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Archived questions from: 10 March, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for nearly a year since he left. T... (284 words)

My long term boyfriend will not help me with my application. This is stressing me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is my problem. I’ve been with this guy for almost for years in distance relationship. Last year I couldn’t fix things with moving my studies to his country so I broke up with him, because I didn’t have strength to do it anymore but really short after we saw we couldn’t b... (346 words)

How can I attract a boyfriend? I want to have someone reliable who I can count on to be my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3869 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 going on 17 and I still don't have a boyfriend. My friends have boyfriends and have at least had their first kiss except for me. It's not that I want to have a boyfriend because of my friends or that I'm in some kind of race to find a boyfriend, its just that I ... (140 words)

Does she have feelings for me? How can I determine this by her words and her actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all I know a woman who is single and she is aged around 42-45. We speak openly and are good friends too. When talking to me she told me that she is bored and needs company. She told me she wants to start a new life. I understand her desperation. But are these indication... (88 words)

How to let go of feelings you have for someone I'll never meet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my problem is pretty straightforward.. There's a guy at my school who passed away about two years before I got there. I did not know him, I didn't even almost know him, but I find myself very attracted to him. Even though I've only seen pictures. I keep hearing abou... (195 words)

Is it possible that this cashier likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4270 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a female also......if a woman made a special effort to do a complete 360 turn around while she was busy with customers just to say hi to you and give you the biggest cheesest smile showing all 32 teeth, how would take that? friendly aka doing her job, or she likes ME? ... (351 words)

Why did the gym instructor give me such a reduced rate? Was he just trying to get into my pants?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So the other day I went to the gym and asked one of the trainers there how much he charges for personal training. We've talked a couple times, and he did an assessment on me back when I first got my membership. I think he's so cute, except I'm 16 and he's around his 30s. I ... (135 words)

Is my boyfriend protective or is controlling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently, if I have been going to my friends house ( once , actually recently) my boyfriend would be like ' are you home yet? When you coming home? Please come Home' when it would be around 11 ish or so on a school night. I am 18, boyfriend 20. Last nightI went to my friends ... (181 words)

Do you have to look like a porn star to get your boyfriend to masturbate over you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've heard some men masturbate over their own girlfriends. Some don't. Do you have to look like a pornstar and be really hot before your boyfriend will masturbate to thoughts of you instead of porn?... (35 words)

My girlfriend has been treating me differently ever since I told her that I wear a wig

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a very good looking guy,I'm the lead guitarist for the university,I also play for the college football ..don't juge I'm saying this because I have a secret which will make people think I'm fakee.. I always got the women I wanted and now I'm finally with a woman I w... (155 words)

My girlfriend gives me orders not to do something but its ok if she does it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been living with my girlfriend and her 2 kids for over a year. we lived in part of town moved to another part when we moved she changed. i do the dishs my own laundry sweep and mop the kitchen/dinning room floor. the appartment owner has a grounds keeper to mawn the lawn. ... (220 words)

What else can I take to end my periods?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (?) age 26-29 - i am trying to stop my periods by takin g the pill (progestogen only pill) but its not, is there anything else that i can do that will sztop it for a year or two because it hurts so much it it physically and mentally tires me out! ... (48 words)

I need to break things over ASAP but don't know how to go about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a date with a guy and then got into a relationship with him, but I have since realised we are not suited/ I am not happy with this. I need to end it ASAP so as not to lead him on, but I need some advice on how. I'll give a bit of 'back story': *He quite recently g... (190 words)

How do I ignore the constant diet chatter I face every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on how to ignore the constant diet chat I seem to be faced with every day as it is not helping with my own issues surrounding food. Basically, until I was about 22 I had a healthy relationship with food and didn't really focus much on what I ate or when. I ... (539 words)

How can I trust that he will never hurt me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts, I have written about this man on a couple of occasions in the past 3 years and got very sound advise. I thought I'd try again. So, to make a loooong story short, I met him, I was not interested, gradually he won me over comletely. I thought he was the man of my life.... (322 words)

Do guys even like small boobs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm 15 and my boobs are really small. Like 34A. I get teased about it a lot and I feel really bad about how I look. ?? Do guys even like small boobs? Why do they like big ones so much anyways? ... (44 words)

Is there any hope for a man who is sexually "broken"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. Here it goes. I'm 30 and have never been in any sort of relationship with a woman. I keep to myself mostly and don't really enjoy going out and doing much of anything. I've been feeling very lonely lately and it's been getting worse. It's gotten to the point that I spend ... (351 words)

Why does he still have his mail going to his mom's house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does he still keep his mothers adress on everything when he's been living with me for almost 3yrs already? Its my house yes we are both divorced yes he's commited 2me...but why won't he change his address now? Please give me some feedback...!... (45 words)

I'm not interested in dating a man who has had meaningless sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a question, basically it is this what are the chances of finding a man who has only had sex exclusively in relationships? I'm not keen on the idea of being with a man who had sex with people without emotions attached. I am also not keen on being with a man who has ... (76 words)

I really want to break up with this guy but my mom says it will be a mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I started dating my best friend 2 weeks ago, and he's already saying that he loves me etc, I feel so suffocated, I've told him and he listens, for about an hour, and then goes back to saying it. :/ This guy is amazing, I know he'd do anything for me, but he did t... (288 words)

Why would being on the pill make my face bloated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've noticed since being off the pill my face has thinned out, I did notice when I was on it my face always looked more fuller and sometimes bloated which I couldn't understand.. So I decided to come off it to see if it was a result from the pill and now i've been off it my ... (90 words)

He and I are quite close. Do you think he's telling me he's leaving his wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Married man at work rang my mobile whilst I was at work an he at home; I didn't know he had my number, He was very drunk and told me he needed to hear my voice and he missed me then told me he needed to tell me something. So I asked what? He said wait till Monday. So I ask... (117 words)

