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writes:Im 23 from South Africa and currently seperated from my husband. He wants to get a divorce and I dont want to. Is there any way I can get him to go to counceling with me. We have a 1 year old baby and im 16 weeks pregnant. I love him and want us to sort out our problems. He got a protection order agains me, though his claims are false, his dad got the idea in his head to get the order as his dad is making all his disiciouns for him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 March 2013):
 It does not sound like he's interested in fixing the marriage.
you can't force it.
I agree to protect yourself and the children you need an attorney.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2013): To state the obvious, it doesn't sound like he wants the same thing as you do, and perhaps you have no choice but to let this take its course. This seems to be his way of sorting out marriage problems.
Sorry for my bluntness, but it seems like the probable fact here.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 March 2013):
 Well it sounds like there is not a lot you can do I'm afraid if there is a protection order against you, you cant really talk to him if his dad is pulling the strings so you just have to accept it unfortunately.
Speak to a lawyer and make sure that he still pays child support and wont leave you financially struggling especially when you are pregnant.
But you cant force him to want to make the marriage work, if he has already given up then you cant make him change his mind. Move on and get on with your life, focus on your children and make sure they have a good future. That is all you can do.
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