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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I study something I love or do I study something more pragmatic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I have a question. I have been a bar manager for years and right now I am studying by correspondence for two qualifications in management, one of them is a BTS (French qualification equivalent to the first two years of a bachelor's degree) and the other is a professional ... (228 words)

If you've just started seeing someone, when is the right time to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey y'all To start off, I've started seeing this guy recently. He's older than me by 5 years, but our personalities seem to really suit one another, which is why I think we really hit off so far. So, we've talking for 2 weeks now. We've gone out about 3 times so far an... (277 words)

I'm in pain over someone who doesn't even think of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age - hello, well met someone last year lasted 3 month ,treated her like an angel. Wrote poems, dancing, open every door,sweet talker, romantic. her ex beat her all the time. it was going great i thought, fantastic. went on a 3 day trip, that weekend she told me when we get back, sh... (235 words)

Did he scare himself off when he nearly said that he loved me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 3 months. It has been an incredible journey, we can't get enough of each other and we have both been very open and expressive with our feelings so far, although we have not yet used the L word. This guy seems very committed and we speak and txt ... (309 words)

I think my girlfriend's sister has feelings for me and it makes me uncomfortable

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25 March 2013 (?) age 36-40 - My girlfriend's sister is overly nice to me and I can't help but think she might have feelings for me. I'm 24, my girlfriend is 25 and her sister is 19. She does have a boyfriend herself and seems happy enough with him but whenever he's not around that's when she starts rolling ... (275 words)

How much do a woman's friends reflect who she is and her values?

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25 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - We had some issues a couple of years back when my wife thought about cheating on me. She never went with the other man but considered it. He worked hard to sleep with her and she lied to me about it all until I found out from others. This happened once before at the beginning ... (311 words)

My friend has a boyfriend but also likes a guy that I'm interested in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, I want to explain that my best friend is in a relationship, but a complicated one. One minute she really likes him, the next she wants to end it, she even admitted to liking this guy who I had went with/kissed. The thing is I am sort of torn between guys at the mome... (145 words)

My ex left me with no explanation now she's back and I have someone else in my life. I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i had a strong relationship. There way she loved me i could tell that she is the perfect bride for the perfect groom. a year back she was raped,and sadly she got pregnant. From that day of the incident i never heard from her,she vanished into thin air,at... (222 words)

I like this girl but she's confused about guys and I don't want to get hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been seeing this girl for a few months. When I first started talking to her I was with my ex, I didn't have any intentions of doing anything with the girl I'm seeing now at the time, we were just really good friends. When we first started talking she told me she ... (177 words)

My husband jacks off with other men!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband jacks off with other men I just found out he has been doing this for years. I'm shocked to find this out. Even more shocking, are all the sites where married men communicate and set up times to jack off together. He says he will stop but I don't know if I should... (99 words)

Do I have a baby because that is what me and my fiancee want, or do I not because of what people will think and say?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long term relationship with my fiance over three years, we have had a very happy relationship and got engages almost a year ago. like all relationships, we have had our usual arguments and obstacles (other interfering people) but thankfully overcome them. i ... (348 words)

My wife is interested in a non-intercourse foursome with our best friends!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been happily married for 4 years. No real fights everything is great. We have two beautiful girls together. In the past year and a half we have become extremely good friends with another married couple. My wife and the woman have developed a crush on each ... (119 words)

I'm feeling left out because I'm not as into gaming as he and his friends are!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupid my boyfriend (hes 23) and I have a great relationship but I'm confused about his friends sometimes. Don't get me wrong I love his friends and I am glad that they have such a great relationship with my boyfriend, but they are always around. My boyfriend as well as his ... (280 words)

He's really hot and cold with everything. Where do I stand with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this really nice guy last summer at work who I developed a crush on. I got up the nerve to ask him out and he said yes. The first time we hung out, we went to an outdoor festival thing, and I wasn't even sure if he it was a date or if we were just hanging out as friends. ... (366 words)

How do I deal with constantly seeing my ex?

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25 March 2013 (?) age 36-40 - It's been a few months since I broke up with my boyfriend. It was sort of mutual- we both had very different lifestyles and values. However, we go to the same college and run into each other quite frequently. We haven't spoken since the day we broke up and I delete him from all ... (197 words)

I don't find my girlfriend attractive but she does, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 27 Years old i have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and i no longer find her attractive. We both want the same things out of life. We have the same goals and aspiritions and other than this i like being around her and we get along well. The problem is i'm ... (305 words)

I've gone from being madly in love with her to wishing our relationship were over. Break up or stay? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a long term relationship with my girlfriend (4 1/2 years). I have two kids (13/12) from a previous marriage. The kids live with me. About one year ago my girlfriend moved in with us. We had some problems during these 4 1/2 years. She would flirt with guys on the inte... (800 words)

I love a girl who never shows any interest in me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I love a gril and she never response to me . She only talks to me but also refuses me many time at the be gining she talk to me very much but after i started showing intrest in her she started avoiding me she is very beautiful but i am quite brownish in color . I love her by ... (72 words)

When should I email him and does he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey- really brief just want your views. I'm 22 indian- he's 23 muslim- both born bred uk. We work in the same organisation and have monthly meetings together. He is always looking at his phone so i thought has a gf. He is the quiet shy guy , he went to my uni before one y... (273 words)

I want to improve our relationship in so many ways, please help!