Am I just a fall-back option for her? Now that she's broken up with her Bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, here's my problem: There's a girl I really like, one day she starts texting a lot with me, she wants me to skype with her (something we've never done that often before). She is texting me almost at any time of the day. Three days later, she tells me that she broke u... (156 words)

Team working and negotiation skills versus getting things exactly how I think is best. Should I just force myself to like they way they like to do the report?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a college course that requires me to write several reports on laboratory activities. I ended up in a lab group with two of my friends, which I get along with perfectly fine. However, I've always had trouble working in groups. I have a very specific way of writing,... (254 words)

My grandma invited him and he didn't show up. Now he's angry that she didn't invite him this time. He got sarcastic. Does he even have the right to be mad?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday I casually told my boyfriend that today I was going to lunch at my grandma's place. He asked me why, so I told him she was going to cook one of my favorite dishes, so she had invited me. His answer: "Well, thank your grandma for the invitation!" - a sarcastic r... (175 words)

Confidence issue? Emotional intelligence problem? Just conversational skills issue? When I'm trying to have a normal conversation with people, something wrong always comes out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Everytime i'm trying to have a normal conversation with people, something wrong comes out. It gets weird and they will all try to correct me. I dont know the way to speak to people and it hurts me daily. I always feel stupid and useless to this world. My life is full o... (134 words)

Could he actually be interested? Do guys after a FWB relationship usually make a point of keeping in touch every day, making 'dates' in advance?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Thanks to a lack of willing participants, a casual acquaintance and I ended up having a night out at the pub. We're both single and ended up going back to his place. We had an amazing few hours and crashed out. He was supposed to be heading out for a work friends birthday... (474 words)

I've stopped crying so much, but I could really use some advice on how to deal with our breakup, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll try to keep this short. Was with a guy for just under a year, one day I asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he couldn't answer the question. HE basically told me he was ending the relationship, then decided that we should keep it going till we hit a year th... (208 words)

We've been broken up for months. Yet now I feel guilty when I see another guy. Could it be that my ex has destroyed my confidence in me? My ex made me feel like I was nothing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3864 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure exactly where this feeling is coming from, I shouldn't feel guilty after what he did but I do every time. So I just need advice on why this may be... I was dating this guy for 5 months, it ended over 2 months ago and still the feeling of guilt when I talk to a... (339 words)

How can I support my wife to consider resuming sexual relations with me? My Wife will not have sex with me and it hurts :(

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - It's like 3:30 in the morning right now, my wife is sleeping next to me and I need to get some advice and get this off my chest. Age is a good start I think, gives people an idea of what your looking at. I'm 28, I workout and I would say I'm a attractive guy :) ....my wife is ... (1616 words)

My depressed Bf is shutting everyone out, including me. What are the best ways to support him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been having issues choosing his major for months. It's taken its toll on him and he did go to the psychiatrist four days ago and was diagnosed depression- he was subsequently put on xanax for anxiety and prozac last Wednesday. He asked to see me that same day... (637 words)

I finally told her how much I like her. How do I deal with my feelings for her? And what do I do now I’ve told her???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this girl, who tells me I’m one of her best friends in the world. I'd do everything and anything for her. I have done everything for her. Whatever she needs, whenever she needs it, I’ve been there. I've never had any kind of romantic feelings for her. She has a boyfri... (251 words)

She's a junior in high school and she just broke up with me, Should I wait for her? Or keep trying to change her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for two and a half years. We have been happily in love since we first met, of course with the usual ups and downs of a normal relationship. Recently one of her aunts found out she was dating me from rumors going around and is starting to tell... (290 words)

He sent me a naked photo with a comment about his penis. I was unimpressed. Shall I just give up? What do you think he's playing at?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been dating this guy for nearly a month now. We had three dates only. First one, we just got to know each other over coffee and it was good, we liked each other! Then, before the second date, he wooed me by texts, we then saw each for the second date for coffee, ... (215 words)

Broke up. No sleep for three days. Very troubled relationship. How is the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 18 months finished with me on Thursday via FaceBook and won’t speak to me or see me. He said he's had enough of me putting him down and shouting at him, but I haven’t, yes we have had arguments but I don’t think I’ve been as horrible as he’s trying to say I am :... (592 words)

No pleasure for me, Only doubted relationship with horrid sexual memories. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently at a loss right now. I have serious issues within my marriage its not funny at all. I have been married for almost three years will be three years on March 16th. Personally I am unsure as to where to start. First my husband and I have fights about almost ... (773 words)

Is it weird that I like chubby guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a tall, skinny 17 year old that likes chubby guys. I just wanted to know if its weird that I like chubby guys? Also I wanted to know if chubby guys like skinny girls?... (35 words)

Do I leave my b/f because my biological clock is ticking and he's not even close to being ready for children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is five years younger than me (I'm 33, he's 28). Before we got together, I told him I was worried about the age gap as I don't think I'm willing to leave trying to have children later than 36, as I don't think it's safe. He said he wanted kids in "five to ten years". ... (263 words)

I feel like one of my best pals no longer needs me. What is the best way to deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

10 March 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I feel like one of my best pals doesn't need me anymore and couldn't care less about me. Since he's had his new gf neither me nor any of our mates have really seen him. At first I understood this as at the start of a relationship you're getting to know each other etc b... (619 words)

Is my boyfriend is hiding something from me? I need advice please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4273 days ago

10 March 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is a very respectable guy. He has strong morals and he sticks to them. If anyone were to say he was caught with drugs or he cheated on me others would laugh. So am I wrong to be worried that he's cheating on me? Or hiding something from me? He has always ... (705 words)