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Archived questions from: 29 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My brother's friend has a girlfriend and yet he keeps staring at me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my older guy friends (whom I like a lot but only as a platonic friend) whom I met through my brother last year literally won't stop staring at me every time we meet, despite the fact I don't see him around too much (I'm at uni though I graduate this summer and as we're ... (476 words)

I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid I'm holding onto him for the wrong reasons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've been pretty sad today and would like to try and get some opinions and advice. This is going to be quite long and I'm sorry, I just want to explain this as well as possible so please read it all. I am 19 and my boyfriend is 23 and we have been together for 1 ... (636 words)

He's so rough that I find myself sore afterward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Whichever way I say it, it will sound awkward so here goes.. I have only had a sexual relationship with one guy, as many I didn't really know what to expect blah blah blah so I pretty much let him do anything. He was quite rough especially when stimulating me with his hands - ... (120 words)

Spice up sex life with some stranger role play - or is this asking for trouble later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts, I could use some opinions/advice! Here's the short: My fiance and I are getting married in 8 months, and we have a great relationship. We've been together almost 3 years, live together most of it and our sex life has diminished the last year. We ran into so... (334 words)

How can I make sex easier for my virgin girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my new girlfriend (since last night) just had our first sexual encounter last night. We played with each other, no actual sex. I've noticed that she's extremely tight. As in, one finger only, two hurts. I asked her if this is normal for her, and she says so, she can'... (186 words)

Should I move forward and contact her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - ok simple questions here for girls or any guys that know from experience. So a couple months ago (sometime in January) I reconnected with a girl I liked in high school. We haven't talked in nearly 12 years and in January we had a nice long chat on Facebook. We exchanged ... (163 words)

Married Man Keeps Staring. How can I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This married man I work with is RIDICULOUS! Im young and single. At first it was flattering, but now it just makes me feel dirty. I just started working there a month ago and he stares at me ALL the time. I wont go into too much detail but its totally obvious that he's ... (165 words)

I've been on the couch for a week because wife goes through my account and sees things she doesn't like

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, so a few years back, an old girlfriend looked me up on Facebook. At the time I didn't know how to not accept it. I just keep clicking "ignore". After about two weeks of clicking ignore, I got tired of the message always popping up so I accepted it. Well my wife went on ... (457 words)

I'm experiencing weird feelings towards a male married coworker! What does this mean and what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound bad probably but I need advice or someone's thoughts. I am married, I've been with my husband for a few years. We have had ups and downs like all marriages, though sometimes I wonder if we are suited to be together forever, we dont seem to connect in some ... (819 words)

How do I ask my coworker out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I'm really struggling to figure out this guy at the moment. I like him, he's attractive, intelligent, funny and enthusiastic- the ideal package really. He's a about 10 years older but I don't see that as a problem because I've always fancied older men. I met him... (209 words)

It is sad that our society is so quick to reinforce the idea of "old maids"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - So, I just want to challenge an attitude that I've found rather unappealing on here. Recently someone asked a question about a woman who was single at 42. She had never married, and Fatherly Advice presented the view that if you have not found an adequate partner in that ... (236 words)

Trouble in figuring out this college girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in my once a week class that i'm into and i'm pretty sure she likes me too, because I've caught her staring at me more than a few times;not that she's just staring without looking but that whenever she does and we make eye contact, she holds it for a couple ... (210 words)

Why do he and his friends watch me all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he and his friends watch me all the time? Is weird? There's this guy that I really like and he's always staring at me when I'm not looking and he'd look away when I catch him. His friends watch me alot too. The other day he was with his group of friends and ... (202 words)

Why does everyone like this girl and want to be with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupid, there is this girl who I know of and I'm quite worried about her and concerned for my friends, but I don't know if I should stay out of it or start doing something about this. Basically, she is going around and fooling around and having 'flings' with a lot of my... (353 words)

How do I tell this girl that I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid I am planning of telling a girl that I like here. I am seeing her for two weeks. how should I proceed and what exactly be a good way of saying that? like.... well, I wanted to tell you I like you?? ... (58 words)

Why can't I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have tried to have sex with my women two times this week and my penis has not worked well at all. Even with her giving me head ....I don’t know what to do. I only 32 and this has never happened before! What is wrong? ... (51 words)

I'm 36, no boyfriend. I want children! I feel like I'm OLD and time is running out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - All of my friends have found significant others and have been married for a while. I was in a long term relationship that didn't work out. He left me after 7 years together for a 25 year old. I find myself single, 36, no prospects. I'm in college and surrounded by people in ... (105 words)

My ex has threatened to post naked photos of me on the internet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I hope you can help me with my current situation. I was in a relationship with a foreigner (dutch guy) for about 6 mos. I decided to have full closure with him since I feel so bad about what had happened 2 mos. ago. He was like a nightmare to me. I never expected that ... (625 words)