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm going to an 18th party at the weekend with the new boyfriend. Planning on getting him drunk and then because we are sleeping the night (drunk) in a bed was gonna take things to the next level. He's a virgin though. We will have been going out for exactly 2 weeks ... (444 words)

I just want a man I can get to know, go on a lot of dates and someone who is not just after sleeping with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone Im a 21 year old woman, i have a three year old little boy, i have been single for a while due to breaking up with my son's father, it was a pretty messed up relationship with him being very jelouse and controlling, also him bedding other women. I decided to leave... (292 words)

How can you tell if your 16 year old daughter is having sex?

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you know if your 16 old is having sex she say she not but how can you tall? ... (20 words)

Crush problems, I want to tell him it's just as much my fault as his!

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - anyway there is this boy ive had a crush on for 3 years. i texted him that he was hot and sexy. he wants me to do sexual things with him. then i made this mistake of telling him i was on my period (im 13 hes 14) then he texted me back saying "what he wanted me to do is wrong ... (224 words)

Should I tell my ex I still love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age - Hi, I've been talking to me ex for about a year now. He's married since our breakup. We were together a long time. His wife doesn't know. We talk when she's not around. We spend hours on the phone. Like 4 or 5 hours. It seems he likes talking to me. We laugh about stupid stuff. ... (74 words)

My husband won't allow my son to move in with us!

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just one year and half in marriage. I actually told my husband that I had 2 kids for different men before we married. But now one of my kids dad has ask me to come and take my son to leave with me because his wife is maltreating my son. I told my husband that I needed to ... (166 words)

She text me and told her not to text her again, but should I text her back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello i,m a 52 yr old man, haven,t had much experience with women, find it difficult to read the sign,s/ signals, i have been on 2 dates with a 51 yr old woman, but 6 days ago she txt me and said, that she finds me childish, and have i got mental health problems, also she said ... (445 words)

Sex on the first date. How can I stop it being a one night stand and date him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a first date with a man the day before yesterday. It went very well as in we got along well, had lots of things in common. I was adamant that I would NOT sleep with him, completely certain but... several glasses of wine later and whoops, I did. I don't really know what... (280 words)

I told him this was just for fun but he has fallen in love with me, how do I end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with this guy for the past 5 months, (please do not judge me), I have always been upfront with him and told him that I do not love him but cared about him. I have told him about my childhood abuse and previous bad relationships failures, some of them due to me o... (584 words)

I wasn't his cup of tea so why does he say and do things to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been friends with this guy for over a year at first he seen me as a potential but when we met things changed I wasnt his cup of tea as they say it. Put me in insecure zone where I wanted to live on his expectations. I realised that I had feelings for him and because ... (169 words)

I'm not interested in her as more than a friend. How do I keep her as a friend and not hurt her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid I need advice about a girl who is being really clingy to me and she even said : she is attached to me loads! well, I am not interested in her more than just friends! lately she has started flirting and I have been ignoring it! Now she is even flirting on te... (83 words)

Why do men assume women are clueless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. Why are guys so dumb and why do they assume that women are clueless. I swear they think they are pimps for example my boyfriend. I know everything he does every website he goes to and I mean EVERY website and just cause I havent busted him yet doesnt m... (139 words)

Can you have sex without feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am super confused, please help me figure this one out! If a guy said he never had relationships with a girl, he only used her for sex, how in the name of everything that's good can it carry on for 2-3 months and no feelings whatsoever developed? Is it possible? Surly you will ... (242 words)

Should I tell my friend about a drunken fumble with her boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently went on a weekend away with my boyfriend, two of my friends and their boyfriends. We always go out as a group and all get along really well. One night we was playing drinking games and everyone ended up naked. This is the first time anything like this has happened. ... (214 words)

We will be living together (with other friends) from next year, so should we take the risk and get together now, or play it safe?

