. its been about 7 months now and about in february, my aunt found out that he was arrested... (400 words)

He prefers the internet and porn over sex with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend almost 4 years. When we met i thought i found my dream guy. He spends a lot of time on internet. We had sex but very seldom. But he stoped having sex with the exuses not to make me pragnant that he is not ... (301 words)

He won't tell his fan base about me or us! I'm tired of the drama.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Its been about 3 months now and I'm dating this guy who is a public figure and has recently shot to fame and since he's young has this huge female fan following!he hasn't been public about me,cause his PR and his entrouge think it would drop down his fan followin... (161 words)

My boyfriend is always staring at girls and when I complain he says I'm paraoid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently went drinking with friends and came home with pictures of him dancing with girls (dirty dancing). And he claimed he brought them for me coz i did something which made him upset, though he couldnt disclose what. Yesterday i was moving with him in town ... (102 words)

Is it a red flag that my 33 year old boyfriend likes to hang out with a 21 year old girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 33 and I am 27. We have been together for 3+ years and our relationship is pretty strong. But, he befriends people much younger and hangs out with one 21 year girl old in particular. Is this a red flag? He wouldn't cheat, but I personally find it really ... (90 words)

Was it just a surprise one night stand? Or could it lead to more?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I'm having a bit of a dilemma. I have been single for about 9 months after a bad break up of a long term rship. I had been hung up on meeting someone but then decided not to let this be my focus and and then suddenly i started meeting people. Always goes that... (587 words)

How do I stay away from this married man???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am involved in an emotional affair with a married guy. We haven't had sex or anything like that. But the attraction and chemistry between us is strong. We work together and used to speak more but recently because of the chemistry he has been pulling away. He finds i... (372 words)

Why am I moving so slow in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend going on 18 months. We've had our ups and downs but at the moment the concern is lack of progression in our relationship. She feels that we should be close to moving in together by now, like all her girlfriend friend's relationships whom have been ... (237 words)

I'm dating my best friend but there aren't any sparks for me. Is it because we've known each other for so long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted on here a while ago about a dilemma I had. My best friend (who's male) told me he had feelings for me. I didn't want to ruin the friendship and didn't know how I felt about having a relationship with him. I know him inside out, we've been friends for years so I've seen ... (403 words)

Did I make a mistake turning down my friend for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend, that I have known for 2 and a 1/2 years and Sometimes I still go back to when we first meet and I made the choice to not be more than friends with him. I sometimes feel like i'm not sure if I made the right choice. I see us both now 2 years later and he goes ... (357 words)

New baby last year. So how can I convince my husband that I need less visitors at home?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I am at the end of my tether with visitors in my house! I had a baby last year and since then I have never had any peace. I'm feeling overwhelmed by too many people always around here. I feel like my home isn't my own and I am running a drop in centre. Don't get... (599 words)

Boyfriend's change of password and conversation with friend has made me uneasy. Am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts/uncles. I dont know if I am overreacting or if this is something I should be concerned about... First I should clarify, we have had trust issues in the past regarding him chatting with women sexually on the computer, joining dating/sex sites, even replying to ads on ... (304 words)

Being with a selfish man in bed makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute! Anyone else feel this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this guy a few times, and I think he's nice. He took me out for dinner once and coffee a couple of times. After our coffee date yesterday, we made out a bit in his car before he dropped me home. I saw him again tonight and he did not want to take me out for ... (285 words)

Old fashioned parents will not be thrilled to meet my boyfriend. How do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How do i explain to my parents that my boyfriend is half black? I'm from a very strict Russian family,and my parents are very old fashioned. We are not racist at all, it just my parents arent very good with changes. Church every sunday, and nothing out of the norm. I've been ... (101 words)

Boyfriend brought up a boy's night out and I wasn't thrilled. We never talked it all out, do I bring it up again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i are in our almost late twenties and have been dating for about 6 months..everything is going great and it's the best relationship i have been in. We both truly love each other and he treats me very well and vice versa.I can honestly say he is the person i ... (866 words)

The medication I'm taking is ruining our sex life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a really debilitating phobia for awhile and after only barely managing to get it under control with therapy, turned to medication. My medication is great, I feel SO much better now! My outlook on life has completely changed and it's just wonderful. HOWEVER. One o... (194 words)

I'm feeling like I've lost the love of my life after the break up. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So..I'm really sad over my recent break up. He broke up with me and I can honestly say I was in love with him. Towards the end of our relationship I could tell things weren't right so when he finally broke up with me I wasn't surprised. Things just got stale and he stopped ... (177 words)

I've been cheated on before so now I worry about it happening in this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating this guy a few weeks ago he has stayed the night with me almost every day the only time he goes home is when he has to work or go to church we live in different cities. I have had a terrible past with relationships of getting cheated on, lied to everything. Any ... (395 words)

The sex that didn't happen with a friend and 3 years later I still fantasize about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I haven been together for three years now and we are very happy together, however before we were together I was in a strangle relationship with my best friend whom is female. My best friend and I did everything together and spent all our time together too, ... (390 words)

Trouble making girl flirting with my boyfriend and keeping my friends away from me?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

6 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Please read this whole thing and give me any type of advice or help. I have been in a really wonderful and happy relationship for a couple of years now. I am not the jealous type of person at all. I will admit that I may be a bit insecure, but it has never caused ... (629 words)

How do I escape this tradition of naming the first born son after their father's father? I don't like the name!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant, 7 months in and its a BOY! I am very happy but at the same time a little sad because my in laws want me to name my son my husbands fathers name because its a Lebanese tradition for the eldest son to take after his fathers name in his first son. Sounds confusing ... (199 words)

Does anyone else have problems when they text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a foreign girl living in the U.S.. I'm originally from Former Yugoslavia. I have been here for about 9 years now, and it's very different from my country. I don't mean that in a negative way, in fact I love it here. Anyway, I've been in a relationship with a Hispanic man ... (218 words)

What can I do about his awful uncle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

6 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for nearly 2 years. only have 1 big problem and that is my husbands uncle. he is an extremeley manipulative and jealous person. he is so spiteful and i know my husband does not like him to much. he has tried to do everything to cause arguements between me ... (192 words)