Should I make a move on my friend already? Or am I just that clueless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice from a 3rd party. i'm unsure if i should make a move on a friend. shes currently on the outs of an abusive relationship and we've been spending more time together. whenever she's feeling neglected or upset, she'll come to me and we talk and joke around. the ... (258 words)

Had a fling at a party, he's in a relationship, and now he's offered to meet up again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question Don't need a lecture cause I know this is bad but I was at a party last night and I was making out with a lot of people but mostly with one of my classmates boyfriend, they are in gay relationship and I'm gay myself. We was alone at the garden and he wasn't th... (173 words)

I want a FWB relationship that is exclusive with him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I have a friends with 'some' benefits type of relationship going with a very hot n sexy guy. He's the hottest guy I've ever laid eyes on, and he makes me wanna just be free and not hold back in any way, or I might regret it. However, because of risks in catching stds if... (531 words)

I want children and what if my almost 39 year old girlfriend can't have them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I m a 40 years old man. I never had a chance to find someone who I wanted to share mylife with and have children with until a year ago. I had girlfriends but never anyone who I could marry. I m also an only child, as my mother had me in her late 30 s, and after that she tr... (556 words)

Feel unwanted and second best. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, I feel inferiour after an incident happened last week. And it was a real kick in the teeth for me after I have tryed to improve everything. I have always had really bad self esteem, and recently I have been working on it, and ... (843 words)

Is it normal to keep a chart of your sex life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age - I noticed in a drawer that was open, between the porn tapes, a piece of a paper. On the paper was the dates we had sex, where we had sex, the tapes we watched or did not watch and the number orgasim's I had. It appears my significant other has been tabulating my orgasim's. I ... (262 words)

Is boyfriend's behavior common for a depressed person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so it's been a while since I last posted but just a quick back ground on my relationship. I've been with my bf/ fiancee for two years 3 months ( we got engaged about a year ago) we have a one yr old daughter and I'm currently 8 1/2 months pregnant. My boyfriend started ... (337 words)

I am not sure if my boyfriend is proposing or just hinting at marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm having this strong feeling in my gut but I might be wrong but my boyfriend of nearly five months kept hinting about marriage, adopting kids, living together, etc...I am not 100% sure but I think he's trying to find a way to propose in a funny way. One, I am not sure if I'm ... (80 words)

What is the difference between making love and having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the difference between making love and having sex? Is it more morally right to make love rather than have sex? My BF says he could never just have sex but would like to make love (we are both 19) and just wanted thoughts please, not on us sleeping together as much as ... (66 words)

I am a virgin, girlfriend is not. I am afraid I can't measure up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I just met this girl 4 months ago and things couldn't have been better. We hit everything off perfectly. But I'll get directly to the issue. Eventually I brought up topic of previous sexual history and I asked to be honest. I'm 21 years old, only had one girlfriend before ... (412 words)

Want to break up with controlling boyfriend but I lost my friends, my support since he told me "you only need me."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone im 18yrs old and i been dating my boyfriend for 3yrs. Its been an off and on relationship for years. At first he was everything i always wanted gave me all his love and affection. We use to have a billion and one things to talk about but now he never has nothing ... (329 words)

Did she steal my boyfriend and what should I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend were together for just over a year. He was my first love, I lost my virginity to him etc. He meant everything to me and was my best friend for a long time. 6 weeks ago he started talking to this girl who was interested in a friend of ours. Everything was ... (1028 words)

This is my 4th long term relationship. I don't want it to end but I am at my wit's end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am asking a question on behalf on my friend, who is 45. I am a guy in a 1 year 2 month relationship with a woman with 2 kids 15 and 18. My GF is 42 yo. We are in love and have talked about getting married and having a child although recently she shared that she won... (544 words)

Ex girlfriend wants to be friends, but I'm not over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age - Dated exGF for about a year and a half. For a part of it we were off/on but the "off's" didn't last longer than a day or two. Anyhow, she broke off everything almost 3 months ago, but has continued to contact me, saying she still loves me but "can't date" me etc etc. I have ... (243 words)

Dilemma--ex girlfriend pregnant wants me back but I'm dating someone else now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, in late nov I met this rlly cute gurl n we really hit it off and we had sex for first weekend and we had sex again a week later n she told she took birth control. And she had her period in the same week. And then she blew me off n hurt me n we didnt c and talk to ... (151 words)

He hasn't tried to hold my hand nor kiss me or anything. Should I believe him when he says he wants to be more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago I met a guy and we have been hanging out 2-3 times a week since then. I'm very confused by him though. In the few short weeks we've known each other, I've met his family, we made plans months in advance, we are doing couple things but he hasn't tried to hold ... (172 words)

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cookies and gave him little gift... (522 words)

Help! My Boyfriend keeps on hanging out with this other girl. Pays no attention to me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does. That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with him much so. I ask him if h... (160 words)

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

29 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something petty and I said some things in t... (268 words)