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25 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, So, I've (18 yr old guy) come out of a 3-and-a-half year relationship at the end of January, and I've recently started having feelings for another girl, with whom I have been very close friends with for several months. Everyone, even my ex, suspected something may ha... (192 words)

We both want to move to another country for a better life, but in order to do this she needs to work but she doesn't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - i am working in a cruise ship. so i have to stay away from my family for every 9 months. i miss my family every time. i want my wife to work and take experience so that we both can migrate to any other country and earn better and have a better life together. but my wife don't ... (103 words)

We've never had sex before, so how do we get started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a relationship with this guy for a year now and we are deeply in love. Though we're both virgins we've done all the kissing and touching upper the waist but this time I really want to have sex with him. How do I get started and make him feel aroused? Please ... (56 words)

Could stress be responsible for the lack of intimacy in our relationship? How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my bf have been together over 3 years, he has his things and i have mine. i like porn, he likes russians, but have a relationship that is true and honest. we know everything the other does. well lately he hasent wanted to have sex, or even cuddle. he gets angry when i ... (96 words)

Lack of passion and intimacy is making me paranoid and suspicious

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Myself and my girlfriend have been together around 6 months now and its been brilliant. We're both very happy together and can see the relationship having a real chance of a future. When we first started dating we had that honeymoon period everyone has and couldn'... (537 words)

Will my husband be able to tell that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex once before 5 years....i never had sex after that...will my husband know if am a virgin?....... (19 words)

How can a relationship continue without sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have come to terms with being a bisexual, maybe even lesbian if the future remains this way. This all started when my very close friend and flatmate told me she loved me and threw me into a whirlwind of questions. After a month of separation and thinking about things, ... (905 words)

EX and my BF are friends which is becoming crowded

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4283 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm in a LDR and I have been for almost a year with a guy that I'm really in love with. My only problem is that he spends a lot of time with his ex, and she's been his friend before and after their relationship, but after they broke up, they distanced themselves for a ... (356 words)

My BF or maybe FWB or Fiance loves eye candy, but says he wants to marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I'm new on here. My boyfriend and I were just friends for about two yr before we took the step to f.w.b. then to dating. He has been dropping hints that he is going to proposal( he has asked in his sleep and when he was drunk, and always talking about the furture and ... (392 words)

In loved with a guy that is spoken for but unhappy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys. I've known this fella for 3 years. He's in a very unhappy (unmarried) relationship.Unhappy on BOTH sides. They've been together 10+ years with property, finances and a business in both their names. He has feelings for me and he knows I feel the same way. We would... (266 words)

In love with a married man but I cant help myself

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i am having an affair with a married guy but i didnt really ask him if he is married. i would say he is because he doesnt tell me where he lived and i cant contact him during night time, weekdays and holidays as well. i have falled in love with him and we always have sex ... (195 words)

Not sure I am in Love but I am my GF first BF and I am scared to shatter her dreams

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25 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and me are facing a huge crisis and it's all my fault. We have had an amazing time together. I have found someone who loves me with all her heart and would do anything to make me happy. The trouble is, my feelings for her are not as strong and I hate myself for ... (265 words)

Virgin, BF cannot get it up. Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - First off: I am a virgin, I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile and we started fooling around the other night and /tried/ to have sex but..... He could not get it in with and without the condom on. We tried missionary and doggy and it just would not go in. I know I'm ... (177 words)

Bleeding after sex an she is no virgin and neither is her periods due?

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25 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. It was my first time ever, not so much hers. After maybe 10 minutes, I pulled out cuz I felt myself slipping, and I wanted to change positions. When I pulled out, the condom brushed against her leg and left a mark,... (405 words)

Hurt my Current BF to be with my EX , but the man I dumped is not coping HELP

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very big problem. So. I had been dating a very nice individual, lets call him bob, for about 7 months and I thought we were very much in love. A few months before I broke it off with him I started to feel distant and then I felt love, but more, friend love. Now... (347 words)

Pregnant by a loser, don't want an abortion and neither want to give up for adoption?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not sure what to do! This past Friday I found out that I am pregnant with my boyfriends second child. He does have a boy from another woman, so we have two children to take care of and now another. I have not told my boyfriend yet and as crazy as this sounds I have been ... (303 words)

Temptation - married man - the devil is toying with me!

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I am a young single woman looking for real love but the wrong type of men seem to keep approaching me they are MARRIED and to me it's not a good thing.Five married men have come my way so far I don't know what they see in me that makes them believe I would cheat ... (144 words)

Annoying friend but she is friends with my BF, how do I lose the baggage

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25 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a question. I'm really confused lately about how I am feeling about this. Please read this whole thing I know it's long but I really need some advice here. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We've known each other for a while and share ... (496 words)

Do you think he is into me or just waiting for sex?

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so i met this guy online he is like 4 years older.. we texted then skyped we hit it off we laughed and he liked my company that night we talked on the phone for like 4 hours, and we talked about everything he told me how many hook ups and relationships and i told him how ... (319 words)

Sexually not satisfied by my inexperienced BF

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25 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello mates, I'm 20 years old and I'm not a virgin. (Active since age 15) I recently met a wonderful man who is 23. I took his virginity a few months ago and we have been having sex since. He's such an amazing fellow! Truly! I also didnt care that he was a virgin but he... (138 words)